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Re: 10 Life Lessons Every Nigerian Student Should Know Before Graduating From School by Kunleskey(m): 8:11am On Oct 16, 2014
Thanks to d op
Re: 10 Life Lessons Every Nigerian Student Should Know Before Graduating From School by MdzoughAdi(m): 8:11am On Oct 16, 2014
The best write up ever on nairaland, op weldon.
Re: 10 Life Lessons Every Nigerian Student Should Know Before Graduating From School by zionsamuel: 8:13am On Oct 16, 2014
This is entirely true especially number 7. Using myself as an example, what gives me 5figures today isn't what I studied in the university though I graduated with a 2:1.
A skill I learnt by the way, though funny to many at the time, it's hot cake now...still and motion graphics with social media advertising!

Be smart graduates!!

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Re: 10 Life Lessons Every Nigerian Student Should Know Before Graduating From School by Beennkumar(m): 8:18am On Oct 16, 2014
mattkelly:


Henhen?Abeg wetin una mean ohh?
You don't need to understand. smiley
Re: 10 Life Lessons Every Nigerian Student Should Know Before Graduating From School by Nobody: 8:20am On Oct 16, 2014
basbone:
I will need this info when i graduate.

You need to start practising on dem nw... Don't wait till u graduate.
Re: 10 Life Lessons Every Nigerian Student Should Know Before Graduating From School by Nobody: 8:37am On Oct 16, 2014
Nice One OP, thanks for this piece
Re: 10 Life Lessons Every Nigerian Student Should Know Before Graduating From School by depato88(m): 8:39am On Oct 16, 2014
little experience av goten as a fresh grad. confarms what op is sayin. under grads should take heed to this piece
Re: 10 Life Lessons Every Nigerian Student Should Know Before Graduating From School by iiiyyyk(m): 8:45am On Oct 16, 2014
@ op nice one, abeg tell them

for girls, just marry a rich daddy after graduation..... but dont forget the cost.. hahaha
Re: 10 Life Lessons Every Nigerian Student Should Know Before Graduating From School by flakydee(f): 8:48am On Oct 16, 2014
a commendable piece,its so real and can be achieved,he who has ear let him hear.
Re: 10 Life Lessons Every Nigerian Student Should Know Before Graduating From School by Ebunoluwah: 8:52am On Oct 16, 2014
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Re: 10 Life Lessons Every Nigerian Student Should Know Before Graduating From School by henryobinna(m): 9:01am On Oct 16, 2014
Giftedgreen:
As a student you probably would not believe us if we tell you that are absolutely naive and no, you are not on top of the world.

You will soon graduate from the university, service year is going to be awesome (at least according to the stories you’ve heard).

After service, you are going to get a job, have a family, build a home, become a millionaire and live happily ever after.

There is just one problem with your plan. The only problem with your plan is the real world.

This article is to lets students know things to look out for before they graduate so they don’t get railroaded.

1. A Degree Does Not Entitle You To A Job

We all know getting a degree means a lot of hard work and commitment but because you have a degree does not mean somebody is going to grant you an automatic job offer.

Gone are the days when all you needed to get a good job was a university degree.

We were all told the same lies in secondary school, get a university degree and a mouth watering job would fall on your lap.

The smart people are the ones who figured out this lie early in school and made sure the time they spent in school would separate from other students who were busy enjoying school life to the fullest.

It’s time to get your head out of the sand.

2. Start The Job Search Before You Graduate

Job hunting is a complicated thing and there is no almighty formula for you to acquire a job. Job seeking is not something you can “cram” for and pour out everything during an exam. There are no cheat notes for post-graduation experience.

The job hunting business is an on-the-training experience and the best way to get ahead of your colleagues is to start your career exploration during your service year or better yet during your university days.

You can research branches of your field, do internships (industrial trainings), find out what size of company is for you, and practice job searching techniques.

Put these tips in play and by the time you’re done with service, you’ll be prepared for the next phase of your life and it will be quite tricky for reality to hit you with tons of bricks.

3. Facebook Is Forever

Not just facebook, but twitter, instagram, and every other social network that you decide to be a part of.

What does this mean to an average student? Well it means that every obscure joke you post on Facebook, every explicit picture you share, every inappropriate comment will be visible to the world when you become famous or when you go job hunting.

At the very least, know how to manipulate your social media privacy settings and restrain yourself from littering your social media accounts with unfitting content.

Being appropriate on the web is just as important for a political career as it is for finding employment. Your binge drinking photos might be funny now but they won’t be so hilarious in five years time.

