ebukaOtika:



Guy don do na,,,, haba ,,,, see as shame dey catch me like small pikin,.,,, the lady in question is out and probably laughing her ass out somewhere else and you are here *exchanging words on her behalf*

ebukaOtika:



Hmmmm if he refused to Adhere to your Corrections ,,,, Just free him haba,.,,, why exchanging words with him ,,,, you can take a horse to the stream but it can never be forced to drink water mind you,.,,, you must not rant along with him here ,.,,, moreover the people dat read what you wrote while correcting him knew dat you did great job,,,,.

please i'll appreciate if you call me Ebuka.

foxxynik:


Ok... So how will you feel? Trying to caution me and I turn and beef you?

How will you see it? As a disgrace?

Nobody is asking you to take side!
I did just what you're doing and he picked on me and you're talking about taking side and disgrace?


Excuse me fella!

rufdyamond:

Kid what did u do??...askin me to kip quiet over an insult thrown at me?...the wrds I asked u to seek dia meaning have u done that?...I simply said nah who we go ask ..boy does dat deserve insults...u shld knw tins to dia roots b4 u get involved..obviously I see u kip mute to insults frm girls but u tend to wana be brave on guys...boy mind pple u run ur mouth on is all I will tell u...if u re truly a man and its obvious another man is f*ckin up..can't u send me a PM or can't u ask d meanin to doise words dat got me pissed off?...even after u noticed I was nt respondin to her and she continued with her insults to her generation did u caution her abt it oweing to d fact that u ve apologised to her on my behalf like u claim and dia was no need for further insults frm her...wen u wana do tins ask pple dat knw hw to do it and learn frm dem...can u see her hw ebuka took u to d cleaners?...he simply faulted the two parties and seeked means to end it and nt apologizin to onme and askin one stupid questn cos u ve got free MB...boy jukwa ese ooo and not those type u run ur mouth on I swear u

foxxynik:


Mehn...you're dragging this issue!

I noticed that she rained insults on you...

I asked you to avoid exchanging words with a lady.

Its not in the likes of "REAL MEN" to banter words with a woman.

Please, if you didn't get my point... You should've ignored me, rather than beefing me!

You nagged and accused me of intruding!

Am sorry, but you do not sound like your age! #no offense.

You tend to fight back when people misquoted you.

An adage says, thus, a man will never get to his destination if he stop by to throw stones at every dog that barks at him.

Learn to ignore.. Will un-follow this thread so I won't get to be embarrassed for telling a fella to QUIT fighting with a lady online!

rufdyamond:

U noticed she rained insults on my yet u apologized to her makin makin me the trouble source ryt?...is dat an act of men......and another adage says don't look for trouble but don't run from one...I act far mor dan my age dats y I won't take insults frm kids..wen u get to my age u wud knw hw it hurts to ve kids insult u...what I ve learnt is neva to comment on any thread cos I now knw the level in wich mosty pple reason here...and pls note that I canm neva nag tuk more do that on sumone as u guys I was only askin u to treat an ish ryt..call a spade a spade and nt a farm tool...I don't blieve in eye service and wen pple act as such it wears me dwn

Tompeters:
Its a NO for me. I won't allow it even if she volunteers

ChurchillStorm:


I hate calling people "stupiid" but seriously, you are stupiid. On a stupiidiity scale of 1 to 10, I'll score this post 8. Are people getting dumber by the day? nawao.
A guy that no doubt has sex with you is the same guy you think not cooking for will make you look classier in his eyes?(if you got any at all. Class, I mean)
Retarded logic there, girl. I mean, the nigga has torn your innermost of inners countless times. What's then the big deal in cooking for him? Girl, I hate to break it to you but you are the dumbest I've met this week.
you can't find yourself loitering about in his kitchen when you ain't his wife? I wonder what the hell you see yourself doing on his bed every Friday night.

nomabeeee:
do u really hv to throw insults in a bid to pass ur message or to air ur view.u r a promising young man and this act is uncalled for.its simply childish.am entitled to my opinion sir.learn to pass ur message well.as much as this is a social network but that dosnt gv me the right to throw insults at people.bc I love the word respect.am gonna look over it like u were not referring to me.I respect u sir.and I dnt like troubles.thanks

ChurchillStorm:


Believe me, when I called you stupiid it wasn't mean as an insult. It would only have been an insult if your post wasn't stupiid. I just said it like it is. You self reason am nah, this your post make sense?

And seriously, me using stupiid on you/your post wasn't an insult.

ebukaOtika:



Oh Lord of Host,,.,,,.!!!


