pryd:


LOL I was half expecting this line, emotion has been brought to the fore.
If you were an armed robber ain't ya gonna maximise? lol

Otunbakay:

change your perception of what a successful person is.

Repent from your "I must get rich mentality or die trying" there is more to life than your view of it.
Go and sin no more. Lol.

lawrenceunaa:
Chick or no chick just use ur head well

Am outta here

pryd:


Word!!

lawrenceunaa:
words

pryd:
Hey, okay so I stumbled upon a post on FP centered around side chicks and sorts. Being really free at work today; slouched in my seat, there was ample space and time to permit a rambling on the discourse. Perhaps for the purpose of banter or some #realTalk, now I proceed to put my keypad to words.

ANITA is a side chick to 5 guys which includes John. I guess she believes in diversity and variety lol. You can call her a professional side chick...hmmm baby oku.




JULIET is John's main chick and only John. Although she doesn't see a future with John but she loves him with everything she calls her soul...awwwwww sweet innit?




Few years after graduation, Anita and Juliet find themselves both single at 29.
Anita runs a boutique, perhaps a subtle reward for many rugged years in the Chick industry.
Juliet hasn't changed much, she has a job - the typical make I dey commot for house job- and still remains a wife material. Her life is far from miserable, far from satisfaction. Moreso, she doesn't shop at Anita's boutique, too pricey for her monthly alerts.



Moral: until he puts a ring on it, you might just be a side chick. It's not by title, it's by reward. Whatever you do, make the most out of it. #peace #phewww

BreezyRita:
I'm so loving this......
You could be a side chick without knowing it too...
What does it profit a woman to be a main chick and remain single?
Anyways, as they say; Its not how far but how well........

For those saying Anita won't have a good home yada yada. Who told you? She may!! She's seen a lot, experienced a lot and knows its all vanity.

Relationships. So complicated.

HopeAtHand:
Op, forget what you see presently and consider what the future holds for them.

I would prefer a Juliet who is average in appearance and still intact 'down there' to the drop-dead gorgeous Anita who has been 'ran through' by guys.

Its bad to marry a woman you know had many body counts, infact its the nxt worse thing after single mothers.

drnoel:


Have u completely lost ur grip on morally and what is right to 4get that though there are many fishes in the sea not all of them are sharks.

Otunbakay:


Maybe so, if you choose to bring in religion, but I believe you and I know what we are talking about here. No need for pretence.
We all know the minimum standard for decency..."Conforming with generally accepted standards of morality or respectability."

I didn't say she was perfect. Afterall we are human.

You concluded by saying
"Whatever you do, make the most out of it." After painting the alluring life of a seemingly prostitute so to say.
My question now is what are you aiming at or trying to encourage the girl child or even the women folk.

Meggy007:
Mr op, yur TOPIC says 'side chick trums main chick'

pryd:


Nope that ain't the topic. You excluded the "when", that singular exclusion alters the entire scope of the article. I only gave instances when the side chick trumps the main chick; I'm not saying it happens all the time neither am I championing it.

Meggy007:


When right? Cool. So in this your story the trump here is WHAT exactly?....that the main(good) girl, after all her 'goodness' ended up on the unmarried status with the side chick(bad girl) after all her 'badness'
OR
That the side (bad girl) chick ended up financially stronger than the main(good girl) chick.
OR both. Since you said 'instances'.

Seriously are ANY/ALL of these instances your idea of trump. My my. WOW!

pryd:


I really don't want to return to repeated explanations. I'm just gonna ask a simple question.
Between both ladies, whom do you think had (a) more EFFECTIVE love life/relationship(s)??

Meggy007:


Having many men and prolly having intercourse with them all is NONSENSE

Falling in-love with someone, knowin it won't go any further that where you both are at that moment is DOUBLE NONSENSE. So in al sincerity, its none.

In this world we live in, the first is def gonna be applauded. You obviously already have, calling her life 'effective'. Popular belief or not, black is black and white is white. On earth and beyond.

pryd:


LoL,,Look, I really don't care about the outcome of the lives of both ladies. What I know is, one of them achieved her target. I'm not endorsing it, neither will I condem it.
Don't try to play the morality card on the lives of others plzzzzzzzzzz

Meggy007:


Not endorsing nor condemning. Seriously dude, been asking from the beginning I saw this post, WHAT ARE YOU DOING THEN? I'm YET to know! Btw what others? Characters are non existent remember...or zit you, or others prolly going through this shii?toh. This portal might be thrash mostly but I do learn some cool stuff as well on here and I peeped this post with that same intention. I have my 'morality' stand and I mount that podium like I own it....no scratch that, cos I own it, anywhere anytime. And the stand is - What you've preached here with this post is ....... don't even got a label for it. PERSONALLY I gained ZILCH. QED! Ta ta*