There's did girl dat works opposite my office in Kaduna, she is a very decent and very godly......I met her, collected her number and started calling her...I got very attracted 2 her ( don't forget dat I said dat She's dis holy holy kind of girl)


I started sending her SMS (normal good morning/ evening SMS ooo)....after sometime she said I should stop sending her SMS, dat I should even stop calling her and I stopped.


I gave her space of about one month then I started calling her again.....we kept talking then later she stopped picking my calls frequently


She later traveled 2 abuja and I also traveled out of Kaduna 2 complete my educational program


I stopped calling her for a very long time because she was too uptight and d funny thing was dat all dis while I didn't tell her I had any feelings for her


After about two-three months without any form of communication, I decide to call her last month and we started getting on very very well.


We usually call each other nearly everyday....the
truth is dat I like d girl very much....
Last week, I asked her out and she said she said how am I sure dat she doesn't have a boy in her life, after a lot of persuasion from me, she finally said she has no b.f and she was gping 2 think about it.



She called me on midnight call two days ago and started telling me all her life story and telling me dat she is a very emotional person bla bla bla...she asked about my old relationships and I told her (but they were all lies, u know u can't trust a lady) after we finished, she asked me abt my Christian life and all dat.....(I told u she was uptight) and I told her and she told me abt hers too


D day before Yesterday morning I sent her a normal good morning SMS and I asked her to call me wen she got d message....she did immediately and she sounded very happy and she even appreciated d text


She said she would call me later in but she didnt, I called her throughout yesterday but she didn't pick but she later called me in d nite and was asking me funny questions.


She said she doesn't understand my obsession with her.....she said wat was d meaning of d message I sent 2 her ( d same person dat called me to appreciate d text and she was even sounding very happy)


She said she's not ready for any relationship now....dat I am now like a brother and friend to her.
In fact she said she doesn't like me d way I like her


And she was d same person asking me dat will she be d 3rd person I would date and I said no dat she would be d last( we discussed this during d midnight call when she was asking me about my paat relationships)


Now she is d same saying other things dat I'm like a brother 2 her ( I denied immediately, I told her I am not her brother)


And I really really like d girl.....abeg Nairalanders in s Lord...pls advice me on wat 2 do......I have not called or talked 2 her since yesterday........I don't even know what to do next.......God bless u as u help a brother in need

segun544:
There's did girl dat works opposite my office in Kaduna, she is a very decent and very godly......I met her, collected her number and started calling her...I got very attracted 2 her ( don't forget dat I said dat She's dis holy holy kind of girl)
I started sending her SMS (normal good morning/ evening SMS ooo)....after sometime she said I should stop sending her SMS, dat I should even stop calling her and I stopped.
I gave her space of about one month then I started calling her again.....we kept talking then later she stopped picking my calls frequently
She later traveled 2 abuja and I also traveled out of Kaduna 2 complete my educational program
I stopped calling her for a very long time because she was too uptight and d funny thing was dat all dis while I didn't tell her I had any feelings for her
After about two-three months without any form of communication, I decide to call her last month and we started getting on very very well.
We usually call each other nearly everyday....the
truth is dat I like d girl very much....
Last week, I asked her out and she said she said how am I sure dat she doesn't have a boy in her life, after a lot of persuasion from me, she finally said she has no b.f and she was gping 2 think about it.
She called me on midnight call two days ago and started telling me all her life story and telling me dat she is a very emotional person bla bla bla...she asked about my old relationships and I told her (but they were all lies, u know u can't trust a lady) after we finished, she asked me abt my Christian life and all dat.....(I told u she was uptight) and I told her and she told me abt hers too
D day before Yesterday morning I sent her a normal good morning SMS and I asked her to call me wen she got d message....she did immediately and she sounded very happy and she even appreciated d text
She said she would call me later in but she didnt, I called her throughout yesterday but she didn't pick but she later called me in d nite and was asking me funny questions.

So after she finally gave you attention,you realised you cant trust girls and you started lying to her You need cane

So?
It seems like you haven't finished what you were saying?.

However, to your request, just keep doing it the way you are doing. You seem to be doing fine.
They are the holy type so you have to be patient.

