95% of ladies owes the perception that says "when a guy chase you for long with swt words and material things, then the guy undoubtedly loves you" (#Pure_delusion).
First, lets identify the traits of #Badguys and relate how the perception above blends with the traits of badguys.
Bad guys are mouthful with teasing words.
They've mastered the art of fine tuning their verbal and non verbal skills owed to passed experience and encounters.
They knows no boundary to retreat when a lady is not reciprocating to their advancement. Its like a challenge for them to get the lady they've desired, so they resort to material means and keep pestering the lady for compliance, this is because bad-guys are preoccupied and obsess with the thoughts of women i:e #Womanizers.
Funny anough, this 95% of ladies have set the perception above as a yardstick for any guy that they will eventually soccumb to.
Unknown to them that they've spread the mat for bad-guys to come and lay on.
There is a reason why am writing these elongating epistle but above-all, ladies need to change that perception, this is 21st century pulease!.
Goodguys or better-still responsible guys are more-or-less introvert like. They don't deem it right to pester a chic.
1. They have sense of moderation and boundaries. They like being decent and modest in all ramification, therefore pestering a lady for long will seem silly, misguided and irresponsible.
2. They are not preoccupied and obsess with the thought of women. Thats the trait of womanizers which the badguys are possessed with. As a responsible good guy they have vast things of interest, therefore can't occupy the mind anough to devise tactics to keep pestering ladies. Moreso, they're void of experience as a non-womanizer.
3. Responsible guys have much channels of expenditures and liabilities. So, the idea of being materialistic in pestering ladies is totally out of the good guys traits.
4. Goodguys are more futuristic and calculative. They only feels the push to do things that'll yield good fruit at the long run. They don't frequent in flexing and drinking.

Did d gal of ur dreams leave u 4 1 badt guy lyk dat? :-D

Sori bro

Nice guys finish last

Don't hate the player...

u r right.....gud guy r more futuristic and calculative

i smell a counter thread,

watchthisposter: Did d gal of ur dreams leave u 4 1 badt guy lyk dat? :-D

Sori bro

Nice guys finish last

Don't hate the player...

Nice guys lives happy ever after.
They are more content than the bad guys.

PapaNnamdi: i smell a counter thread,

They have nothin to counter.... Its da fact

Cos 95% of guys are the bad guys....

valdes00: Cos 95% of guys are the bad guys....

Nope, good guys are more than 5%. Its just that we have some bad-girls who will only desire men for player sake. And guys will now be forced to behave like the bad guys.

I dnt knw y i always end up wit players

rahymat: I dnt knw y i always end up wit players

Dear, you are definitely using the wrong approach.
*Maybe the things that catches ur interest are things that the responsible guys don't fancy.
*This may sound a little harsh but maybe, you don't posses the traits a goodguy will admire... Also, goodguys don't like liabilities... Just like they don't hang out for long or ever hang out with friends that are not like them.
You need define your self and work towards improving ur personality because improvement also comes with respect in all its ramifications.
When a good guy comes, you decipher the good traits, don't frustrate and chase him away but don't loose ur self in. Just concentrate on those things that makes u guys connect as a responsible friends. No bottom-seduction. That female butt power will only over shadow ur respect and good traits.