I love this girl and will like to marry her. she means so much to me. But the day we planned to visit her people was the same day to visit mine too.
to my surprise, she told me she can never marry someone whose mother is still alive. I tried to ask her the reason for her position statements but up till this moment she hasn't said anything.am so worried, feel like killing myself. what should I do.anyone with such experience should please come to my rescue.

Sorry no idea
but I think u run for ur life I smell something fishy

OP don't bother yourself, maybe she has forgotten that she's also a potential mother-in-law. Her son's fiancee will also pray for her death too. If she nor gree, dump her behind biko. Arrant nonesense

Kill yourself or kill your mama.

So, a girl told u to your face that she wishes ur mother death and you are still asking for what to do? Chaii.
No matter what ur mother has done to her, that's a cruel thing to say.
Abeg, forget that girl.

tope24: OP don't bother yourself, maybe she has forgotten that she's also a potential mother-in-law. Her son's fiancee will also pray for her death too. If she nor gree, dump her behind biko. Arrant nonesense

I don't think I can dump her. we have a relationship of 2 and half years now. am so confused

esof1: Kill yourself or kill your mama.

So, a girl told u to your face that she wishes ur mother death and you are still asking for what to do? Chaii.
No matter what ur mother has done to her, that's a cruel thing to say.
Abeg, forget that girl.

she said something about mother s overprotective to their sons. But I don't know why that should come in between us

its a good thing she let the cat out of the bag on time. I will advice you to let her go. How can someone in her right senses think like this. If you go ahead and persuade her to get married to you, be ready to shut your mom out of your life or risk the marriage hitting the rocks very early. Think carefully and wisely. There are lots of beautiful and well trained girls out there you can get married to and they will still treat your mom properly. Cheers!

daz a gold digger.

arobafingi:
I don't think I can dump her. we have a relationship of 2 and half years now. am so confused

Are you saying you are willing to wait till your mom dies (God forbid) before you can marry. Oga, mind you, it is every mothers joy to help her son/daughter nurse their child especially when at infant stage. I am just advising you that it is a bad orientation. I am telling you she has a bad orientation towards MILs and i won't doubt if you tell me she doesn't like your mom. This is an issue that can easily be nipped in the bud. Don't go and marry a lady that will cause problems between you and your mom.

My 1cent. All the best bro.

philantoxx: daz a gold digger.

you won't understand

Op u should have strangled her before coming to tell us how you killed a lady wished your momma dead.
Ladies and their fish brain.

arobafingi:
she said something about mother s overprotective to their sons. But I don't know why that should come in between us

Every mother is protective of their kids, male or female. Ask her if she would want her mum dead because her brother wants to get married.

arobafingi:
you won't understand

fill me in

tope24:

Are you saying you are willing to wait till your mom dies (God forbid) before you can marry. Oga, mind you, it is every mothers joy to help her son/daughter nurse their child especially when at infant stage. I am just advising you that it is a bad orientation. I am telling you she has a bad orientation towards MILs and i won't doubt if you tell me she doesn't like your mom. This is an issue that can easily be nipped in the bud. Don't go and marry a lady that will cause problems between you and your mom.

My 1cent. All the best bro.

how I wish you know her before now. she is so lovable, caring and God fearing. we love each other..I don't know what happened.

What advice do you want? Do you want to be told to kill your mom for a worthless hoe or sidelined her out of your life in order to please her? And yes she's very useless and no apologies. I think I would just stop here for this post really got on my nerves.

Repeat "What advice do you want"
She want ur mother dead

arobafingi:
how I wish you know her before now. she is so lovable, caring and God fearing. we love each other..I don't know what happened.

like i said earlier, I wish you all the best bro. Love is defensive and i know you really love her that's why you're defending her. Keep your head up and be strong bro. God bless your home

"arobafingi:
how I wish you know her before now. she is so lovable, caring and God fearing. we love each other..I don't know what happened.
AND YOU ARE SO DUMB

which kind yeye kueshon bds? yur babe wished for yur mother "death" ....... nd yu neva still giv her tfare to go outta yur life. yu dnt need to question or ask for reason, aving that kind of bad talk spells trouble. A foolish woman dat will not allow peace with your mother.
1. if you love yoursef, chase the girl away patapata
2. kill your mother or starting praying for her death.
3. if you go for 2, the two of you might not live to see yur offsprings married.

In dat case,she want ur mum dead
Some girls get mind sha

Sarimah: In dat case,she want ur mum dead
Some girls get mind sha

PLEASE DON'T BLAME THE GIRL
THE DUDE IS A DUMB ASS
THINKING WITH IS SMALL HEAD
DUDE WAS P WHIPE

esof1: Kill yourself or kill your mama.

So, a girl told u to your face that she wishes ur mother death and you are still asking for what to do? Chaii.
No matter what ur mother has done to her, that's a cruel thing to say.
Abeg, forget that girl.

lol lady u bad oo.

well u Are right at ur second paragraph tho they say luv is blind it might b deff too that's y he didn't here or understand her saying his mother shud die

snowprince07: lol lady u bad oo.

well u Are right at ur second paragraph tho they say luv is blind it might b deff too that's y he didn't here or understand her saying his mother shud die

Fear catch me oh. This blind and deaf love sef.

shes watching tooo many nollywood films and must hv heard some stories here and der,

shes watching tooo many nollywood movies and must hv heard some stories here and der,even if she later accepts she might end up killing ur mother so u better quit nw

One major stupidity women carry about is expressing their feelings in the wrong way,at wrong placs,to wrong ppl or at d wrong times.
She should just have told you she is scared of overbearing mothers and their aproko into their children's lives,
U would have convinced her your own mum was different.
She would have behaved sensibly by building a relationship with ur mum, confirm her characte and den decide if she could cope with her or nt.
To say it bluntly was stupid and it is scary.
She might have seen serious cases of evil mother inlaws and got scared,besides lots of ladies this dayd say such,she is nt d first.
Ladies,u can't eat ur cake and have it,if u do nt want his mum leave him alone,marriage to him is nt by force.stop wishing others dead,so that death will nt knock on your own door too.

GoodFaith:
PLEASE DON'T BLAME THE GIRL
THE DUDE IS A DUMB ASS
THINKING WITH IS SMALL HEAD
DUDE WAS P WHIPE

Mean u wouldn't understand

arobafingi:
Mean u wouldn't understand

I AM WITH U DUDE
THE OP IS CRAZY

arobafingi:
I don't think I can dump her. we have a relationship of 2 and half years now. am so confused

you feel like killing yourself?




I think you should kill yourself as you really felt.




You're of no use to yourself or anybody

Leave her, she must have a bad mother n will surely marry a monster who can kill women, to pay for her mother's deeds..

Errrmmm eesqueze me sir. So you mean a lady opened her 2 lips and one mouth to tell you this thing and you still thinking?

It is well ooooo.....
I'ma be blunt right now. U BERRA DUMP HER SORRY A.SS or START PLANNING A FUNERAL.

Oyinbo people talk say the ball is in your court.

Oh,BTW, she can't be God fearing and want your ma dead. Except it's esu or another god. But what do I know seff.