Actually I saw Dis gal @my frnds party she was cute and very exquisite, I was d MC, so didn't have d chance to collect ha number as she left early. I later collected ha number 4rm d celebrant. I started chatting with her on whatsapp, tho she asked a lot of questions how I got ha number.. Am actually used to that so I just did my thing and we became friends.. 2weeks later, we were used to each other, I always call b4 she sleeps, she does call sometimes too, we chat from morning to night everyday. My feelingsgrew stronger, so I invited ha to my house and she came over, it was fun we watched movies and hosted but I couldn't tell her my feelings because it was her 1st time coming to my place. So, exactly 3wks later she came I wanted to tell her but she was in a hurry so I begged ha to come f next day but she came 2days after... when she came, we watched movie, after d movie I told her my feelings and that I would want 2b moredan a friend, but she disagreed..I know it won't b easy... so I kept on insisting that I trully care and I promised not to hurt, but she persistently saying that its impossible that she don't want to date anybody.. She says till few years to come.. I was expecting her to leave my house since she knows my intentions towards ha. But she laid on my bed tempting me.. So I immediately started thinking dat if Dis gal leaves I Don 4k up o... at least so it would be a win win or lose lose... so I tried to romance her, she now got annoyed and left.I called her after 2hrs she didn't pick, I sent ha a message thru what'sapp that *M sowie* but no reply until now. and I haven't make any effort of contacting her cos I don't want *see finish* it happened last 4days ago.. So pals I wanto to know if what I did was wrong or right? Or should I call her again?? Just confused... Pls no Insults..

what do you think? this is why i guess some girls tag all guys same. either ways you had the option of telling her to leave your house buh ... anyways, to me, you flopped. sowie.

Lose lose

Spicylate:
what do you think? this is why i guess tag all guys same. eoither ways you had the option of telling her to leave your house buh ... anyways, to me, you flopped. sowie.

he didn't flop he did the right thing how will you go to the house of a guy you rejected and naw. Tempting him so I think wha you did was right

samflexxy:
he didn't flop he did the right thing how will you go to the house of a guy you rejected and naw. Tempting him so I think wha you did was right

oh! i see.
btw, op was there a chair in your house?

Lol... I think you were following all this nairaland role of wat 2 do wen a lady comes 2 ur house... Bro. MAN UP u just killed ur chances.

well i think u f'' up in the first place. buh if u are still into her, persistence is still de key to all success...
LAST BULLET...I think u are just lusting over her and not in love with her. if not u wouldn't have thought about any win lose abi lose lose situation.

i tot your name wax MARIJUANA*ok u said no insult*+hw d Guest wan take hlp u?@+u love a gurl,u offended her ad calling her na see finish?

.

Mujinho4b:
Actually I saw Dis gal @my frnds party she was cute and very exquisite, I was d MC, so didn't have d chance to collect ha number as she left early. I later collected ha number 4rm d celebrant. I started chatting with her on whatsapp, tho she asked a lot of questions how I got ha number.. Am actually used to that so I just did my thing and we became friends.. 2weeks later, we were used to each other, I always call b4 she sleeps, she does call sometimes too, we chat from morning to night everyday. My feelingsgrew stronger, so I invited ha to my house and she came over, it was fun we watched movies and hosted but I couldn't tell her my feelings because it was her 1st time coming to my place. So, exactly 3wks later she came I wanted to tell her but she was in a hurry so I begged ha to come f next day but she came 2days after... when she came, we watched movie, after d movie I told her my feelings and that I would want 2b moredan a friend, but she disagreed..I know it won't b easy... so I kept on insisting that I trully care and I promised not to hurt, but she persistently saying that its impossible that she don't want to date anybody.. She says till few years to come.. I was expecting her to leave my house since she knows my intentions towards ha. But she laid on my bed tempting me.. So I immediately started thinking dat if Dis gal leaves I Don 4k up o... at least so it would be a win win or lose lose... so I tried to romance her, she now got annoyed and left.I called her after 2hrs she didn't pick, I sent ha a message thru what'sapp that *M sowie* but no reply until now. and I haven't make any effort of contacting her cos I don't want *see finish* it happened last 4days ago.. So pals I wanto to know if what I did was wrong or right? Or should I call her again?? Just confused... Pls no Insults..

