1.See d doctor for infection treatment
2. Some men with diabetes
3.Psychology of both sexes(sex is addition of what u are seeing and thinking of)
4.Try helping him to act out his fantacies(if he does nt have help develop some togeda)
5.Lots of pre-intimacy can help
6.The environment matters sometimes(you can change environment once in a while)
7.Try diferent positions(style)
8.Emotional connection(beyond d sex,wats d connection)
Usually,a man that cares abt u knows when u are enjoying his effort or nt,for such man ability to ejaculate depends on you,release urself and enjoy d moment,I assume d man in question is ur husband,so u can engage ur fantasies together

lwkmd.. someones hubby has been smashing her coochie while on some potent steroid

moca: Good and sensitive topic really.

I will prefer a premature dude to a guy who stays up to one hr.
At least in premature, u still crave for the thing but in the later,u dread and recoil anytime its that time.
D friction on d toto is no longer pleasurable and u r in pain always. Heaven help u if its like a horse. Na obituary straight

I recently encountered a lady whose hubby is everyday nacking dude.
What!
Is it water? On some cases one can even do without water d whole day.

And also pray its not that type facing angle 45

abeg which one be angle 45 again? una no go kee pesin for NL

Chillisauce:
RR is very busy doing

Repent....

Singing- dogoyaro and monkey tail

Woged2005:

Thanks for the contribution. Honestly, I SMH on people who try to blame this on the size of the woman's tract. Obviously they have little knowledge of the anatomy of the woman's body. Please for their information the size of a woman's tract has nothing to do with her being promiscuous or not rather on the fatty tissues that line the tract. Skinny girls have less tissues and obviously appear wider while fat ladies have a lot of fatty tissues lining the tract and appear tighter. However, some men like it wide, some like it tight. Different strokes. Don't judge the lady by how wide her tract is.

Yes, you are right, but you forget to mention or state that, even the skinny person's pusy can not be so deep and large if big size of joystick did't go in there always.

Tell your husband to stop taking tramol/drugs... Most men with delayed expulsion are infertile... Dem no fit impregnate woman.



Urologist said men with prematured expulsion have the potency to impregnate a woman than men with delayed expulsion.


Your husband na draculah for bed

I dey push dem down o!
I nor get time for that kain 'ritual-torture' of awon VIVA-VIAGRA BLOKOSES.
Make my toto come peel finish. . . .begin dey 'shiaaaaaaaaa bloodddzzzzz'?
Tufiaaaaaaaaaaakwa!

Na who sen dem 'massage'. . . .plus 'message'?
Shiiiiiiiiiiooooooooooooor!

Na who sen dem WAKA COME. . . go carry dem WAKA GO ke!

zeelo2014: Don't be deceived, Slacked punany that has been stretched beyond its elastic limit is the cause. EOD

I don die

Truth24: We dey find better cure for premature ejaculat!on and u're here saying .........

DONT mind her jare!some men like us no fit manage 4minutes,and we keep prayin to god to help us get to d level of 30 mins,pls respect your self and thank god u gat a man that can do hard and well.

Woged2005: Hello good people, and experienced medics in the house I have few quick questions:

1. What causes some men to stay too long during s*ex (sometime upto one hour or more) before ej*aculation?

2. What practical steps/therapy can you suggest to such a man to help him release without staying too long?


Most women out there are dying in silence as a result of this problem but don't know how to complain to avoid hurting the ego of the man. This causes discomfort for a woman as both partners sweat profusely, get tired, often gets tears and bruises thereby taking the fun away. This issue comes up frequently during girl-talks.

Thanks for all your useful input.

Learn how to make your man c-um with MouthAction. When you get tired of intercourse, you switch to head, he c-ums.. everybody is happy...

Lol seriously though who has intercourse for an hour though? I can understand the pre-intimacy, messing about etc but straight pumping for an hour? Lol, I don't believe it. If he is taking too long to finish, if you are done just tell him to shift small, roll over and go sleep.

Funny topic, this is a case of "some have food and cannot eat". Personally, I believe it has to do with the individual. Some ladies like it rough, while some just want that ideal slow motion $h!t they read in novels.
Once had a girl that tought me that I was a learner, despite my previous escapades including a chic fainting on me because of you know what.
So OP, what you don't like and view as long and torturous is actually someone's fantasy, go figure.

Woged2005:

Ok. Thanks for the suggestion in the bolded.

Lots of pre-intimacy works for people who have ere..ction problems.For someone who stays long,this can worsen it.it might not even be due to alcohol or substance abuse.there are lots of people like that.

