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| I Initiate It But Find It Hard To Sustain It. by Articul8(m): 6:21pm On Oct 13, 2014 |
It's becoming too much of me. I rarely sustain a relationship. I am usually very eager to start it bt most time dnt sustain it. I would have nursed the feeling for quite a while but I eventually let go. Often times,I am of the opinion that if I am not followed up,the lady in question wouldn't get the best of me. Mayb this is as a result of my past experiences where I give all of me to a lady and then gets nothing in return. So now I prefer to first of all see the commitment of other person b4 I fall 'yakata'. So I go around with dia slogan 'U get what you give'. I found out that i ask you out today and next week I take to my heels if the lady do not appear liking me. Could this be my fear? Investing my emotions where no profit? is it possible I get a lady to do dt? Mayb my fear is even coming frm d fact that I am broke guy. What could be Wrong? |
| Re: I Initiate It But Find It Hard To Sustain It. by naijaboiy: 6:33pm On Oct 13, 2014 |
What is the 'profit' you're talking about?  |
| Re: I Initiate It But Find It Hard To Sustain It. by kozaic(f): 6:33pm On Oct 13, 2014 |
Eyaah... Hustle and make money first. |
| Re: I Initiate It But Find It Hard To Sustain It. by MisterLongman(m): 6:48pm On Oct 13, 2014 |
^^ Lmao  ...... Money over relationship worries |
| Re: I Initiate It But Find It Hard To Sustain It. by Articul8(m): 6:53pm On Oct 13, 2014 |
naijaboiy:when I say investing my emotions,I mean giving her me and I expect the same frome her. Trying to keep me going. Hlping me to love her more. That is what I mean by profit. |
| Re: I Initiate It But Find It Hard To Sustain It. by Articul8(m): 6:57pm On Oct 13, 2014 |
kozaic:do u tink that will bring a change? Am afraid I may nt even give my all aprt from my money wen I eventually become rich.So I may nt b true 2 her. Why cnt 'she' hlp me love her even without so much money involved? Me being broke shldnt be d focus. Bt y am I reluctant even wen the lady hasn't said anytin? Mayb my emotion |
| Re: I Initiate It But Find It Hard To Sustain It. by naijaboiy: 7:09pm On Oct 13, 2014 |
Articul8:Ok I get it... |
| Re: I Initiate It But Find It Hard To Sustain It. by chimerase2: 7:10pm On Oct 13, 2014 |
Op I didn't say wia u killed a cat in ua thread Tell me amu blind |
| Re: I Initiate It But Find It Hard To Sustain It. by mesoade(m): 7:15pm On Oct 13, 2014 |
kozaic:to come and spend on your kind,abi? |
| Re: I Initiate It But Find It Hard To Sustain It. by kozaic(f): 7:27pm On Oct 13, 2014 |
mesoade:I don't need his money...my parent is taking good care of me |
| Re: I Initiate It But Find It Hard To Sustain It. by kozaic(f): 7:28pm On Oct 13, 2014 |
Articul8: U feel inferior dat ma 2 cent! |
| Re: I Initiate It But Find It Hard To Sustain It. by Articul8(m): 7:41pm On Oct 13, 2014 |
kozaic:madam! It has nothing to do with inferiority complex. I av out grown that long ago. So to u,is it until I make enof money dt I'l b superior? |
| Re: I Initiate It But Find It Hard To Sustain It. by philantoxx(m): 7:43pm On Oct 13, 2014 |
u said it all.maybe cause your broke u feel inferior. solution is try not to be broke u exhume confidence hapilly ever after. |
| Re: I Initiate It But Find It Hard To Sustain It. by mikron(m): 7:50pm On Oct 13, 2014 |
Ur problem is self confidence. U lack it. Try to be confident always believe me u will soar above ur peers in this department |
| Re: I Initiate It But Find It Hard To Sustain It. by gsalvatore: 9:03pm On Oct 13, 2014 |
Profit before People. No time for mediocre. |
| Re: I Initiate It But Find It Hard To Sustain It. by Articul8(m): 9:26pm On Oct 13, 2014 |
mikron:u dnt get it. How come I had the confidence wen initiating it? @ least I strted it and it wldnt av bin a day thing. Soits far beyond slf confidence. I av it! |
| Re: I Initiate It But Find It Hard To Sustain It. by major466(m): 9:27pm On Oct 13, 2014 |
It's better to start out as friends. |
| Re: I Initiate It But Find It Hard To Sustain It. by Bumyde: 9:28pm On Oct 13, 2014 |
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| Re: I Initiate It But Find It Hard To Sustain It. by Articul8(m): 9:30pm On Oct 13, 2014 |
mikron:u dnt get it. How come I had the confidence wen initiating it? @ least I strted it and it wldnt av bin a day thing. So its far beyond slf confidence. I av it! |
| Re: I Initiate It But Find It Hard To Sustain It. by Janyves(m): 9:38pm On Oct 13, 2014 |
Dude....here's ma 2 cents-- make friends with social and optimistic peeps, when the doubts start coming, listen to a good hard rock or gangsta rap song. Thirdly, always think positive |
| Re: I Initiate It But Find It Hard To Sustain It. by Articul8(m): 9:46pm On Oct 13, 2014 |
Janyves:wow!!! More like it. Tx bro. Bt, does dt mean I shld kip on investing my emotions? So wen do I stp? |
| Re: I Initiate It But Find It Hard To Sustain It. by Articul8(m): 9:51pm On Oct 13, 2014 |
major466:Tx bro. Bt, does dt mean I shld kip on investing my emotions? So wen do I stp? Even as frnds. Essentially,even if my plan is 2 strt as frnds and c d traces of the lady's tin. I even run b4 developing any strng feeling. Mayb hlpin to build mutual frndship wld hlp.Coming frm both ends. Bt hw many of dem acts normal?even d so called matured ones |
| Re: I Initiate It But Find It Hard To Sustain It. by major466(m): 9:55pm On Oct 13, 2014 |
Articul8:I suggest you buy and read this book: Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus. Very interesting. Men and Women are different. |
| Re: I Initiate It But Find It Hard To Sustain It. by Articul8(m): 10:06pm On Oct 13, 2014 |
major466:I'l look 4 it.Tx man |
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