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Stupid Things Guys Can Do That Can Make A Lady Lose Respect For Him. Agree? by BANGERLEE1(m): 2:31pm On Oct 09, 2014
woman’s respect is like virginity: Once you lose it, you’re
basically never getting it back. However, while you were
probably eager to get rid of your V-card, you definitely don’t
want to lose her admiration.
Let me be the first to tell you that it’s not as easy as it seems.
While it goes without saying that certain things pose a risk to
losing a female’s respect — being caught in a lie, cheating, etc. —
there are other less obvious threats that unfortunately happen
to line up with a lot of guys’ innate behaviors and tendencies.
Don’t take your chances. Avoid these habits and you’ll hold on to
your dignity:
Firing too fast
It happens. In fact, it’s an unfortunate but uncontrollable
scenario that struck the men before you and the men before
them. You finished too quickly during sex, and even though it’s
pitch black in the room, you can still see her disappointment.
It’s enough to nearly destroy every shred of masculinity you
have, but don’t let it.
There will be times when the climax occurs a tad quicker than
you wanted it to, but the worst thing in the world you can do is
start apologizing, or worse, feel sorry for yourself. The second
you start making up embarrassing excuses for why it happened,
showing shame or over explaining, she starts to lose respect.
Instead, take her by surprise, turn the tables and do whatever it
takes to make sure that she gets off. She’ll definitely forget all
about the fact that you were once a three-minute man.
Giving up too easily
In your mind, letting a lady “win” every battle is the right way to
go. However, it’s the kiss of death in terms of your self-esteem.
When you constantly “yes” her, give up during every little
altercation and cater to her every whim, she subconsciously
realizes that she has total control.
No woman can respect a man who lets her get away with
everything. Most of us women want to be called out when we’re
being unreasonable or shady.
It’s okay to agree to disagree on something. Differences are what
make relationships more interesting, more dynamic and more
passionate. Moreover, asserting yourself builds confidence,
which is the key to having her look up to you.
Surrendering to jealousy
Jealousy is a funny thing. A total lack of it in any relationship
raises a female’s suspicion that you’re not at all worried about
losing her. However, too much of it makes you come off as
pathetic.
That means you can’t get paranoid any time she’s hanging out
with guy friends or strike up a fight with every guy who smiles in
her direction at a bar. You might be tempted to lose it, but doing
so shows self-doubt and makes you very unattractive.
It’s natural to have a protective instinct, but channel it to prove
how much you care, not how insecure you are.
Loathing your job… and doing nothing about
it
If you lack ambition, you might as well have erectile
dysfunction. No woman is attracted to a guy who constantly
complains about his career.
Obviously, not everyone is fortunate enough to have his or her
dream job, but if you’re too lazy to make a change or at least
aspire to do something different, you’re going to have a tough
time convincing a lady you have any drive or integrity.
It’s also a major turn-off to any female because if you aren’t
passionate enough about something to pursue it, how can you
possibly sustain the spark in a relationship? You don’t necessarily
have to love what you do, but at least have a plan, or a hobby —
anything that excites you.
Flaking out
There are so many uncertainties all around us: Your company
could shut down tomorrow, and your best friend could move
away next week.
Life is full of disappointments and the last thing this planet needs
is men who make more of them. If you say you’re going to call,
do it. If you promised to meet her friends on Friday, be there
even if you’re freaked out about it.
Of course, things will come up occasionally that will shatter your
plans. The more consistent you are, the clearer you can
demonstrate that you’re dependable and a man of your word.
Basically some Nigeria guys are annoying with there grammars too though just saying
(Bonus) 9ja girls will lose respect for you if you are a broke ass nigga.
The point is, a woman needs someone she can count on. So you
want respect? Then for the love of God, just follow throug

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Re: Stupid Things Guys Can Do That Can Make A Lady Lose Respect For Him. Agree? by kristen12(f): 2:54pm On Oct 09, 2014
Using style to beg for #100 recharge card
Re: Stupid Things Guys Can Do That Can Make A Lady Lose Respect For Him. Agree? by Nobody: 3:02pm On Oct 09, 2014
BANGERLEE1:

Firing too fast
grin

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Re: Stupid Things Guys Can Do That Can Make A Lady Lose Respect For Him. Agree? by tosyne2much(m): 3:08pm On Oct 09, 2014
Bleeping a lady like my 85yr old grandpa can make you lose respect to a lady
Re: Stupid Things Guys Can Do That Can Make A Lady Lose Respect For Him. Agree? by BANGERLEE1(m): 3:30pm On Oct 09, 2014
tosyne2much:
Bleeping a lady like my 85yr old grandpa can make you lose respect to a lady
bad Man
Re: Stupid Things Guys Can Do That Can Make A Lady Lose Respect For Him. Agree? by Nobody: 3:42pm On Oct 09, 2014
tosyne2much:
Bleeping a lady like my 85yr old grandpa can make you lose respect to a lady



lol and to think your grandpa still bleep@´85
Re: Stupid Things Guys Can Do That Can Make A Lady Lose Respect For Him. Agree? by CashdownNG: 3:43pm On Oct 09, 2014
okay ... 10 points for length, -9 for content.

congrats man..
Re: Stupid Things Guys Can Do That Can Make A Lady Lose Respect For Him. Agree? by tosyne2much(m): 3:50pm On Oct 09, 2014
NinoBrown888:



lol and to think your grandpa still bleep@´85
na you dey talk like this.. Bleeping is inevitable oooo
Re: Stupid Things Guys Can Do That Can Make A Lady Lose Respect For Him. Agree? by BANGERLEE1(m): 3:55pm On Oct 09, 2014
CashdownNG:
okay ... 10 points for length, -9 for content.

congrats man..
kk
Re: Stupid Things Guys Can Do That Can Make A Lady Lose Respect For Him. Agree? by BANGERLEE1(m): 4:09pm On Oct 09, 2014
urhoboman:
grin
abii--
Re: Stupid Things Guys Can Do That Can Make A Lady Lose Respect For Him. Agree? by Nobody: 4:10pm On Oct 09, 2014
tosyne2much:
na you dey talk like this.. Bleeping is inevitable oooo



lol, I can imagine the look on his face when he's about to spill the juice.

