nickz:
huh//

missberrypop5:
Chai, @op, sister the kin blessing weh God go bless you eh. In fact, if you're single come, my brother will marry you. don't mind them! Everytime Nigerian girls this, nigerian girls that. A time will come when you'll look for a nigerian girl, you won't find one by then na only boys go full for 9ja, una go just marry unasef . Ungrateful Men

kozaic:
Ok... Its annoys me when all I read abt in this forum is about "nigerian girls love money", the "obiageli mentality" and so many of such topics..

kozaic:
I admit the growing trend of ladies seeing a relationship as a job opportunity is fast rising and indeed tiresome.

kozaic:
But what some guyz especially Nlanders don't comprehend is the fact that they are the main cause of this problem.

kozaic:
They all want a Behind lady dat dresses nice uses wonderful and expensive gadget..looks beautiful and so on, the babe doesn't have a job or any means of livelihood and her parent aint rich.. You go after such babe, and come here 2 complain she demands too much money?

kozaic:
Huh.. Are u for real?

kozaic:
And for your information there's a difference between courting a lady, dating a lady and a S*x machine..

kozaic:
If you guyz don't see your self being together in the future just know your relationship is for mutual benefit...you must part some finances..

kozaic:
A responsible man takes care of his woman whether they are dating or courting..

kozaic:
A responsible woman is understanding...

kozaic:
Nairaland guyz...stop dis stingy trend.

missberrypop5:
enh.

Baddestguyp:
pls what's d so called something in return...and pls don't even dream of mentioning sex

Tallesty1:

You are not financially responsible if Nigeria Girls do not call you stingy man.

missberrypop5:
huhuhehehehahahaha. So una deh fear? Eiyah

kozaic:
.........
A responsible man takes care of his woman whether they are dating or courting..

A responsible woman is understanding..

kozaic:
Ok... Its annoys me when all I read abt in this forum is about "nigerian girls love money", the "obiageli mentality" and so many of such topics..

I admit the growing trend of ladies seeing a relationship as a job opportunity is fast rising and indeed tiresome.

But what some guyz especially Nlanders don't comprehend is the fact that they are the main cause of this problem.

They all want a Behind lady dat dresses nice uses wonderful and expensive gadget..looks beautiful and so on, the babe doesn't have a job or any means of livelihood and her parent aint rich.. You go after such babe, and come here 2 complain she demands too much money? Huh.. Are u for real?


And for your information there's a difference between courting a lady, dating a lady and a S*x machine..

If you guyz don't see your self being together in the future just know your relationship is for mutual benefit...you must part some finances..

A responsible man takes care of his woman whether they are dating or courting..

A responsible woman is understanding...

Nairaland guyz...stop dis stingy trend.

missberrypop5:
Chai, @op, sister the kin blessing weh God go bless you eh. In fact, if you're single come, my brother will marry you. don't mind them! Everytime Nigerian girls this, nigerian girls that. A time will come when you'll look for a nigerian girl, you won't find one, by then na only boys go full for 9ja, una go just marry unasef . Ungrateful Men

passionate88:
Must the guys give money?.

Hadizy:


I don't really think its only the poor once that complains. I personally know some rich guys that complain, is not like they are broke no. What I feel is these set of guys want independent ladies. They see an independent lady as a pride, a gold something of extreme value. Not that they are really broke.

In essence am saying is not all broke guys complain about giving money to girls. Some rich one too

Hadizy:


I don't really think its only the poor once that complains. I personally know some rich guys that complain, is not like they are broke no. What I feel is these set of guys want independent ladies. They see an independent lady as a pride, a gold something of extreme value. Not that they are really broke.

In essence am saying is not all broke guys complain about giving money to girls. Some rich one too

tweetobyte:
We complain because some ladies lack understanding. Most guys spend on their girlfriend when the money (flexing money) is available and don't have pressing needs that'll require those funds. But you'll see the same girl bitching and becoming an azzhole whenever the guy fails to take care of one out of her unending needs. Girls should learn the difference between a guy having money and not wanting to spend / a guy that doesn't have and doesn't want to rob a bank just to make her happy. Truth is, women can never be satisfied.

LadyCaty:


How dey talk sumtyms lyk dey force dem 2 give d kin moni..dey knt even say it infrnt of dier gfs..dey ll just kum here nd be making noise..

kozaic:
Ok... Its annoys me when all I read abt in this forum is about "nigerian girls love money", the "obiageli mentality" and so many of such topics..

I admit the growing trend of ladies seeing a relationship as a job opportunity is fast rising and indeed tiresome.

But what some guyz especially Nlanders don't comprehend is the fact that they are the main cause of this problem.

