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What Are The Disadvantages Of Inter-tribal Marriage? by adeiza4u(m): 11:31pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
Just as the topic implies, are there any? Or better still, what are the disadvantages of Inter-tribal Marriage in Nigeria context? I need ur opinions please. |
Re: What Are The Disadvantages Of Inter-tribal Marriage? by 72Morale: 11:32pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
The only major problem of inter-tribal marriage is the fact that Nigeria is not a united nation but a county filled with tribalistic lots pretending to be united. It's easier for a man to fit in such marriages, but a very risky move for women because no Nigerian parents will wholeheartedly support their son from marrying a woman from another tribe. They might act cool, but deep within, they don't like it. 2 Likes |
Re: What Are The Disadvantages Of Inter-tribal Marriage? by Oluneutral: 11:46pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
@op, ordinarily, there shouldn't be any problem just like the above poster opined. In a country where there is true love and unity, where there is unity in diversity, marrying from another tribe should be a welcome development. But as it is, we're only pretending to be united, so, little things like cultural differences, language differences and traditional differences are bound to cause unnecessary chaos and tension in inter tribal marriage, especially in Nigeria. 1 Like |
Re: What Are The Disadvantages Of Inter-tribal Marriage? by Bola146(f): 6:08am On Feb 22, 2020 |
Many, especially the tradition, family background and language 1 Like |
Re: What Are The Disadvantages Of Inter-tribal Marriage? by spongeisback: 6:31am On Feb 22, 2020 |
The way you guys confidently come online to say things with no truth is crazy!!! How can you say NO Nigerian parent will support it wholeheartedly?! Are you in every Nigerian family? The family my sister is married into all the men are married to different tribes and the parents LOVE IT. She has never complained of any ill treatment. She personally started learning the language because she wanted to nobody forced her or cared. 72Morale: 3 Likes |
Re: What Are The Disadvantages Of Inter-tribal Marriage? by adeiza4u(m): 11:39pm On Feb 22, 2020 |
72Morale:Yeah but I don't think that is general. There always exceptional cases you know. |
Re: What Are The Disadvantages Of Inter-tribal Marriage? by ahnie: 12:04am On Feb 23, 2020 |
In my case ..none for now. My husband is an Igbo man... whilst yours truly is isoko. As for the issue of languages....i'm very versatile when it comes to that. 1 Like |
Re: What Are The Disadvantages Of Inter-tribal Marriage? by AmuDimpka: 12:37am On Feb 23, 2020 |
That is the worst even the bible warned isreal never to marry outside isreal Others are . Too much cultural baggage .. Intercultural dramas and troubles ... inability to communicate ....different cultural perspective .....high divorce rate .....giving birth to confused kids that wouldn't know which tribe they are from ..... inability for the kids to speak language ......one parent make a jest of other parent tribe Stupidity is inter tribal marriage |
Re: What Are The Disadvantages Of Inter-tribal Marriage? by GboyegaD(m): 5:09am On Feb 23, 2020 |
The major challenges are cultural differences and language barrier. If both are willing to work it out, it is awesome. My parents are an example. My dad doesn't care about culture and so it made it easy and for language, they adopted English and the Pidgin variant at the start to make communication easy. I tell my friends, I adopted a tribe outside of my parents tribe and everyone is cool with it. First, I'm Nigerian and then my choice tribe follows. 1 Like |
Re: What Are The Disadvantages Of Inter-tribal Marriage? by adeiza4u(m): 10:58am On Feb 25, 2020 |
ahnie:I'm happy for you sis. This is encouraging. |
Re: What Are The Disadvantages Of Inter-tribal Marriage? by adeiza4u(m): 11:05am On Feb 25, 2020 |
Lalasticlala, good morning. |
Re: What Are The Disadvantages Of Inter-tribal Marriage? by jasman1: 11:33am On Feb 25, 2020 |
Intermarriages are worse in some cultures and I’m not sure why some people are still doing it. I wouldn’t advise anyone to do it, not in that atmosphere of hate and distrust. It’s a shit hole of a place and will remain so for a long time. Yes, some cultures are similar in so many ways except the language, that might be okay otherwise, stay with your own. 1 Like |
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