Because she claims the holy type doesn't mean she will not be on fire on the bed o.
You just made me remember my pastors daughter back then.

segun544:
There's did girl dat works opposite my office in Kaduna, she is a very decent and very godly......I met her, collected her number and started calling her...I got very attracted 2 her ( don't forget dat I said dat She's dis holy holy kind of girl)

I started sending her SMS (normal good morning/ evening SMS ooo)....after sometime she said I should stop sending her SMS, dat I should even stop calling her and I stopped.

I gave her space of about one month then I started calling her again.....we kept talking then later she stopped picking my calls frequently

She later traveled 2 abuja and I also traveled out of Kaduna 2 complete my educational program

I stopped calling her for a very long time because she was too uptight and d funny thing was dat all dis while I didn't tell her I had any feelings for her

After about two-three months without any form of communication, I decide to call her last month and we started getting on very very well.

We usually call each other nearly everyday....the
truth is dat I like d girl very much....
Last week, I asked her out and she said she said how am I sure dat she doesn't have a boy in her life, after a lot of persuasion from me, she finally said she has no b.f and she was gping 2 think about it.


She called me on midnight call two days ago and started telling me all her life story and telling me dat she is a very emotional person bla bla bla...she asked about my old relationships and I told her (but they were all lies, u know u can't trust a lady) after we finished, she asked me abt my Christian life and all dat.....(I told u she was uptight) and I told her and she told me abt hers too

D day before Yesterday morning I sent her a normal good morning SMS and I asked her to call me wen she got d message....she did immediately and she sounded very happy and she even appreciated d text

She said she would call me later in but she didnt, I called her throughout yesterday but she didn't pick but she later called me in d nite and was asking me funny questions.

She said she doesn't understand my obsession with her.....she said wat was d meaning of d message I sent 2 her ( d same person dat called me to appreciate d text and she was even sounding very happy)

She said she's not ready for any relationship now....dat I am now like a brother and friend to her.
In fact she said she doesn't like me d way I like her

And she was d same person asking me dat will she be d 3rd person I would date and I said no dat she would be d last( we discussed this during d midnight call when she was asking me about my paat relationships)

Now she is d same saying other things dat I'm like a brother 2 her ( I denied immediately, I told her I am not her brother)

FRIEND ZONED

D issue is dat I don't want to be friend zoned. Infact I cannot and must not be friend zoned..... datz y I need ur help sirs/ma's

segun544:
D issue is dat I don't want to be friend zoned. Infact I cannot and must not be friend zoned..... datz y I need ur help sirs/ma's

lmaoo.. is it ebola? you're already in...

Guy, is she only babe in the world? No let this gal carry your heart play o. Churchy uptight gals are the baddest players I know.

You are doing just fine! P

Go and join d choir in d church she attends....leave d rest to God

donwily:
Go and join d choir in d church she attends....leave d rest to God

lol..don't let him get frustrated... there's hierarchy there, he has to humbly watch a senior chorister finish his turn with the sister first before his newcomer's asş can have a go

Don't waste your TIME anymore...she's just not into you..I didn't even have to read your whole post to figure that out

[quote
author=spotit post=27253479]lol..don't let him get frustrated...
there's hierarchy there, he has to humbly watch a senior chorister
finish his turn with the sister first before his newcomer's asş can have
a go[/quote]
If he has a gud voice, he can collect xpress ticket...lol

donwily:

If he has a gud voice, he can collect xpress ticket...lol

doesn't mean nothing, angel voice will respect hierarchy, otherwise choir will break to pieces

if he has a good voice, he stands a quicker and better chance with the girl through don jazzy's tutelage than the poor choir

If he has a gud voice, he can collect xpress ticket.
[quote
author=spotit post=27253479]lol..don't let him get frustrated...
there's hierarchy there, he has to humbly watch a senior chorister
finish his turn with the sister first before his newcomer's asş can have
a go[/quote]

This dude is battling to go out of the friend zone.

One question for you. Do you really like her because of her '' born again'' nature? Not all these girls wey carry holy holy fot head are really born again. Btw, you get mind and patience. Is your middle name Patience?

Emmysteve:
This dude is battling to go out of the friend zone.