bro ; 4rm my wealth of experience; n inundation of intimmate matters; I can tell u only one thing; pls do not listen to what all these ladies are writting above; it is gibberish.
Every gal knows what she wannts; n when dey see it they don't slack; most of them goes towards it; others tempt it 4 it to come close... The last thing u should do is spend ur timme whinning about about a girl...
Since U'v called her, n tried apologizing; n she refused replying; blank her; don't call aagain; don't establish any contact or whatsoever; leave her; if she's really into u; or like U ; she 'll come back; n if she's not; she won't ( then know it ws never meant to be)...


Just saying (do not be surprise dat same girl; might be busy, doing *gangBan*g,threesom*e ,giving multiple BJ;n organising sex party to different advance men; that pays well(there is a 90% chance, as numerous "good looking" girls re into this) .... Bro; experience has thought me a lot; I believe u'll learn wt time too.... Them no dey carry woman matter 4 head...

I REST MY CASE - Unkle....


I 'm sure ready; cus I expect many hateful comments 4rm ladies dat 'll quote me; I'm all used to it; cus they tend to get very edgy when u reveal their deepest dirty secrets....

Cashio:
well i think u f'' up in the first place. buh if u are still into her, persistence is still de key to all success...
LAST BULLET...I think u are just lusting over her and not in love with her. if not u wouldn't have thought about any win lose abi lose lose situation.

So, u believe there is LOVE? What the guy did is what i can do, if the guy didn't make any move that day she ll tell her frds say the guy na mumu. Op dont worry yourself nd dnt beg her too much. she will come nd u ll Bleep her life. If she didn't accept move on. Women are too plenty to border yourself over one

Spicylate:
what do you think? this is why i guess some girls tag all guys same. either ways you had the option of telling her to leave your house buh ... anyways, to me, you flopped. sowie.

May cockroaches chop my best trousers if the girl do not come back to Apologise.

4get the pretending.

@OP. No hope is lost.

I'll be back to tell you what you should do..

Tallesty1:
May cockroaches chop my best trousers if the girl do not come back to Apologise.

4get the pretending.

@OP. No hope is lost.

I'll be back to tell you what you should do..

ok!?

@ OP,you did the right thing jooor,what was she expecting when she go khack ontop your bed?

.

I wooed her,


she no agree,


she be like,


all men are dogs,


i asked,


which breed is your father?,


and she got very angry,


did i do anything wrong?

chimajii:


Sorry to say this to you, But you're CRAZY!! Why are u concerned with what she'll tell her friends? So whenever a girl lies on ur Bed it now simply means it's a GREENLIGHT to sex? Just shutUp!

Ok. Am crazy and u think women r loyal? Am allergic to been FRIENDZONED.

Rape Alert

Spicylate:

oh! i see.
btw, op was there a chair in your house?

He transferred his chairs to his neighbors room so the girl wouldn't have any other option than to lie on the bed

Well, you are obviously wrong...you shouldnt have taken that as an opportunity or a license for a romance...also she was highly unreasonable to have laid on your bed (hope you have chairs anyway) in attempt to seduce, ladies also need to learn how to manage themselves and friendship...how can you go to the house of someone you've nt known too well and get comfortable on his bed? na wah ooo

click2cbn:
He transferred his chairs to his neighbors room so the girl wouldn't have any other option than to lie on the bed

how thoughtful

kozaic:
Lol... I think you were following all this nairaland role of wat 2 do wen a lady comes 2 ur house... Bro. MAN UP u just killed ur chances.

exactly..tosyne2much see wat u have caused ohh!!!

