LEERICIST:
There are things guys love to hear, and things that can
leave them cold and bitter. Read these ten things girls
should never say to guys to know more.

#1 YOUR FRIEND IS SO CHARMING! : Did you meet a new
friend of his who looks gorgeous or is so charming you
felt your pants slipping down by itself? Just don’t tell
your guy anything about it, especially if you haven’t
complimented your guy about the same trait earlier.
A guy would find it complimenting if you tell him he has
really good friends. But if you compliment his friend with
any traits that your own man lacks in, he’d feel more
insecure and even get angry with you and his friend.

#2 WHY CAN'T YOU ACCEPT THAT YOU'VE FAILED? : Guys are
pretty competitive when it comes to succeeding,
especially when it comes to work or earning more money.
If your boyfriend’s trying something new and you see
him failing miserably, don’t tell him that straight to his
face.
Ever heard of the midlife crisis? Well, that’s what
happens to men who feel like failures. If you say it out
loud that he’s a failure, he may hate you for it or try
even harder and frustrate himself more.

#3 MY EX DID IT, WHY CAN'T YOU? : Never say the word ‘ex’
and ‘you’ in the same sentence unless you’re
complimenting your guy. Guys hate being compared,
especially with your exes. Along the same lines, don’t tell
him you’ve had sex with many guys or even compare him
and his body parts with your past lovers. You’ll end up
working him up and making him feel really insecure in
bed.

#4 CAN YOU INTRODUCE ME TO THAT GUY? : This is definitely
dangerous grounds. Unless you’re asking your boyfriend
to introduce you to a celebrity friend of his, never tell a
guy this line. If you seem excited to meet a friend of his,
or end up flirting with another guy in front of your
boyfriend, there’s a good chance your boyfriend may
walk away insulted or infuriated.

#5 WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH YOU, YOU IDIOT? : Don’t
ever yell at him or put him down in front of his friends or
family. Guys can’t take that very well. As much as they
want to impress girls, they still like to be portrayed by
their best sides in front of family and friends.
If you ever yell at a guy in public or in front of others,
you’ll emasculate him and he’ll spend a lot of time away
from you, plotting ways to get even with you for
humiliating him. You won’t be in a relationship anymore,
you’ll be in a war zone. (A guy will only accept this poo from you if you're the "MAN" in the relationship)

#6 I'VE DATED BETTER GUYS : This is a low blow of the worst
kind. Of all the things girls should never say to guys, this
is one that will definitely end up ruining the relationship
forever. It’s almost like a one way street to the end of
the relationship with no place to turn back.
If you tell him he’s not good in bed or that he doesn’t
turn you on, he may end up walking out of your life.
After all, he’s humiliated, bitter and he’s going to
remember those words every time he gets into bed with
you.

#7 NO, DON'T... I'LL DO IT MYSELF : Guys like feeling like
they control the direction of the relationship. At the
same time, they also like offering help or feeling
important by advising you or helping you carry those big
bags or fixing your window. If you stop him from helping
you every time he tries to show off his protective
instincts and strength, he’ll subconsciously assume that
you don’t think he’s capable of doing anything
important.

#8 YOU'RE SO IMMATURE : This single sentence can change
a guy from behaving like a spoilt child and transform him
into a sober man who’s walking to someone’s grave. And
that’s not a good thing either. He’ll hate you for always
behaving like a mum and treating him like a brat. And
chances are, he may even try to cheat on you just to
feel himself again. (A girl told me this poo once, I dumped her ass right there and then!)

#9 YOU ARE SO INSECURE : Your boyfriend may feel insecure
often, especially when you’re a sexy girl who gets a lot
of attention all the time. But he wouldn’t want to hear
that line out loud, especially from you. It makes him feel
helpless and weak. And if you ever say this line in the
middle of an argument, he’s definitely going to get really
annoyed with you and himself.
And to make sure he proves he’s not insecure, he may
avoid you and spend more time with other girls. And
when you speak of it, he may urge you to speak with
other guys too. And what starts off as a little argument
could turn into an ego war that’ll hurt both of you.

#10 WE NEED TO TALK :The fact that you want to talk
about something serious with your guy is a good sign
for the relationship. But when you walk up to him and
say “we need to talk,” he’ll just clam up or go
completely on the defensive because he’ll assume you’re
going to accuse him of something bad.
Instead of starting a relationship conversation with this
line, try to ease the blow on him slowly by just talking
about what you have in mind in an easy manner that
would help him open up instead of shutting himself up.

So the next time you’re having a fun conversation with a
guy, remember these ten things girls should never say to
guys and refrain from using it, unless you’re looking to
pick a fight!

jashar:


Ok ooo.

I hope you didn't have a nightmare?

Did you have to quote all that

Mondisweets:
How about you stop doing the things mentioned above so u wont have to hear them. Especially you are immature where will the honesty be in the relationship, when one cannot speak her mind?

firstEVA:
men are semi gods, you don't need to tell them what's on your mind, just bottle it in for peace sake, sighs*

jashar:


Ok ooo.

naijaboiy:

I hope you didn't have a nightmare?

Did you have to quote all that

obamartins:
11. I missed my period: please don't tell this to ur man, it ends the relationship faster than the 10 listed above.

jashar:


Uncle,e pain u? How e consign u?

Be matured jor

jejemanito:


WTF is wrong with you?

naijaboiy:

Be matured jor

jashar:


No need naaa. Aren't you mature enough for 2? Don't be stingy, share the maturity.

go joor

jashar:


Ok ooo.

naijaboiy:

go joor

mesoade:
is this why you quoted the whole post?

jashar:


Ok ooo.

jashar:


Ok ooo.