4. Life Is Expensive

You are probably surviving on the allowance you receive from your parents right now and you’ve realized that life can be expensive, EXPENSIVE.

Just wait until you have to live on your own, probably during service year or when you get your first job.

By the time you pay for house rents, transportation fare, recharge cards, light bills, water bills, food, utilities, and every miscellaneous expense. It won’t take long before you realize that life is expensive.

Everything would suddenly become so expensive that you would sometimes feel like crying.

This is one of the most painful things to learn. EVERYTHING costs money.

Anytime from now, you should learn how to create a budget for yourself. Otherwise your rent will be due, your kitchen will be empty and you will be busy dodging from the people you owe money.

5. Never Be Scared To Take Chances

This is probably the most important lesson you have to learn before you graduate, never be scared to take chances. You’ll never get anywhere you want if you don’t take calculated risks every now and then.

No one is telling you to jump out of a plane or go swimming with crocodiles (which would be awesome if you survive), but nothing in life comes easy. Yes, it is cliché, but it the hard truth. After all, nothing can deputise experience.

When you become a graduate, the best option is not becoming a boring office robot whose life revolves around work.

Your twenties and thirties are the some of the best years of your life, we kid you not.

Do not be afraid to face the real world with open arms, explore opportunities, and take chances. You’ll be surprised at what fate has in stock for you.

6. Learn How To Interact With People

Learning how to interact is a very valuable skill you need to have in your belt. It is a “street smart” skill. You could read a million books on how to interact with people but the only way to develop your interaction skill is to put it into practice constantly until it becomes a part of you.

This skill will surely be tested each time you go for a job interview. Heck! You even need this job more if you are an entrepreneur.

Learn to greet people with a smile. Say “thank you, please and I appreciate” whenever the situation deems necessary. These small gestures go a long way to make a huge difference. Don’t be so quick to dismiss the power of appreciation and courtesy.

Make small talk, get to know anyone you have to spend more than thirty minutes with, help them if you can. Who knows? You might meet your own saviour.

Don’t know what to talk about? You could talk about the TV shows you watch, the cool blogs you visit on the net (don’t forget to mention giftedgreen.com), the weather – hint hint : ).

Learn to be always positive, make sure people smile after talking to you.

7. A Skill Will Get You Farther Than A Certificate

What we recommend is that you pick up as many skills as possible, as long as you have a passion for it. Do not say “I am studying English Language, why do I need to learn HTML?” If you are computer major, take a couple of management trainings. It will help you in the long run.

The skills you acquire do not necessarily have to be educational; you could learn tailoring, baking, programming, carpentry . . . anything. You never know when your minor skill will become your added advantage, or your primary source of income.

Not only that, you will be able to converse with a larger variety of different people, plus it shows your employer that you are a fast and versatile learner.

8. Save Something – Anything

Start saving now and you’ll be setting the foundation of your financial future.

There is always a need to save, even if it is the tiniest bit each month. Like we said earlier, life is expensive and the best way to be prepared is for you start saving right now.

Whether it’s for a big purchase, an emergency or for your future it’s important to have a little money for fall back to during rainy days. Trust us, those days will come.

9. You Are Going To Need Lots Of Hardwork

You are now a graduate, you no longer need to read through the night, attend boring lectures and write difficult examinations. Your life should be an easy pie from here. Right? Wrong.

In fact, this is the time that you need to work harder than you imagined, if you want to be successful.

Although you could relax; get a federal government appointment, and retire on your pension. This is perfect, if you want to be mediocre.

We are you are among those that want to be successful. In order to do that, you are going to need a lot of brain work, stay up late at nights and lots of reading if you are going to be among the 1%.

Even if your father is a billionaire, it’s a lot of hard work maintaining all that money.

10.Success Takes Time

After applying all these, do not expect to become a millionaire overnight, or in a week or in a month. Success takes time......
imagine how many hours it took this to make FP, if it were some stup-id post now, it'll go straight to FP.
thanks OP for this!

