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Re: What To Learn From Pastor Chris And Pastor Anita Marriage Saga! by 3kay945(m): 4:36pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
I wasnt interested in this case before. My question is who approach the court first? If there was true love between them before then why causing this embarrassments? Jesus wouldn't have taken this path |
Re: What To Learn From Pastor Chris And Pastor Anita Marriage Saga! by nep2ra(m): 4:39pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
There is no lesson to learn here. You need to learn to mind your business and shut the feck up! Busybody. |
Re: What To Learn From Pastor Chris And Pastor Anita Marriage Saga! by Nobody: 4:39pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
Vikky014: even Rev fathers and sisters? EVEN YOU AND YOUR FEMALE FRIENDS |
Re: What To Learn From Pastor Chris And Pastor Anita Marriage Saga! by iceberylin(m): 4:42pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
How e carry concern you na ojotask: This is getting boring bros . . . |
Re: What To Learn From Pastor Chris And Pastor Anita Marriage Saga! by Vikky014(f): 4:45pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
donnypool:HAHAHAHAHA(DTS NONE OF MY BIZ) |
Re: What To Learn From Pastor Chris And Pastor Anita Marriage Saga! by tymund: 4:57pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
Mr moderator Just a friendly advise be very careful to comment or write about any man of God, when the negative effect stars telling on you nobody will be there to sympathize with you, every thing will be against you One of the signs you will notice is loads of troubles coming after you. But if you reject this advise watch out and start counting from today.....it doesn't matter if you believe it or not |
Re: What To Learn From Pastor Chris And Pastor Anita Marriage Saga! by Nobody: 5:00pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
Jennydoris: 1. Never Deprive your spouse with attention, Love and As usual is the husband fault, and its a female that post all this. what do u expect..mscheew |
Re: What To Learn From Pastor Chris And Pastor Anita Marriage Saga! by EugeneGee4(m): 5:11pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
Jennydoris: 1. Never Deprive your spouse with attention, Love and |
Re: What To Learn From Pastor Chris And Pastor Anita Marriage Saga! by Blofeld(m): 5:13pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
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Re: What To Learn From Pastor Chris And Pastor Anita Marriage Saga! by Nobody: 5:18pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
If you cant manage something as small as a family, na church u wan manage? Oh! I forgot! Its all about the money they say. Money don't trip Anita then. 3 Likes |
Re: What To Learn From Pastor Chris And Pastor Anita Marriage Saga! by Jesuspistol(m): 5:24pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
Jennydoris: 1. Never Deprive your spouse with attention, Love and U re on point The family comes 1st before ministry. But couples should knw that they need to fear/respect God more than they love their spouse. A man/woman who fears God would treat his/her spouse right. Many singles would rather pray God give me a spouse dat would love me instead of a spouse that loves/fears God. One reason I think God doesn't pay attention to most breaking marriages is dat the right spouse wants his/her straying husband/wife to come back to him/her and not to God. So God wonders who really owns the heart of the lost spouse 1st...is it ME(God) or you? I would rather pray...God win back ur daughter's/son's heart to urself. If he/she's won back by God, he/she will be committed to me. As in we shouldn't be possessive of our spouse more than God. Bible explains that we would only have our lives when we loose them not when we're so possessive of them. Dats d lesson I learnt. 2 Likes |
Re: What To Learn From Pastor Chris And Pastor Anita Marriage Saga! by Toks2008(m): 5:25pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
You can be together and grow old together if both of you are willing to work it out. Every relationship has a cycle… In the beginning; you fall in love with your partner. You anticipate their calls, want their touch, and like their idiosyncrasies. Falling in love wasn’t hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn’t have to DO anything. That’s why it’s called “falling” in love. People in love sometimes say, “I was swept of my feet.” Picture the expression. It implies that you were just standing there, doing nothing, and then something happened TO YOU. Falling in love is a passive and spontaneous experience. But after a few months or years of being together, the euphoria of love fades. It’s a natural cycle of EVERY relationship. Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they call at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens) and your spouse’s idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts. The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship, you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage. At this point, you and/or your partner might start asking, “Am I with the right person?” And as you reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone else. This is when relationships breakdown. People blame their partners for their unhappiness and look outside for fulfillment just to start that same circle all again and later realize the former partner was way better than the present one and then some people opt out once more to start that same circle all over with another new person and at this point the world starts looking at you as a clueless no good person who can never be happy with anyone. The key to succeeding in a relationship is not finding the right person, it’s learning to love the person you found. Did you read that last paragraph?please get this once more; The key to succeeding in a relationship is not finding the right person, it’s learning to love the person you found. Loving someone is not by accident,its not a feeling,its a conscious decision by the people involved to be together and weather the storms together and not looking for an easy way out. The storms of lack,incompatibility childlessness, family scuffle,infidelity,bitterness,and many more. Until both of you are willing to make it work,only then will GOD come in to make it happen. Because two people can never work together except they agree. Hope this helps. https://www.facebook.com/kadiri.o.olatokunbo/posts/765811303455982:6 2 Likes |
Re: What To Learn From Pastor Chris And Pastor Anita Marriage Saga! by blasterman(m): 5:26pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
Bobby4090: One very important fact you forgot is never bring strange women into your matrimonial home to live. Christ embassy that is full of girls and women with problems. If u give the men a chance they can or will all become his wives. All of them are so obsessed by him both men and women. Pastor Chris this pastor Chris that u will think he is Jesus |
Re: What To Learn From Pastor Chris And Pastor Anita Marriage Saga! by free2ryhme: 5:34pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
Lawprince: Marrying minors below the morally acceptable age. Kids too young to engage legally in a particular activity, ... having sex. Because it was practiced under an ancient law or legal system does not justify it morally. And where do mary come into the picture |
Re: What To Learn From Pastor Chris And Pastor Anita Marriage Saga! by Nobody: 5:35pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
Frankmishael: fool Go hump your bible, "Agba Were Mesin" |
Re: What To Learn From Pastor Chris And Pastor Anita Marriage Saga! by vega84(m): 5:37pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
There is no excuse fr this divorce saga,for Christ sake they are both pastors they should work tins out no matter what or do they mean tell us that the preach to encourage divorce? Do they mean to tell us that if a member comes to them wit this manner of martial problem they will advice DIVORCE? #vegadontalk# |
Re: What To Learn From Pastor Chris And Pastor Anita Marriage Saga! by GRAND30(m): 5:40pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
Although there are no super situation-specific rules to an impeccable marital union, but OP gets it right as usual. Where was Adam when the serpent cornered Eve in the Garden of Eden? This incident shows that physical separation or distance could open the door for a quick breakdown. Learn wisdom from Ecclesiastes 4:9, "Two are better than one; because they have a good reward for their labour." However, Ecclesiastes 4:11 makes an even stronger point, "Again, if two lie together, then they have heat: but how can one be warm alone?" Living in a distant land apart from your spouse leaves you in the tortuous hands of incontinence. And a well-placed man who decides that his PA(s) must be female has simply lit fire in his private stronghold. Shalom people! |
Re: What To Learn From Pastor Chris And Pastor Anita Marriage Saga! by Toks2008(m): 5:40pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
Haaa! Just discovered that Anita is a piscean lady. She is not materialistic and very very sacrificing. She will do her best to salvage her family and she tends to be taken for granted but her problem is that she lacks good communication and usually go with the flow until she feels she cant take it no more then her unrealistic and unreasonable side takes over. She rarely cheats on her man and a good option for a lasting union. If she feels she is not treated fairly,she takes a walk. Trust me,she is a gentle lady that hates dcuffles but if she feels a strong love for her hubby and her hubby truly shows her he still wants her,she will find it hard to leave because piscean ladies love to feel wanted and needed. Trust me,she gives no damn about all the wealth,she is an emotional person and she does not like been taken for granted. I understand her perfectly because i was also married to a piscean lady.. These are ladies born between February 20 and March 20, 2 Likes |
