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Re: "We Both Have Same Blood Type." by Nobody: 5:39pm On Oct 16, 2014 |
chibwike:ok sweetie. Missed ya too. Get home safely. |
Re: "We Both Have Same Blood Type." by dre11(m): 5:42pm On Oct 16, 2014 |
Before u take ur decision Just weigh the prons and cons of ur actions U can check the web pages for more detail information on what u are trying to do It's better to be informed that ignorantly walking to the marriage institution without proper knowledge of what u are entering to I won't advice u to go ahead or dissolve the relationship but when u are better informed.. . U must decide to use ur head and not ur heart to make the best decisions 3 Likes |
Re: "We Both Have Same Blood Type." by fuckshit: 6:22pm On Oct 16, 2014 |
kpeteman:FÜCK!! FÜCKING sure? |
Re: "We Both Have Same Blood Type." by TDonald: 9:54am On Nov 12, 2014 |
@op.... Why tempt Fate? 1 Like |
Re: "We Both Have Same Blood Type." by mikolo80: 1:50pm On Nov 12, 2014 |
Walelavender:so we should be asking for genotype along with fone number abi what is this gibberish u are spewing,or what if u dont like all the aa ppl u meet |
Re: "We Both Have Same Blood Type." by Walelavender(m): 2:44pm On Nov 12, 2014 |
mikolo80:It's very laughable that you are taking it 'personal', however, if you are caught in the web, you better do the needful. Who talked about asking the genotype in your first date,does that sound logical? If you are in an emotion driven relationship, you are in a soup because where you need to use your HEAD you will use your HEART. Continue to fall in love with Carriers while you are also a Carrier ooo. |
Re: "We Both Have Same Blood Type." by Nobody: 3:03pm On Nov 12, 2014 |
Wisdom Is Profitable To Direct! You sound a Believer. However, from previous stories, I would suggest you see your Spiritual Guide over you or a Mentor. You know this CROSS ROAD is of utmost importance and you need DIVINE DIRECTION ONLY... Say ye to the righteous, it shall be well with him... He setteth the solitary in families.. it is well, Queen. |
Re: "We Both Have Same Blood Type." by chimzyblack(m): 4:24pm On Nov 12, 2014 |
it is called genotype not "bloodtype" |
Re: "We Both Have Same Blood Type." by mikolo80: 10:21pm On Nov 13, 2014 |
Walelavender:o its personal. You dontget to choose who you fall in love with pal |
Re: "We Both Have Same Blood Type." by felipemadero(m): 9:43pm On Nov 14, 2014 |
Y isn't this on front page? |
Re: "We Both Have Same Blood Type." by Nobody: 1:26pm On Nov 29, 2014 |
Jennima, PLS DON'T TRY IT. Being a sickler ain't fun, the pain is indescribable. Surely, if you put the health of ur future kids as a priority, you wouldn't do that. My dear, God will give u a better guy...PLS DON'T TRY IT. 1 Like |
Re: "We Both Have Same Blood Type." by Nobody: 2:05pm On Nov 29, 2014 |
I don't believe love can be selfish, even at those times where it benefits us in one way or the other. The fundamental principles of love revolves around doing good deeds that are selfless in nature. If both of you choose to demonstrate your love to each other without considering the product of that love (likely kids) then that love, in my opinion, is incomplete. The children that may come should also be considered. I am not asking you to leave him but I am asking that you put your future kids into consideration before making a decision you may end up regretting. I have this friend who got married last year. He met this wonderful lady 4 years ago and both of them seemed like the perfect couple. Sadly, both of them are 'AS' and ran the risk of making life miserable for one or more of their children. They broke up as soon as they found out, though it was a tough choice. Today he is happily married to someone else and now he and this lady seem to be the perfect couple. It is never easy to leave a loved one but some times it is necessary, especially when it is for a good cause. Weigh your options and make your decision. Please leave out any decision that involves killing your child. It is not worth it. 2 Likes |
Re: "We Both Have Same Blood Type." by freethinker01: 2:02am On Dec 13, 2014 |
See this girl oo. Do the resultin genotypes know anytin 'bout love. Smh, all these kids of now a days. Is it actually the more you know, the less you undestand? |
Re: "We Both Have Same Blood Type." by Nobody: 4:24am On Dec 13, 2014 |
Miscellaneous mind |
Re: "We Both Have Same Blood Type." by Nobody: 5:02am On Dec 13, 2014 |
Thank God am AA,any girl I fit marry... If you need a virgin wife come to Nairaland,more than half on nairaland girls are Virgin |
Re: "We Both Have Same Blood Type." by masterpiecer(m): 10:35pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
If what u r saying is true, I mean abt abstaining from sex, then you must be a rear gem. May d Lord bless u for that |
Re: "We Both Have Same Blood Type." by dudesexy1111(m): 10:39pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
Too risky.... Jus think very well |
