This happened today. She is my very close friend, with no strings attached. A few hours ago, she called me and was weeping uncontrollably.. All effort on my part to know what was wrong and to console her proved abortive. Thus, I had to go visit her personally. Personally, I have a strict policy of not having physical contact of any kind with a sobbing female friend, while consoling her. This is because on many occasions, what started as mere consolation ended up being an x-rated movie.
So here I am in her house, just two of us. She is sitting on the bed, and there is poor me sitting on her reading table, trying to console her 'wirelessly'. I only end up aggravating my wailing friend.
Finally, against my better judgement, I go sit beside her, draw her close, and try to wipe the tears from her eyes. Within minutes,my shirt was soaked with her tears.. In between sobs, that was when she told me that her boyfriend of 6 years, who had just proposed to her last week, had just died in an oil rig mishap..
I did my best to comfort her, ' my best' being, among other things, holding her face in my hands and telling her that God knows best, and I would always be there whenever she needs me.
That was when disaster struck... She suddenly stopped sobbing, looking me straight in the eye, stared at my lips momentarily, and leaned forward to kiss me..momentarily I froze.. Within that frozen moment, I remembered my bitchy girlfriend and how similar experiences had ended.. So despite my full blown arousal( there was no way I will sit so close to such perfection, and not get aroused), I promptly planted a wet kiss on her forehead and released her a bit.
There was an uncomfortable silence, during which she completely extricated herself from my arms. We sat down silently for some time, both of us avoiding eye contact with each other..
Suddenly she got up, and thanked me for coming. I took the cue ( she wanted me to leave immediately). Thus I took my leave, not quite sure if i haven't lost a dear friend, or worse still, acquired a mortal enemy.
Back in my house, I try calling her, but she doesn't answer my calls. I send her bbm chats, but she reads them but doesn't reply.


Please I need advice.. I am at a loss on how to handle this matter.

Let her be you did the right and sensible thing.

Coldfeet: Let her be you did the right and sensible thing.

^^^@Op, do what she said.


Let her be.

Whats the title of the movie again

I hope its not "wet willy"

she is nt hersef now so let ha be n soon she wl get bak at u.

Tut tut

Tinubu: This happened today. She is my very close friend, with no strings attached. A few hours ago, she called me and was weeping uncontrollably.. All effort on my part to know what was wrong and to console her proved abortive. Thus, I had to go visit her personally. Personally, I have a strict policy of not having physical contact of any kind with a sobbing female friend, while consoling her. This is because on many occasions, what started as mere consolation ended up being an x-rated movie.
So here I am in her house, just two of us. She is sitting on the bed, and there is poor me sitting on her reading table, trying to console her 'wirelessly'. I only end up aggravating my wailing friend.
Finally, against my better judgement, I go sit beside her, draw her close, and try to wipe the tears from her eyes. Within minutes,my shirt was soaked with her tears.. In between sobs, that was when she told me that her boyfriend of 6 years, who had just proposed to her last week, had just died in an oil rig mishap..
I did my best to comfort her, ' my best' being, among other things, holding her face in my hands and telling her that God knows best, and I would always be there whenever she needs me.
That was when disaster struck... She suddenly stopped sobbing, looking me straight in the eye, stared at my lips momentarily, and leaned forward to kiss me..momentarily I froze.. Within that frozen moment, I remembered my bitchy girlfriend and how similar experiences had ended.. So despite my full blown arousal( there was no way I will sit so close to such perfection, and not get aroused), I promptly planted a wet kiss on her forehead and released her a bit.
There was an uncomfortable silence, during which she completely extricated herself from my arms. We sat down silently for some time, both of us avoiding eye contact with each other..
Suddenly she got up, and thanked me for coming. I took the cue ( she wanted me to leave immediately). Thus I took my leave, not quite sure if i haven't lost a dear friend, or worse still, acquired a mortal enemy.
Back in my house, I try calling her, but she doesn't answer my calls. I send her bbm chats, but she reads them but doesn't reply.


Please I need advice.. I am at a loss on how to handle this matter.

r u sure diz is a nigeria story

op, u did the right thing. Im not sure if I'd have done the same thing if I was in ur case tho

U did d ryt tin....bcuz it wud have led to d wrong tin....#butnotsureabtme...

Coldfeet: Let her be you did the right and sensible thing.

thanks. That helps a bit

Hehe, very awkward moment. Okay ordinarily, you did the right thing. But then for a second, I imagined I was in the girls shoes, I would punch the dudes face into doing the supposedly wrong thing.

Lagusta: Whats the title of the movie again

I hope its not "wet willy"

Dear Sir, movies here on planet earth are fashioned after real life experiences, not the other way round... I just hope that when a misfortune of epic proportions, just like the one which befell my friend, befalls you, you can also cynically look up the appropriate movie title.






IF YOU HAVE NOTHING SENSIBLE TO SAY, SHUT THE HELL UP!!

You did the right thing I respect your being,kudos

Tinubu:
Dear Sir, movies here on planet earth are fashioned after real life experiences, not the other way round... I just hope that when a misfortune of epic proportions, just like the one which befell my friend, befalls you, you can also cynically look up the appropriate movie title.






IF YOU HAVE NOTHING SENSIBLE TO SAY, SHUT THE HELL UP!!

habaaa guy, u don dey vex?!!?!?!!

Oya sorry, no vex, i dash you one chick for this thread, choose one....







Now seriously, if this c0cck nd bull story is actually true, then i commend you for acting like a matured man, without allowing your emotions to scrub your brain....



But if na me ehhhn, hmmmm

Wet kiss on her forehead

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u did d right thing bro

papa ajasco productions

OohMpa: Nice script....

Let Ooh Mpa act as the guy but you need to change the script small

Everytime I stumble upon your comment(s) it's always of you referring to yourself in the third person...Reminds me of Chris in ONE TREE HILL seasonals- he had an alter-ego.

what's there to handle again?.... You ve already done what you had in mind or are you regretting not kissing her lips..... Free her n stop bin a bug

her fiancé just died, and she is surrendering her lips for you to kiss immediately, that's low....op you should be happy, not disturbed

Ogbeni @OP na india una dey abi? Sounds bollywood not nollywood

lol

D way i dey look dis matter ehn.........i no trust dis op

To sum ppl, he did d right tin..... Bt to me, in situations lik dis, u nid to flow along.... I tink he jus lost a friend for doin the right tin.....

chymystique: what's there to handle again?.... You ve already done what you had in mind or are you regretting not kissing her lips..... Free her n stop bin a bug

where av u bn sweerie?

Suresh08: Op?? What the hell were u thinking??
She gave u d chance to explore her ''GOLDMINE'' and u turned her down?.
Look, girls plan their actions,She definitely knew what she was doing even b4 the call.
Maaaaan u Bleep.ed up......
U ll never get that opportunity again... Trust me

"GOLDMINE." Who talks like this?

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saladhor:

"GOLDMINE." Who talks like this?

That console her 'wirelessly' part cracked me up!

On a more serious, your BF just died and na to kiss another guy dey hungry you. Who knows what ll have happened if you played along. Op you did well.

Hope this aint fiction though.

kia see free toto to phuck