Re: What To Learn From Pastor Chris And Pastor Anita Marriage Saga! by Jesuspistol(m): 5:43pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
Pls I'll advice men that no matter how pastoral or gentle-looking or SU- looking you are, make sure u are a LION on bed. Give ur wife a mind-blowing sex. Stop being SU in the bed pls. The bible did not say frequent mind-blowing sex is a sin. 2 Likes |
Re: What To Learn From Pastor Chris And Pastor Anita Marriage Saga! by Nobody: 5:43pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
Toks2008: Haaa! Just discovered that Anita is a piscean lady. Yeah but does she have a Piscean Lawyer or does she have Gloria Allred aka The Beoytch In Heat as a lawyer? No offense but the amount of divorce winnings here is in a different league than yours. |
Re: What To Learn From Pastor Chris And Pastor Anita Marriage Saga! by henry78okez(m): 5:46pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
Swithrt, honestly, U said it all. There is absolutely nothing to add or subtract. God bless U richly 4 these pieces of write-up 2 Likes |
Re: What To Learn From Pastor Chris And Pastor Anita Marriage Saga! by Toks2008(m): 5:59pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
Toks2008: Haaa! Just discovered that Anita is a piscean lady. Now i know why Pator chris said we should pray for her because if you have ever experienced the mysterous nature of these ladies you will bow. They are the best type of ladies you will ever wished for but when they start their madness you will just start wondering. THEY CAN BE TERRIBLY UNREASONABLE So OP abeg,in this case the biggest lesson is that any aggrieved party must communicate sternly. Trust me,if Anita has called Pastor chris on a very serious soul to soul dscussion,there will not be any need for this drama she is putting up. They have a way of giving you no real clue they are hurting until they decide to swim away just to stall their life somewhere. This is the unbias truth. |
Re: What To Learn From Pastor Chris And Pastor Anita Marriage Saga! by bosun11(m): 6:08pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
Jennydoris: 1. Never Deprive your spouse with attention, Love and VERY INSPIRING TOPIC...GOD BLESS YOU REAL GOOD..AMEN 3 Likes |
Re: What To Learn From Pastor Chris And Pastor Anita Marriage Saga! by gateway100: 6:23pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
Why do people like using panadol for another man's headache. Pls free pastor Chris |
Re: What To Learn From Pastor Chris And Pastor Anita Marriage Saga! by princebergz(m): 6:24pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
Lilimax: Nice write up but would have been good if Pastor Chris and any derogatory remarks here?? pastors are humans not deities. btw learn what you can Nd be balanced in your thinking 1 Like |
Re: What To Learn From Pastor Chris And Pastor Anita Marriage Saga! by dnawah(m): 6:25pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
Op u got it wrong to me.every christian must be tempted.CHRIST himself was tempted.a woman shall not live by banana alone,not a man by kpomo(by finger or soap) but by him,who has come and gone and is to come again.(soon.this will save a lot of soul from going to hell,with this it doesn't matter people and they half naked babes. |
Re: What To Learn From Pastor Chris And Pastor Anita Marriage Saga! by Nobody: 6:35pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
Awwww I've written dem down wen I get married I pledge to always live by these rules God helping me. Amen! |
Re: What To Learn From Pastor Chris And Pastor Anita Marriage Saga! by sarutobie(m): 6:37pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
op missed one final key to holding your marriage and weathering the storm that comes with it....FORGIVENESS...any true Christian who says this prayer "and forgive us our trespass as we forgive those who trespass against us" should practice it in spirit and in truth..that is the love christ talked about..remember when a disciple asked christ "how many times should I forgive my brother, seven times?" and the Lord answered "seventy times seven".....even christ forgave those who nailed him on the cross with his dying breath...preachers practice what you preach! |
Re: What To Learn From Pastor Chris And Pastor Anita Marriage Saga! by mediachirps(m): 6:38pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
Parkac: Insightful. But the environment in Nigeria makes some of the points impossible.you've spoken the heart of a common man on the street. In a typical Nigerian society, welfare comes first.....'An empty pocket man deserve no erect.... |
Re: What To Learn From Pastor Chris And Pastor Anita Marriage Saga! by berrystunn(m): 6:43pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
Lean not to marry a white or half white... There thinking is different. Story You think say if NA full 9ja woman she go divorce? |
Re: What To Learn From Pastor Chris And Pastor Anita Marriage Saga! by Suresh08: 6:57pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
How the hell did this trash get to front page ? |
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