bukatyne:


Maám,

I do not quote names in what I am not sure of.

I have been attending RCCG for about 9 years and wedded in RCCG.

Infact, our counselor had to force to kneel for my hubby during our classes else he will not continue as it means I could not be 'submissive'

I have attended a lot of seminars and sermons where such was said.

Maybe your parish is Modernized so they do not hammer on such things

Stuffs like this is why I avoid these MOG's like plague so I don't end up telling him that which should be hidden.

LUCKY guy,u've seen it all (her character) its left for you to decide...some gurls will hide everything until you tie the knot,,,whatever you decide atleast you know her wela....enjoy!

bros reconsider your decision since you want a lady who will be washing your clothes.Not that she even acts interested and you didnt have to recall her past relationship cos that's none of your business, or is she the first gal you ever dated?

OP, please, u don't need a pastor to tell u to leave Dis woman... even if go to meet pastor, the pastor will say let us continue to pray...
this is not a prayer matter, its a prayer answered... leave Dis woman ASAP!
she is not Ur wife.... be careful

If you ask me I wouldn't dwell too much on her previous relationship(s)...we all have past r/ships that didn't work for one reason or the other.

Your girl is doing you a big favor actually. She is telling you exactly how it is, agreed the words are not coming out nice. She is also giving enough time for her words to sink in so you can make up your mind if you wanna go ahead with her or not.

So the ball is in your court and nobody can do that for you. Reaccess your priorities, what exactly do you want in a wife? If she fits, go ahead, if not let her go! And be fast about it.

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What exactly are you afraid of? Marrying a woman who won't wash your clothes or buying a washing machine?

Please wait..let your marriage intro take a lil longer, you need time to get to know your woman, please I'm begging you do not go ahead with any marriage plan for now.

A wife should endure and enjoy with you, this one is already telling you she lack perseverance indirectly. Be very careful bro!