Cant you just say I'm sincerly Sorry instead of all these Stories,,,,

pasqal09:


He cooks for you? Hmmm.... Strange man

oapbrown:
@OP...thanks for bringing up this brilliant issue...but it's sad that this one reason is why many relationships have failed and many marriages ended...
Now, I'll say, relationships have fundamental rules esp when it's heading for marriage. The partners should portray what they will do in marriage before they're actually married (sex excluded). The only reason why u shudnt cook for yur guy is if he's not serious about ur relatnship or u have great doubts about him. Becos relationship is what gives a foundation for marriages. I do not see anything wrong in a lady cooking for her guy whenever she's in the guy's house or preferably, she cooks the food from her house and brings it to the guy. According to the OP's analysis, 5days visit in a month. I assume the guy does his cooking when yu're not there or finds another means to eat. Why not let him have a feeling and a difference betwn d time yu are with him and when yu're not? This helps yur relationship to be stronger. It's certain dat some guys can't cook, so if u don't cook for such guys, they look for someone who can cook for them all the time yu weren't around...and dos girls cud even go do the extra**. We're in relationships to become better pple, so if yu can't help a guy cook, how much impact will yu make in his life? Obviously, yu can't help with his loads of official duties...especially when his work takes a lot of his time. My point is cooking for a guy and doing some chores for him at least 90% of the time yu're together isn't a bad idea, because everyone needs assurance and security before entering into marriage. A lady, irrespective of her income or what she gets from her parents that cud make her not take from her guy, would always wanna be sure that her guy can sort out her needs when they marry and so a guy wants to be sure that his woman will cook good meals, with happiness even when they're married.
My advice to ladies, pls, if yu always allow yur guy take u out to eateries everytime and yu can't stop him, yu'd be so used to it but the day he finds a girl dat can cook at ease and won't allow him take her to eateries often, I bet yu the guy will start changing and could finally get stuck. To those who sees cooking as being a slave, I doubt if yu can maintain a home without good food. To those who are afraid of being submissive, there's no successful marriage without submission from the wife. The Bible says, 'wives submit yourselves to your husband' and men should love their wife, and not vice versa.
Finally, I have seen a situation where a guy had to chose betwn two ladies because of food. It sounds weird right? But it's true. The two of them cooked well, but one cooked more often than the other. The guy was our neighbor when we were still teenagers. I believe everyone desires a happy home irrespective of their status and career. Therefore, we should not do things because our friends do them, we shud always find out what works best for our relationships. Ladies should read their Bibles more and find out how to keep their homes and stop raising egos that will make dem end up being single mothers. Thank you all!

ChurchillStorm:


I never apologise.

Now look for another guy that you can use to try and gain points from the lady. Woman wrapper. B*tch-a*ss negro

sunshine111:






Yeah, my man actually enjoys showing off his prowess in the kitchen anytime i come over (#ps : i taught him how to cook stew, so he likes to show me how much he has learnt) and I enjoy cooking so i always make it a point of duty to cook for him whenever i come over, we buy the condiments together and we gist and cook together !!!!!!!!!!!! There is nothing there sha, it a quality time thingy

jpphilips:


you really have time, the OP is a product of a broken home, I can bet on that.
If her home isn't broken, ask her to ask her mother what roles she played before marrying her father, ie if the OP has one.

pasqal09:

Well, cooking for a woman sounds like something only a sissy would do

merit12:
Freedom of weed expression


Baby girls good point


*gather all the babes ,matching along rounabout ringroad (benin)

Singing

No more cooking for boyfriend(2x)
Because they are benfiting what they have not pay for



Hmmmmm


For me it different somehow
Cos if I love him I will take good care of him and show him I can cook ,he is not going waste his money marrying me or teaching me how to cook


Besides na 2 of us go enjoy the food .oh


All the d movement

Nor use ya jamz spoil my blues oh




Op are you black


Sig....never give up if you wanna try

TahariX:


Lmao. Eyah I guess your tiny brain cannot process the fact that a girlfriend isn't the same as a housemaid.

johndanny:


See your mouth... You fit cook? No come poison person here o... All this girls sef

johndanny:


Correct Babe no mind all this lazy girls wey no fit cook.. Me I don't even need any lazy girl to come n spoil my meal cause my mom taught me well, back in schl I do cook all my food, be it soup, name it..... After they will still be the same girls to open another thread like "HE DUMPED ME FOR ANOTHER GIRL"

deuce7:

It should be like this...
Me: baby I wana eat egwusi soup today o, am going to the market to buy the condiments
You: will you like me to cook it for you?
Me: I will be gald baby
You: let me know when your back so I will come over.
Me: thanks love

Op is anything wrong in the above?

pasqal09:

Then how would she graduate to become a wife?

Princecalm:
Look at what girls of this days are turning into.Imaging you went to your BF house and you met him cooking and instead of taking over the cooking from him you sit and watch him do the cooking and still serve you.Even the whites which you guys are emulating have not started doing this.

merit12:
what is this one saying

johndanny:


Correct Babe no mind all this lazy girls wey no fit cook.. Me I don't even need any lazy girl to come n spoil my meal cause my mom taught me well, back in schl I do cook all my food, be it soup, name it..... After they will still be the same girls to open another thread like "HE DUMPED ME FOR ANOTHER GIRL"

deuce7:

It should be like this...
Me: baby I wana eat egwusi soup today o, am going to the market to buy the condiments
You: will you like me to cook it for you?
Me: I will be gald baby
You: let me know when your back so I will come over.
Me: thanks love

Op is anything wrong in the above?

ChurchillStorm:


I never apologise.

Now look for another guy that you can use to try and gain points from the lady. Woman wrapper. B*tch-a*ss negro