Re: "We Both Have Same Blood Type." by gsalvatore: 12:56am On Dec 18, 2014 |
@Op...lemme get this straight, you guy will determined the genotype of the baby before he is born for what? Abortion? You risked not having sex with your Exes only to arrive safely at having abortion? And you think you are in love? Isn't that sweet? Come listen ..dump that guy like its hot, you will get over him before this time next year, dont be selfish here, you have to remember your kids now any decision you take now will affect them.... .Nobody ever died of heartbreak.. You are cute, You can get any dude you want |
Re: "We Both Have Same Blood Type." by menesheh(m): 1:03am On Dec 18, 2014 |
Jennimma: Better start running now faster than speed train Present love and affection between you will lead u no where You must regret later and shed unnecessary tear Forget any of his solution |
Re: "We Both Have Same Blood Type." by AreaFada2: 4:07am On Dec 18, 2014 |
Jennimma:. My dear, it would depend on your economic circusmtances. I know excellent doctors here in UK who can help you. It is through pre-implantation genetic diagnosis (PGD). Sickle cell is one of those things that can be tested for. AS AN EMBRYO. OUTSIDE YOUR WOMB. THAT IS BEFORE IMPLANTATION IN THE WOMB. The eggs are fertilised using Assisted Reproductive Technology (ART) like IVF. Up to 2 resulting embryos that test negative for HbSS/HbSC in your case, on day 6 after fertilisation, will be implanted. If the two embryos implant and result in two healthy babies, you may be done with having kids. Up to you. So you're not aborting any babies. At that stage, lots of unviable embryos are naturally lost anyway, and woman never gets to know that there was ever such an embryo. But it's fairly expensive. At your age and otherwise healthy, your chances of success are decent, maybe 35% chance per cycle, perhaps more. If you cannot afford ART and you're against abortion too, my dear I won't advice you to have babies based on lottery. The suffering I have seen SS kids go through, even with excellent healthcare provision, is heartbreaking. 2 Likes |
Re: "We Both Have Same Blood Type." by uzolexis(f): 3:22pm On Dec 18, 2014 |
dimkpaeze fflw this thread, this is exactly what i was telling u about. @OP, pls u have gotten a lot of reasonable suggestions here.my cousin was in the same situation and had to end the relationship with his gf who he had dated for years and they loved each other so much it was heartbrking. Pls next time when u get into a relationship with someone before it gets serious find out if the person is AS, that is a burden all sickle cell carriers have to bear. I'm AS and i dont want to play with my hrt lailai so before it gets serious i have to know if u are a carrier (AS,SS) or not (AA). 1 Like |
Re: "We Both Have Same Blood Type." by Nobody: 6:19pm On Dec 18, 2014 |
pcguru1: UPDATE: Sadly we broke up..avoid AS-AS relationships its not worth the pain at the end.. 1 Like |
Re: "We Both Have Same Blood Type." by Nobody: 8:12am On Dec 19, 2014 |
[quote author=Jennimma post=27116697]sweedy,am also having same issue...and the problem about this is that the risk of having ss is more than the risk of having aa/as.although it is quite possible...even in my own family,my mom is as and pupsie is aa...it doesn't stop all three of us frm having as,just one of us is aa.... Based on that,I ve decided to forfeit the relationship,though the guy says he won't leave..I can't risk abortion faa... But if you can,you can go on with the relationship pending the risk and pray to God for guidiance... > 1 Like |
Re: "We Both Have Same Blood Type." by Nobody: 10:02am On Dec 19, 2014 |
For the sake of your future children, perhaps you should make that sacrifice. Even after getting married you can never be sure that the man will still be there or if he will be as responsible as when you both started. Besides, taking care of children is not easy, talkless of if the kids end up having to suffer with weak blood types. |
Re: "We Both Have Same Blood Type." by Nobody: 10:42am On Dec 19, 2014 |
Jennimma: At least you guys found out the problem on time before anything. Quit asking for solution from nairalanders,you are educated enough to know the consequences of having a child with sickle cell anemia. But if you feel love is blind,you can go ahead with the marriage... But be prepared to spend all the monies your man would be making on hospital bills #Don'tSufferInTheFuture |
Re: "We Both Have Same Blood Type." by salvatore007(m): 10:44am On Dec 19, 2014 |
In saint Valentine's voice...."L๏Vє Iş ßLIЙđ" My đєąr ม rIşK ђąVIЙ ąЙ AA, AS, and SS child..... มr LมV LYF MIGђ┼ єЙđ มP ßєIЙG ą ßąđ LIFє F๏r มr SS child.... MąKIЙG đ cђiLđ şมFFєr ą LIFє┼IMє ๏F şIcKЙєşş... đą┼ş ЩђY MєđIcąLLY I┼ş Й๏┼ ąđVIşєđ ┼๏ đIVє IЙ┼๏ ą rєLą┼I๏ЙşђIP LYK đą┼.... MY ąđVIcє: I KЙ๏Щ I┼'ş ђąrđ ßมђ ┼rY Lє┼┼IЙG đ GมY G๏ ş๏ ąş Й๏┼ ┼๏ şมFFєr IЙ đ Fม┼มrє... .....┼๏M๏rr๏Щ ЙєVєr đIєş, ม'L ş┼ILL FIЙđ đ PєrFєc┼ MąЙ..... |
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