Some say love is the spark you feel when attracted to some one but what happens when the spark wears out. Some threads on Nairaland got me thinking lately if love is realy real or just an illusion, a cycle we need to pass through as humans. One of such thread is this www.nairaland.com/1900798/super-rich-nigerian-men-super I was arguing with my friends that any lady in her 20s Who agree to marry a man as old as 70yrs did not marry for love but for money since at most the man will live for 2 more decades and she will inherit an empire of wealth. For those who will want to argue, my question is will the same lady agree to marry a poor man of 70?..now you see my point.

Also, another thread talked about a lady who left her boyfriend for another man for lack of ''prospect''. Now, if she love the guy why cant she help him to achive his potentials and prospect. This shows that love tend to exist when confort is on the radar.
Even to married couples, do they realy love themselves or they marry cos its a script that need to be executed and for this they need accomodability nd tolerance of the partner..
Lets keep this discussion going..

People thinks it's the former.........but it's actually the latter

Love is FÜCKING real

Shaaam who knows

Real love exist...d problem is...u hardly see a real and sincere love da last forever...' ain't no ever after'....

jideomowunmi: Real love exist...d problem is...u hardly see a real and sincere love da last forever...' ain't no ever after'....

True that

yes op is does,but hard to finding i.e getting that right person that wouldnt go wrong

There is real / true love but I think it is rare.

http://metro.co.uk/2014/08/05/true-love-story-elderly-couple-die-holding-hands-just-four-hours-apart-4821619/

fuckshit: Love is FÜCKING real

You fvcking kidding Me? Love ain't fvcking real.
It's a fvcking mere illusion fvcker.

Love is. Abt Making choice on ow u feel. It is an illusionif u can't decide on wat u really want.

Love is a Mystery.

It's as real as you make it.

TrollMan:

You fvcking kidding Me? Love ain't fvcking real.
It's a fvcking mere illusion fvcker.

nope, fuckshit ain't FÜCKING around with this love is FÜCKING real.

Real love is about FÜCKING caring about your partner's feelings & wanting to treat him/her with respect

Love isn't just FÜCKING emotions, different from FÜCKING Lust which is about the shortest FÜCKING distance to the bedroom.

True love takes work, it's not a FÜCKING noun but a verb it's FÜCKING unconditional. Love grows over time & develops from going through the FÜCKING storms together.

Real love grows out of a choice. We should FÜCKING desire love from someone who chooses to love us unconditionally, not from someone who is just FÜCKING high on emotional drugs & claiming to love us.

Fuckshit! You are fücking amazing Bro. That was the most fücking emtional piece of fücking love shiit I've ever read in my entire fücking life.

You a fücking writer Bro? Mehn that was fücking lovely. Fückshit you rock!

TrollMan: Fuckshit! You are fücking amazing Bro. That was the most fücking emtional piece of fücking love shiit I've ever read in my entire fücking life.

You a fücking writer Bro? Mehn that was fücking lovely. Fückshit you rock!

A big FÜCKING thanks
just had to FÜCKING let it all out

fuckshit: nope, fuckshit ain't FÜCKING around with this love is FÜCKING real.

Real love is about FÜCKING caring about your partner's feelings & wanting to treat him/her with respect

Love isn't just FÜCKING emotions, different from FÜCKING Lust which is about the shortest FÜCKING distance to the bedroom.

True love takes work, it's not a FÜCKING noun but a verb it's FÜCKING unconditional. Love grows over time & develops from going through the FÜCKING storms together.

Real love grows out of a choice. We should FÜCKING desire love from someone who chooses to love us unconditionally, not from someone who is just FÜCKING high on emotional drugs & claiming to love us.

you are just fùcķing weird

fuckshit: nope, fuckshit ain't FÜCKING around with this love is FÜCKING real.

Real love is about FÜCKING caring about your partner's feelings & wanting to treat him/her with respect

Love isn't just FÜCKING emotions, different from FÜCKING Lust which is about the shortest FÜCKING distance to the bedroom.

True love takes work, it's not a FÜCKING noun but a verb it's FÜCKING unconditional. Love grows over time & develops from going through the FÜCKING storms together.

Real love grows out of a choice. We should FÜCKING desire love from someone who chooses to love us unconditionally, not from someone who is just FÜCKING high on emotional drugs & claiming to love us.

This dude is fuuckin hilarous¡ Your coments, moniker, down to your signature.. Plus I thnk..u do make a lot of sense in your comments u know.; but most ppl, I believe don't know this. They are probably distracted by your swearin. So I'd love to see more of ur fuuckin comments...i jst fuuckin followed u..bravo¡

equlibrium:
you are just fùcķing weird

just FÜCKING being fuckshit & having some FÜCKING fun

True love exist,its not just the type you see on movies or you read in books

I don't believe in love and it simply does not exist.

HeyChiko: This dude is fuuckin hilarous¡ Your coments, moniker, down to your signature.. Plus I thnk..u do make a lot of sense in your comments u know.; but most ppl, I believe don't know this. They are probably distracted by your swearin. So I'd love to see more of ur fuuckin comments...i jst fuuckin followed u..bravo¡

FÜCK!! Thanks.

Fvckshit u funy

True love is basically the mindset Dat "wats mine is urs"