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Re: 10 Life Lessons Every Nigerian Student Should Know Before Graduating From School by solexb(m): 9:04am On Oct 16, 2014
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Re: 10 Life Lessons Every Nigerian Student Should Know Before Graduating From School by Lincoln94(m): 9:12am On Oct 16, 2014
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Re: 10 Life Lessons Every Nigerian Student Should Know Before Graduating From School by factorial1(m): 9:13am On Oct 16, 2014
nomabeeee:
sooo swt,inspiring.am jst waking up and dz is wat I get for morning lectures lol op I love u to my soul*screams*dz is xactly wat I need as a prospective batch c coper
and must you now quote the whole epistle Lol.
Re: 10 Life Lessons Every Nigerian Student Should Know Before Graduating From School by Revolva(m): 9:28am On Oct 16, 2014
So whats d need to go to a school sef.....omo me na hussle i dey hussle...to be a raduate for dis nation don taya person sef
Re: 10 Life Lessons Every Nigerian Student Should Know Before Graduating From School by opesmall(m): 9:30am On Oct 16, 2014
Hmm na tru talk
Re: 10 Life Lessons Every Nigerian Student Should Know Before Graduating From School by nomabeeee(f): 9:30am On Oct 16, 2014
factorial1:
and must you now quote the whole epistle Lol.
busy body..hw is dt ur business.. tongue
Re: 10 Life Lessons Every Nigerian Student Should Know Before Graduating From School by Edigrows: 9:33am On Oct 16, 2014
diz goes out to guys especially, while d ladies wait for us to come and marry dem SMH
Re: 10 Life Lessons Every Nigerian Student Should Know Before Graduating From School by fabela(f): 9:38am On Oct 16, 2014
Thank
Re: 10 Life Lessons Every Nigerian Student Should Know Before Graduating From School by yorke1: 9:40am On Oct 16, 2014
Op forgot to add that they should STAY AWAY FROM GIRLS!

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Re: 10 Life Lessons Every Nigerian Student Should Know Before Graduating From School by iamskatertola(m): 9:40am On Oct 16, 2014
Hmmm....true talk
Re: 10 Life Lessons Every Nigerian Student Should Know Before Graduating From School by kingvicking(m): 9:46am On Oct 16, 2014
ekeneidiagbor:
Jah bless @Op...... Every Nigerian student shud read this.......

Not just students, everyone should know life will not always turnout as expected.
Re: 10 Life Lessons Every Nigerian Student Should Know Before Graduating From School by agrovick(m): 9:47am On Oct 16, 2014
Great piece of work. Op, thanks a lot.
Re: 10 Life Lessons Every Nigerian Student Should Know Before Graduating From School by harrwix(m): 9:52am On Oct 16, 2014
dis is timely!

thanks op...just abt graduating
Re: 10 Life Lessons Every Nigerian Student Should Know Before Graduating From School by Mayydayy(m): 10:05am On Oct 16, 2014
basbone:
I will need this info when i graduate.



you need it now idi¢t!!
Re: 10 Life Lessons Every Nigerian Student Should Know Before Graduating From School by danchuzzy(m): 10:15am On Oct 16, 2014
basbone:
I will need this info when i graduate.

before you graduate!!
Re: 10 Life Lessons Every Nigerian Student Should Know Before Graduating From School by Appswheel(m): 10:15am On Oct 16, 2014
lawrenceunaa:
So true but hw can u go for job hunt while still an undergraduate
Would quit sch if u find as job pls elaborate

2. Start The Job Search Before You Graduate
One way to do this is to identify the companies you will like to work with and find out what it takes to work with them. You can do this by signing up an account on linkedin. Many of these companies have their staff and profile on linkedin.

Also, when you undergo your Industrial training in a reputable company, ensure to impress to create a possibility of being employed when you graduate.

I will also advice you to engage your holidays in extra-activities with organisations who provide products, services related to your course of study or interest. Some undergraduates manage to gather over two years of work experience before they graduate you know. I once met a graduate who had just completed his NYSC with 2 years of working experience. How it happened?, He made the best of his holidays.

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Re: 10 Life Lessons Every Nigerian Student Should Know Before Graduating From School by achi4u(m): 10:20am On Oct 16, 2014
Juliaann:
no I won't click liketongue




@topic Very nice esp no 1 and 2smiley
Dear,every points raised by the Op is very important and an eye opener.
I keep telling every students around me to sit up and face the reality of life.
Some see my points others go their ways.
Re: 10 Life Lessons Every Nigerian Student Should Know Before Graduating From School by Dujardin(m): 10:22am On Oct 16, 2014
I wonder why this wonderful and mind opening post has just two pages! I tire for we Naija students sef.

Op grt job for sharing wit us!
Re: 10 Life Lessons Every Nigerian Student Should Know Before Graduating From School by Edusouls(m): 10:30am On Oct 16, 2014
Post of the year,excellent intuition and education for the many dumb and myopic nigerian people, who still thinks degree is all and all, spend their entire life time, accquiring certificates but without sucess in the labour market...thanks again.

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