Hehehehe
Re: Stupid Things Guys Can Do That Can Make A Lady Lose Respect For Him. Agree? by tosyne2much(m): 4:38pm On Oct 09, 2014
NinoBrown888:





lol, I can imagine the look on his face when he's about to spill the juice.

Hehehehe
lwkmd.. He will scream like bajaj motorcycle
Re: Stupid Things Guys Can Do That Can Make A Lady Lose Respect For Him. Agree? by Nobody: 5:01pm On Oct 09, 2014
tosyne2much:
lwkmd.. He will scream like bajaj motorcycle

lol' ajo ife n'ato amu.
Re: Stupid Things Guys Can Do That Can Make A Lady Lose Respect For Him. Agree? by emilo26(m): 5:31pm On Oct 09, 2014
kristen12:
Using style to beg for #100 recharge card

i didn't get ur pm as i can read pm. Do u want to reach me?
Re: Stupid Things Guys Can Do That Can Make A Lady Lose Respect For Him. Agree? by BANGERLEE1(m): 9:28pm On Jan 25, 2015
CashdownNG:
okay ... 10 points for length, -9 for content.

congrats man..
and you are??
Re: Stupid Things Guys Can Do That Can Make A Lady Lose Respect For Him. Agree? by BANGERLEE1(m): 9:29pm On Jan 25, 2015
tosyne2much:
lwkmd.. He will scream like bajaj motorcycle
lol keke napep
Re: Stupid Things Guys Can Do That Can Make A Lady Lose Respect For Him. Agree? by firstolalekan(m): 8:10pm On Feb 19, 2015
BANGERLEE1:
woman’s respect is like virginity: Once you lose it, you’re
basically never getting it back. However, while you were
probably eager to get rid of your V-card, you definitely don’t
want to lose her admiration.
Let me be the first to tell you that it’s not as easy as it seems.
While it goes without saying that certain things pose a risk to
losing a female’s respect — being caught in a lie, cheating, etc. —
there are other less obvious threats that unfortunately happen
to line up with a lot of guys’ innate behaviors and tendencies.
Don’t take your chances. Avoid these habits and you’ll hold on to
your dignity:
Firing too fast
It happens. In fact, it’s an unfortunate but uncontrollable
scenario that struck the men before you and the men before
them. You finished too quickly during sex, and even though it’s
pitch black in the room, you can still see her disappointment.
It’s enough to nearly destroy every shred of masculinity you
have, but don’t let it.
There will be times when the climax occurs a tad quicker than
you wanted it to, but the worst thing in the world you can do is
start apologizing, or worse, feel sorry for yourself. The second
you start making up embarrassing excuses for why it happened,
showing shame or over explaining, she starts to lose respect.
Instead, take her by surprise, turn the tables and do whatever it
takes to make sure that she gets off. She’ll definitely forget all
about the fact that you were once a three-minute man.
Giving up too easily
In your mind, letting a lady “win” every battle is the right way to
go. However, it’s the kiss of death in terms of your self-esteem.
When you constantly “yes” her, give up during every little
altercation and cater to her every whim, she subconsciously
realizes that she has total control.
No woman can respect a man who lets her get away with
everything. Most of us women want to be called out when we’re
being unreasonable or shady.
It’s okay to agree to disagree on something. Differences are what
make relationships more interesting, more dynamic and more
passionate. Moreover, asserting yourself builds confidence,
which is the key to having her look up to you.
Surrendering to jealousy
Jealousy is a funny thing. A total lack of it in any relationship
raises a female’s suspicion that you’re not at all worried about
losing her. However, too much of it makes you come off as
pathetic.
That means you can’t get paranoid any time she’s hanging out
with guy friends or strike up a fight with every guy who smiles in
her direction at a bar. You might be tempted to lose it, but doing
so shows self-doubt and makes you very unattractive.
It’s natural to have a protective instinct, but channel it to prove
how much you care, not how insecure you are.
Loathing your job… and doing nothing about
it
If you lack ambition, you might as well have erectile
dysfunction. No woman is attracted to a guy who constantly
complains about his career.
Obviously, not everyone is fortunate enough to have his or her
dream job, but if you’re too lazy to make a change or at least
aspire to do something different, you’re going to have a tough
time convincing a lady you have any drive or integrity.
It’s also a major turn-off to any female because if you aren’t
passionate enough about something to pursue it, how can you
possibly sustain the spark in a relationship? You don’t necessarily
have to love what you do, but at least have a plan, or a hobby —
anything that excites you.
Flaking out
There are so many uncertainties all around us: Your company
could shut down tomorrow, and your best friend could move
away next week.
Life is full of disappointments and the last thing this planet needs
is men who make more of them. If you say you’re going to call,
do it. If you promised to meet her friends on Friday, be there
even if you’re freaked out about it.
Of course, things will come up occasionally that will shatter your
plans. The more consistent you are, the clearer you can
demonstrate that you’re dependable and a man of your word.
Basically some Nigeria guys are annoying with there grammars too though just saying
(Bonus) 9ja girls will lose respect for you if you are a broke ass nigga.
The point is, a woman needs someone she can count on. So you
want respect? Then for the love of God, just follow throug
Copy and paste nonsense
Fùcking silly wąnkers like you always think they have
ideas.
Spit on thread.

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