lalasticlala: It's a common knowledge that most women prefer abroad based guys/husbands to Nigerian based ones.

Babes trip so much for guys that returned from the UK, US, etc.

I knew of a lady that swore that she would never marry a Nigerian based husband. She was a banker. Fortunately for her, a customer saw her, liked her and sent her pics to the brother living in the US. The abroad based guy later married her and took her abroad.

There are several other cases where some babes had to dump their serious suitors based here in Nigeria because of another guy that returned from abroad.
A times , the abroad based guys may disappoint them even after promising them marriage.

When I was in year one in ABSU, my uncle's daughter was doing her NYSC already. Two suitors were already coming for her hand in marriage. One was working in a federal ministry in Abuja, the other had just finished his NYSC and was retained by the bank where he had served.

She was showing more interest in the one with a federal ministry until she met the son of the MD of the company where she was posted to. Everything changed. The MD's son was resident in London. They fell in love as she dumped the Abuja guy.

The MD's son promised her marriage. She was so excited. She flaunted him for all to see. He later went back to London with a promise to come back for her or send for her. After the service year, she came back.

To cut the long story short, I graduated, finished service, yet she's yet to marry. The Abuja based guy now has 2 kids. He married another lady. I heard the Banker one that also came to marry her then is now in Canada.

She's now so desperate for marriage as her 2 younger sisters are all married with kids.

What is so special about abroad based husbands that make women long for them?

3cycle: Nowadays babes are wiser ooo...
We now know that all that Glitters are not gold, especially those ones based in the UK, nothing to show for the years spent there.

Smh

CyberWolf:

3cycle: Nowadays babes are wiser ooo...
We now know that all that Glitters are not gold, especially those ones based in the UK, nothing to show for the years spent there.

Smh

Tymax:
If I hear


Ladies... falling for janded brothers since 1960

3cycle:
E don change o... Here. In the oil city, babes are hustling for engineers working with oil companies especially them boys benefiting from oil subsidies....

Tymax:
Ladies and money....

spicyv1:

Ever heard the word greener pastures? The answer you seek is in the bolded.

chinziaski: There is this societal perception that abroad guys are rich. Women do not want broke men for marriage, so, its easy for an abroad guy to catch many girls in Nigeria even if he's washing plate in the UK.

Another reason why some of them fall for abroad guys is also because they want to be there.
They want to see snow and sleep in the white man's land. They want to eat Mac Donalds.
They want to see plenty "oyibo" men.
They want to go to beach with "oyibo" men.
They want to touch dallars, pands ati hiro.
They want to brag to their friends that they're in europe, america, etc.

But to their greatest surprise, its either the abroad brother just came to Nigeria to sleep with them or take them there to add to the "plate washing company".

3cycle:
You must be pained bro
Not all of them wash plates sha...

lalasticlala: It's a common knowledge that most women prefer abroad based guys/husbands to Nigerian based ones.

Babes trip so much for guys that returned from the UK, US, etc.

I knew of a lady that swore that she would never marry a Nigerian based husband. She was a banker. Fortunately for her, a customer saw her, liked her and sent her pics to the brother living in the US. The abroad based guy later married her and took her abroad.

There are several other cases where some babes had to dump their serious suitors based here in Nigeria because of another guy that returned from abroad.
A times , the abroad based guys may disappoint them even after promising them marriage.

When I was in year one in ABSU, my uncle's daughter was doing her NYSC already. Two suitors were already coming for her hand in marriage. One was working in a federal ministry in Abuja, the other had just finished his NYSC and was retained by the bank where he had served.

She was showing more interest in the one with a federal ministry until she met the son of the MD of the company where she was posted to. Everything changed. The MD's son was resident in London. They fell in love as she dumped the Abuja guy.

The MD's son promised her marriage. She was so excited. She flaunted him for all to see. He later went back to London with a promise to come back for her or send for her. After the service year, she came back.

To cut the long story short, I graduated, finished service, yet she's yet to marry. The Abuja based guy now has 2 kids. He married another lady. I heard the Banker one that also came to marry her then is now in Canada.

She's now so desperate for marriage as her 2 younger sisters are all married with kids.

What is so special about abroad based husbands that make women long for them?

chinziaski: There is this societal perception that abroad guys are rich. Women do not want broke men for marriage, so, its easy for an abroad guy to catch many girls in Nigeria even if he's washing plate in the UK.

Another reason why some of them fall for abroad guys is also because they want to be there.
They want to see snow and sleep in the white man's land. They want to eat Mac Donalds.
They want to see plenty "oyibo" men.
They want to go to beach with "oyibo" men.
They want to touch dallars, pands ati hiro.
They want to brag to their friends that they're in europe, america, etc.

But to their greatest surprise, its either the abroad brother just came to Nigeria to sleep with them or take them there to add to the ''plate washing company".

3cycle:
Money is good but the love of money is evil

3cycle:
Ofcourse you can never tell if he might decide to pick one of them and take them to obodo oyibo to See white men.

I know a lady (20yrs) who just got married to a (43yr) old guy based abroad. The mum claims he is wealthy and doing well abroad but since he married her she hasn't been able to get her papers so she can join him. She now has a child for him but hasn't seen him for two years now.
Some girls are lucky while some are just unlucky with them "awana awana"boys.

Tymax:
Choi Two whole years! "Hit and run" tins. You can imagine how she bin dey form before... Rejecting all her former toasters. Now she's locked up in a loveless marriage. Oh well, at least he married her.

NeuroBoss: They wan enter "eloplane"
They wan make their friend's head with naija based guy to swell. They wan dey make dem jealous and inundate them with stories told them by their "jand" fiancé.
It's even funny when u hear it in Church testimonies. Something like: "my sister dated one guy through out the university, suffered with him and all that only for him to jilt her. As God would have it, a man coming to spend Xmas in Nigeria met her and they are now married and BASED in the UK". The word in upper case being the only major reason for the testimony and not that she eventually married. They are said with more emphasis amidst shouting for joy