You did nothing wrong my brother. The only mistake you did is you failed to study her and you also rushed.

marieolae:
exactly..tosyne2much see wat u have caused ohh!!!

he didn't use that opportunity well as described

Hmmmmm see ladies dancing shoki just because a lady turned down an intimate advances of a dude

»Back to the topic

OP, though you acted hurriedly but you could have taken ur time to read her body language very well and a little whinning would have given you a foresight b4 starting any poo but e don happen e don happen

»Stop calling her for a while and pretend as if she doesn't exist just as my fellow dudes have said«

Do that for about a month and if she doesn't find a way to reconcile with you, * tell MODS make them throw me life ban on NL

tosyne2much:
Hmmmmm see ladies dancing shoki just because a lady turned down an intimate advances of a dude

»Back to the topic

OP, though you acted hurriedly but you could have taken ur time to read her body language very well and a little whinning would have given you a foresight b4 starting any poo but e don happen e don happen

»Stop calling her for a while and pretend as if she doesn't exist just as my fellow dudes have said«

Do that for about a month and if she doesn't find a way to reconcile with you, * tell MODS make them throw me life ban on NL

I would do just that... . thanks

Emmysteve:
You did nothing wrong my brother. The only mistake you did is you failed to study her and you also rushed.

Hmmm.. True talk...

damselalayo:
@ OP,you did the right thing jooor,what was she expecting when she go khack ontop your bed?

I no know o..

Tallesty1:
May cockroaches chop my best trousers if the girl do not come back to Apologise.

4get the pretending.

@OP. No hope is lost.

I'll be back to tell you what you should do..

OK. I am waiting

Mujinho4b:
Actually I saw Dis gal @my frnds party she was cute and very exquisite, I was d MC, so didn't have d chance to collect ha number as she left early. I later collected ha number 4rm d celebrant. I started chatting with her on whatsapp, tho she asked a lot of questions how I got ha number.. Am actually used to that so I just did my thing and we became friends.. 2weeks later, we were used to each other, I always call b4 she sleeps, she does call sometimes too, we chat from morning to night everyday. My feelingsgrew stronger, so I invited ha to my house and she came over, it was fun we watched movies and hosted but I couldn't tell her my feelings because it was her 1st time coming to my place. So, exactly 3wks later she came I wanted to tell her but she was in a hurry so I begged ha to come f next day but she came 2days after... when she came, we watched movie, after d movie I told her my feelings and that I would want 2b moredan a friend, but she disagreed..I know it won't b easy... so I kept on insisting that I trully care and I promised not to hurt, but she persistently saying that its impossible that she don't want to date anybody.. She says till few years to come.. I was expecting her to leave my house since she knows my intentions towards ha. But she laid on my bed tempting me.. So I immediately started thinking dat if Dis gal leaves I Don 4k up o... at least so it would be a win win or lose lose... so I tried to romance her, she now got annoyed and left.I called her after 2hrs she didn't pick, I sent ha a message thru what'sapp that *M sowie* but no reply until now. and I haven't make any effort of contacting her cos I don't want *see finish* it happened last 4days ago.. So pals I wanto to know if what I did was wrong or right? Or should I call her again?? Just confused... Pls no Insults..

u lack self control... Dat is it...

Cutehector4u:
u lack self control... Dat is it...

Hmm... I am self disciplined.. Just dat I had no options... Allowing her to go, am 80% sure she won't come back..

Mujinho4b:


Hmm... I am self disciplined.. Just dat I had no options... Allowing her to go, am 80% sure she won't come back..

no no no, u touched her, dats why..she was actualy tryn to knw if u were like her last boyfrnd..am probably sure she never wanted to experience what she experienced in the past.. U should hav asked her the reason for her not wanting to date at the moment...even if she wouldnt wana tell, u would hav employed sum intriguing skills on her and get her talkin,... U should have won her trust first....