They all want a Behind lady dat dresses nice uses wonderful and expensive gadget..looks beautiful and so on, the babe doesn't have a job or any means of livelihood and her parent aint rich.. You go after such babe, and come here 2 complain she demands too much money? Huh.. Are u for real?


And for your information there's a difference between courting a lady, dating a lady and a S*x machine..

If you guyz don't see your self being together in the future just know your relationship is for mutual benefit...you must part some finances..

A responsible man takes care of his woman whether they are dating or courting..

A responsible woman is understanding...

Nairaland guyz...stop dis stingy trend.

chibwike:
which girl will accept garri

AfricanApple:
but must there be something in return?

missberrypop5:
Chai, @op, sister the kin blessing weh God go bless you eh. In fact, if you're single come, my brother will marry you. don't mind them! Everytime Nigerian girls this, nigerian girls that. A time will come when you'll look for a nigerian girl, you won't find one, by then na only boys go full for 9ja, una go just marry unasef . Ungrateful Men

sorry please I don't get that last statement

Ungrateful for what exactly?

idu1:
Troublesome face.........

AfricanApple:
I think thats d more reason people like it

AfricanApple:
funniest part is that is the broke ones who complains most. they can't even afford garri for a girl o but we will not hear word.

AfricanApple:
me, if u are worth accepting it for. I will not only accept but give u as well even better

luckybaddest:
U girls knows the truth but u never agree with it...since you know the capability of your guy you don't need to have problems with that now, by the way what will be the gain of a guy who spend a lot for his girlfriend without bleeping her cos in the atmosphere of relationship nowadays no one should be trust as in ur girl can change anytime likewise the guys also.

AfricanApple:
its not a must, yes. so who put a gun to your head to spend it, u spent your money on d girls becos u are looking for kitten, so there shouldn't be any complain here

Hadizy:


I don't really think its only the poor once that complains. I personally know some rich guys that complain, is not like they are broke no. What I feel is these set of guys want independent ladies. They see an independent lady as a pride, a gold something of extreme value. Not that they are really broke.

In essence am saying is not all broke guys complain about giving money to girls. Some rich one too

onihaxy:
What the hell is going on here?. I don't see anything wrong in spending for your girlfriend. Infact, why should you have a girl friend when you know you are a broke nigga?. But You should always spend wisely and intelligently. For instance:

1. If you have 50k with you, lie to her that you only have 20k, because if you told her you have 50k, she might demand for 30k, but if u lied that u only have 20k, the highest she can ask for is 10k and she would always treasure u as a "caring guy" for splitting ur salary into two" . Moral, for you to pls a girl financially, your real financial status should be hidden, if you can't lie, you would be fraustrated".

2. Never ever make a budget above 20% of your income for a girl no matter what,
3. Never agree to sponsor a girl's education when her parents are still alive, except if you have conducted a traditional marriage before the sponsoring.
4. Watch it, if your girl only appreciate you when you give out large sums but grumbled or mumured when you give her below her demand, "you are in danger"

5. When your girls openly compared you with other girl's boyfriend, telling you to go out and see what other guys are giving out to their girls when she knows fully about your capability. Bros Run.

6. When she demands for airtime, make sure that atleast 40% of the airtime is used to call or text you before you send another. (I.e, if you send 200MTN, make sure you receive a call worth 80naira b4 sending the next card).

7. If you are drinking garri in her presence and she couldn't fight for spoons to join you, but instead, she is telling you that she felt like eating fried chicken, my brother RUN.

8. If you have dated her for 5 months and invested financially in her money wise or materials, and you can't point at a common 50naira handkercheif you got from her as a gift. Bros, RUN.

9. If you are a salary earner, and the only time your girl visited you is month endings, bros RE-THINK

10. If you are still a student and your girl is demanding for 20k or above. Bros RUN.

11. If she had never asked of money to buy hand-out, do business, treat herself healthwisely, but she always demand money to change wardrobe, buy phones, shoes, weavons. Bros RE-THINK.

12. If one day, you told her you are broke and seriously in need of money, and she felt relaxed without been anxious of how to help, even if she doesn't have, but the anxiety isn't there, bros RE-THINK.

13. If you always visit her and taking gifts along to her or giving her money in one way or the other, and ever since she had been visiting you, she had never bought a common gala for you not to talk of food flask of rice?, bros, RE-THINK.

14. If you are in a hard times and she was busy buying cloths and stuffs at the same moment, and her common sense doesn't tell her that she could use that to help you at that situation. Bros RUN.

15. Lasly, if she only smiles at you when you give her something and frowns there after. Bros RUN