bizprowess1: I am becoming convinced that true love between a man and a woman doesnt exist. Maybe it does exist between the oyinbos.i have no idea. But for the nigerian man or woman, is there such a tin as true love? I am a sadly married mother of two . i met my husband years b4 we got married. I actuali knew him to be a renowed liar. But t didnt mata because we werent even friends then. I just knew him. Years later we met again and one tin led to another, we got close and then we got married. Funny tin is everybody around him had notin good to say abt him. His mother only had one good attribute abt him "him sabi spend for woman sha". Foolishly I swore in my mind dat there was a good side to him dat nobody saw and I would bring dat good side out of him. Two kid later I wake up from my slumber. He is just being himself. The late nights, the lies ,the secret phonecalls, the sex chats and texts. He s just being himself. I am actually disappointed in myself for believing in him. I am angry at myslf for deceiving myslf into tinking he was worth it.I refuse to go sleeping around just because he is doing it. because D thing s, I actually still believe dat true love exists. I believe that i chose a partner for the wrong reasons. I was a hopeless romantic. Or am I still deceiving myself tinking that true love still exists? No bashing please. I discovered that writing helps me let off steam hence dis post.i only need reassurance that love does exist.

bizprowess1: I am becoming convinced that true love between a man and a woman doesnt exist. Maybe it does exist between the oyinbos.i have no idea. But for the nigerian man or woman, is there such a tin as true love? I am a sadly married mother of two . i met my husband years b4 we got married. I actuali knew him to be a renowed liar. But t didnt mata because we werent even friends then. I just knew him. Years later we met again and one tin led to another, we got close and then we got married. Funny tin is everybody around him had notin good to say abt him. His mother only had one good attribute abt him "him sabi spend for woman sha". Foolishly I swore in my mind dat there was a good side to him dat nobody saw and I would bring dat good side out of him. Two kid later I wake up from my slumber. He is just being himself. The late nights, the lies ,the secret phonecalls, the sex chats and texts. He s just being himself. I am actually disappointed in myself for believing in him. I am angry at myslf for deceiving myslf into tinking he was worth it.I refuse to go sleeping around just because he is doing it. because D thing s, I actually still believe dat true love exists. I believe that i chose a partner for the wrong reasons. I was a hopeless romantic. Or am I still deceiving myself tinking that true love still exists? No bashing please. I discovered that writing helps me let off steam hence dis post.i only need reassurance that love does exist.

3cycle: Truth is, at a point in our lives the love which we once felt depreciates.

fuckshit: FÜCK!! Ought not to be that way. The FÜCKING essence of love, from a FÜCKING relationship or FÜCKING marriage standpoint, is that real unconditional love grows over time & develops from going through the FÜCKING beautiful things & FÜCKING storms together.

we FÜCKING grow to love. Real love FÜCKING grows over time & it is not based on an emotion, but a FÜCKING choice

letsdothis:


Word!
Niccur you are one fuccking mothafuckka with a fuccking good brains. Fucckin keep it up.

Ace2013: Well, if you take a walk down the memory lane, i am preety sure there is a good guy you have missed all along. The good guy probably wasn't a good liar, a cheat and a womaniser. The same guy probably treated you right but instead you weren't feeling the Mr nice guy. Fastforward to 2014, after 2 kids, boring marriage and reality steers right in front of you, you begin to doubt the existence of genuine love. Reality check to all ladies - What you see before marriage is what you get after marriage. The same womanizer you dated before marriage will remain the same after marriage, it might probably get worse. Open your eyes, be very very careful whilst making your choices if you do not want to come back wranting like this lady.

Mimienudles: True love exist in those who believes it does. Whatever feels lost will be restored in thousand ways, just believe without regrets and don't forget to smile to your lovely kids

neoapocalypse:

You chauvinistic pig

Ace2013: You must be stupid for typing that shi*t. Well, i shouldn't expect less on a faceless forum like this. Nairaland is a platform where goats, pigs, dogs and sheep come together to type in their opinion beit sensible or not. I guess you know what class your own opinion belongs.