If your man is often worried about something,it could be part of the reasons.if you guys do it everyday,maybe it's time to abstain for a few days.Has he got a favourite position that enhances his 'Cummings'?.
Abstain for few days,try a quickie in places different from bedroom.
Your man might be worried he might not c.um when you expect him to and it cld be a problem for you two..he might be worried he might not c.um cos his favourite position causes you cramps.He might be worried about the heat.
Lastly be calm with him,have your lubricant handy.he might not like it but at least you won't be sore the next couple of days.

I might be criticised for this last bit but it might help.

Watch po.rn with him.

Straight non stop kuskii for a whole hour? Damn!!!

Different strokes

Fore play is essential here. Very important sef. I suggest you blow your man before the main game.

RoyalRoy:



All thread detailers shall be sentenced to 3 months of hard labour with the Trojan horse Man.

Trojan horse man. Thank God for feminism. I go just take off. Who wan break waist . 1hr, some people dey cry not to talk of 3months. God forbid bad thing.

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I know my brother, but more than one hour on top of a lady becomes punishment... remember it's flesh you are rubbing on plus both partners get too tired, sweating profusely to continue. Sometime they have to stop without the man releasing..

Hmmmmmmmm lol lazy girl

ancashy: 1.See d doctor for infection treatment
2. Some men with diabetes
3.Psychology of both sexes(sex is addition of what u are seeing and thinking of)
4.Try helping him to act out his fantacies(if he does nt have help develop some togeda)
5.Lots of pre-intimacy can help
6.The environment matters sometimes(you can change environment once in a while)
7.Try diferent positions(style)
8.Emotional connection(beyond d sex,wats d connection)
Usually,a man that cares abt u knows when u are enjoying his effort or nt,for such man ability to ejaculate depends on you,release urself and enjoy d moment,I assume d man in question is ur husband,so u can engage ur fantasies together

An average guy wud want 2 stay long 2 protect his ego as a man. premature ejaculation is a ego crashing tin now. Just endure d long time or look 4 a 1 minute indomie noodles man lol

No one has given any tangible reasons to the Op's questions. I am so interested in the topic too.
I wanna also know why some men do not ej.aculate on time biko.

Woged2005: Hello good people, and experienced medics in the house I have few quick questions:

1. What causes some men to stay too long during s*ex (sometime upto one hour or more) before ej*aculation?

2. What practical steps/therapy can you suggest to such a man to help him release without staying too long?


Most women out there are dying in silence as a result of this problem but don't know how to complain to avoid hurting the ego of the man. This causes discomfort for a woman as both partners sweat profusely, get tired, often gets tears and bruises thereby taking the fun away. This issue comes up frequently during girl-talks.

Thanks for all your useful input.

I dont know what you are talking about @ the bolded/

If it's too much I go tell you to stop before I die, abi I resemble mortar

So and self-service off biko

kandiikane: Lol seriously though who has intercourse for an hour though? I can understand the pre-intimacy, messing about etc but straight pumping for an hour? Lol, I don't believe it. If he is taking too long to finish, if you are done just tell him to shift small, roll over and go sleep.

Wicked.
@topic:
The problem could be physical or psychological. There's a lot of psychology behind sex. Try talking dirty to him during intercourse...let him know how much you want him to ejaculate for you. Mess with his mind. It works.

Too much engrishi full ds thread ooo,abeg tell ya man to be takn beta ogi(akamu) well well, u hear??

Comments here are very funny walai

berem: No one has given any tangible reasons to the Op's questions. I am so interested in the topic too.
I wanna also know why some men do not ej.aculate on time biko.

My Sister, I don taya. Are there no medical experts and experienced nurses that use Nairaland or what? Someone needs real solution to a real problem some people are pretending it's not an issue. There's not a whole lot of materials on the internet on this. Even the self-service people are suggesting here, some internet posts suggests it contributes to the problem. We need expert opinions abeg.

Woged2005:

Thanks for the contribution. Honestly, I SMH on people who try to blame this on the size of the woman's tract. Obviously they have little knowledge of the anatomy of the woman's body. Please for their information the size of a woman's tract has nothing to do with her being promiscuous or not rather on the fatty tissues that line the tract. Skinny girls have less tissues and obviously appear wider while fat ladies have a lot of fatty tissues lining the tract and appear tighter. However, some men like it wide, some like it tight. Different strokes. Don't judge the lady by how wide her tract is.

People are really going through some deep stuff

Bibol: People are really going through some deep stuff

Deep things

Woged2005:

My Sister, I don taya. Are there no medical experts and experienced nurses that use Nairaland or what? Someone needs real solution to a real problem some people are pretending it's not an issue. There's not a whole lot of materials on the internet on this. Even the self-service people are suggesting here, some internet posts suggests it contributes to the problem. We need expert opinions abeg.

www.nhs.uk/conditions/ejaculation-problems/Pages/Introduction.aspx Delayed ejacula.tion is what you need to research.