You wouldn't expect them to be jumping for joy that u're pregnant at this stage.
Rather than gossip,I would expect them to sit you down and analyse the state you have found yourself and the pros and cons.
You're SA so I can't say much about you getting pregnant at your age but this would not have gone down well with Nigerian relatives.
Since you say he is getting married to you,just go ahead with the plans and make the best of it.
If I may ask how old is your guy?

I do hope the man have accepted ur pregnancy sha

Because that will be a big blow






If I were one of ur family members...... I won't be happy because u just entering the University and the first thing that comes to your mind is to get pregnant instead of facing ur studies

leb0gang:
no beeevan his family would have told me. We've been having a close communication with his mother and siblings. So I would have known.

A Nigerian family will not tell you and that's the honest truth, you seem cool headed and I sincerely pray things work out for you.

thorpido:
You wouldn't expect them to be jumping for joy that u're pregnant at this stage.
Rather than gossip,I would expect them to sit you down and analyse the state you have found yourself and the pros and cons.
You're SA so I can't say much about you getting pregnant at your age but this would not have gone down well with Nigerian relatives.
Since you say he is getting married to you,just go ahead with the plans and make the best of it.
If I may ask how old is your guy?

he is 30 this year.

dre11:
I do hope the man have accepted ur pregnancy sha

Because that will be a big blow






If I were one of ur family members...... I won't be happy because u just entering the University and the first thing that comes to your mind is to get pregnant instead of facing ur studies

wasnt in university. Its been 3years without schooling. Its just next year am going to start.

leb0gang:
wasnt in university. Its been 3years without schooling. Its just next year am going to start.

That means u gonna start school with ur baby


I hope ure making plans on how to take care of the baby when he/she is born sha



But, u did take the high way

leb0gang:
he is 30 this year.

That's okay.I was expecting someone of your age.You guys should make the commitment and ensure you stay together.

We all have our shares of ups and downs but what we make of it is what's most important. My advise is dat she sud be strong as in rily strong. Ur aunty's betrayal is only the beginning. Things will happen and only ur strength and God that will see u through. Dnt let me even get started on what in-laws can do. Gossip will be the least of ur worries then when baby issues come up plus schooling, marriage issues and so many oda things. Brace up o

leb0gang:
. Yes, osondi owendi

Do you know the meaning?

Sanguine77:

Do you know the meaning?

yesso I asked oyim nwaoke.

leb0gang:
yesso I asked oyim nwaoke.

Good. You are trying. May God bless your union.

leb0gang:
he is 30 this year.

Chineke!