I got this message on my whatsapp from my little cousin. She is just 17.
Here was her message and i quote verbatim:

uncle remember u told me tht i cn talk to u about anyth at all.
I'm in a situation whereby almost anywhere i go to a guy wud ask me 4 a date.
Some re even promising me marriage bt i knw am too young 4 dat.
i keep saying NO bt they tend to be adamant.am fedup right nw.n d situation isnt getting beta
pls should i start being rude nd insulting them cus d way things re going,dats d only way i cn think of.
or is there any other way tht i cn tell them nd still be safe.
Pls help me before i go insane

Please what should i tell her?
*matured minds only*

Tell her to keep saying NO until shez matured to handle a relatinship. She doesn't need to be insultive. She's a lady, she can't escaped being chased by guys.

urhoboman: Tell her to keep saying NO until shez matured to handle a relatinship. She doesn't need to be insultive. She's a lady, she can't escaped being chased by guys.

Bros thank u jareh! Though I have already given her my long sermon. I was disappointed when I saw 30views and no response then I forgot that nairalanders are no advisers in relationship affairs cos seems we have more of perverts here. If na how my cousin fit get guy wey good in bed, na there you for see comment and quotes. SMH!

Just tell her to face her study and keep saying no till she is old enough to know what is right for her.

No untill she's ready to start a relationship, she shouldn't insult people ooo.