One question for you. Do you really like her because of her '' born again'' nature? Not all these girls wey carry holy holy fot head are really born again. Btw, you get mind and patience. Is your middle name Patience?

bros I just like her for who she is

spotit:
lol..don't let him get frustrated... there's hierarchy there, he has to humbly watch a senior chorister finish his turn with the sister first before his newcomer's asş can have a go

Are you ok? Church is not a brothel where you pass babes around.
He said she is a decent gal, haba.

segun544:


bros I just like her for who she is

Be a man, jst lock up for dat babe, give her like 3mnth, aswear she go begin hustle u.

Poor Op! U're so "in love" like sum ppl will say. Nywys, its only logical, u remind her of her past. She must have been hurt badly in d past& now she's getting fund of u&all of a sudden she remembers dat was d same way she got with d oda guy&he still left her. So she doesn't want 2 be taken 4 a fool, if u really love her like u claim, u need a lot of patience&try 2 be different.

D girl just called me now saying she hasn't head anything from me since morning and I said I've been busy since morning.........she now said I shouldn't be angry with her......I said I'm not angry....she said if I'm not angry y have I not called her since morning......I answered and said its because I'm busy........pls what do u people think I should do

3cycle:

Are you ok? Church is not a brothel where you pass babes around.
He said she is a decent gal, haba.

are you ok? tell me about your exciting brothel experience.... I'm sure i don't wanna hear your hypocritical church experience.

segun544:
D girl just called me now saying she hasn't head anything from me since morning and I said I've been busy since morning.........she now said I shouldn't be angry with her......I said I'm not angry....she said if I'm not angry y have I not called her since morning......I answered and said its because I'm busy........pls what do u people think I should do

I think you should get some alone time with her..then bleeb the living daylight outta her..


nonsense.

d girl just called me again saying we can still be good friends and I said we should just suspend d issue...... d next thing I saw was dis sms message from her
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There is absolutely nothin 2 suspend I blieve we've finalized everythin even if I don't feel the same way u do I know u can stil move ahead $ we can rmain gud friends ok thnks 4 understandin wish u the best in ur career even as u thirst to know God more may he reveal 2 u deep truth wich the world haav not heard rmain lifted with the rmainin hrs of 2day tnxs $ God bless
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Guys wat do I do?

OP, u see this ur holy moly foly gurl? U see this Godly gurl? Na lies. All lies. Na big fat lie. She wants u to keep coming back. Leave this gurl now. Eeh? Let her have her fellow church brother, smhhh. Just because her mouth shout : " Jesus of Nazareth, U are my King". She holy and godly? Aaah, I know these type of women. Pretenders. Godly my foot!

What kind of life do you live, maybe she perceives that you are not born again and therefore might have a different world view from hers. ''Can two work together except they agree... If you honestly want to win her, sincerely give your life to Christ even if you don't, you'll still live a happy life. Its a win win situation for you

What kind of life do you live? Maybe she perceives that you are not born again and therefore might have a different world view from hers. ''Can two work together except they agree... If you honestly want to win her, sincerely give your life to Christ even if you don't, you'll still live a happy life. Its a win win situation for you

Big tym slacking. Right from d days of John d Baptist......and d violent taketh it by force! Go to her church, her house, her workplace, etc for your info, she has already accepted. Pls dnt tell us on ds forum dat she said she wud tink about it but she came 2 ur house, slept on ur bed naked (cos dia was heat), and u ar still waiting fr a YES ansa. I go take am personal wt u wallahi!

Mr man, you are looking for holyholy girl for a relationship, are you holy yourself. People on nairaland say I have a bad mouth or I don't talk to people, I am cold and all that. Well I am cold to all people becos I was making a sacrifice. So mr man,if u want a holy girlfriend, you to become a pope

Forget her please.

To me I think she's playing her to get. She likes you but doesn't really want to show it.
She believes you will always come back to her.
Please ignore her like plague for a while. Don't even reply that SMS
If she doesn't get back in a week, look for a better girl asap

nestaolive:
Mr man, you are looking for holyholy girl for a relationship, are you holy yourself. People on nairaland say I have a bad mouth or I don't talk to people, I am cold and all that. Well I am cold to all people becos I was making a sacrifice. So mr man,if u want a holy girlfriend, you to become a pope

She can always tell the guy the kinda man she wants and trying to be hot today and cold tomorrow
And what he decides to be a pope, finds the way to eat the forbidden fruit and finally leave her?

Friendzoning of life