If it happens that your Mum and Spouse are critically ill and have got just a few minutes to live except you pay a sum of money which is just enough to save one person, besides time is so unfriendly that it's only one person that can be saved.

Who would you save? and why?

omg its so fucking hard to choose i would pay for my mom n die for my spouse. I love my mom its pretty duhhh why i would pay for her n since i have no other option n i love my bf too i would die in his place

my mum one way.

It's hard. I pray it doesn't happen. More men will come, but it's impossible to find another woman that brought u to the world. There's only ONE!

ya dig?

Hmmmmmmmmm, How nice!

I love my mum but my mum has a spouse too, I will pay for my spouse. She's a part of me

Young people have more to lose if they die. Elderly people have lived, so if they go it's sad but we'll get over it.

even though this is not rily an answer, i prefer that it doesnt happen to me oh. i hate questions dat have to do with choosing btw mum and spouse, abeg, i'm sure u rily dont want it to happen to u

how about u kill ursef. That way u don't have to choose.

Do the world a favor. Rather than save one and let the other die, three of you should die. abi

In my case I wouldn't have any doubt on who to save.

I'll pick my spouse without having to debate ova it. Mama would have had a fantabulous life by then

michelin89:

Do the world a favor. Rather than save one and let the other die, three of you should die. abi

In my case I wouldn't have any doubt on who to save.

who?

The money. I'll save the money. literally!

michelin89:

The money. I'll save the money. literally!

hhhhhhhhmmmmmmmmmm

so money get worth pass?

im speechless

Guys, these problems are paradoxic. What do you want someone to reply? You can't push any human to take such a decision.

Sorry ma spouse comes first!  I stopped sleeping in ma mama's bed when a was 2 years old!  But I will sleep in ma spouse's bed till a quench.   Ma mama don live her life so she can go in peace since God is about to call them both. It is not like I am using her for "Ogboni" condiments or something.  God said a should choose who will remain--the spouse got ma vote.  Who will take care of all his kids?  He berrrrrrrrrer hang around!

@ AJ

I am thinking between my father and my spouse.

As for my mother, well, I am sure, as a christian, she will be willing to have her eternal life!

michelin89:

@ AJ

I am thinking between my father and my spouse.

As for my mother, well, I am sure, as a christian, she will be willing to have her eternal life!

Even if it is ma father hon'.  He goes, the spouse stays! The parents can go and have eternal life "rocking away" in the "bosom of Abraham" I have enjoyed them--and if it is God's will that they exit this world--tough.  I can live with that.  I have really enjoyed them and even if I would like them to stay on--as they are still young--they most depart from us someday and life goes on abi?

Sure life goes on!  But the spouse stays a say!  I need him the most--for so many things as we all know. I do not want another spouse. Lai lai!

go borrow. I'll pay at once to have my spouse saved . . . (i cant afford to raise my kids alone) but will raise the money for my mum asap. That's why u've got friends and family. I'll never forgive myself if there was a 0.0001% chance i could save my mum and i didnt take it.

Well my father means a lot to me even if i don't show it like i should.

michelin89:

Well my father means a lot to me even if i don't show it like i should.

I understand dearie--wait till you get married and have kids.  Your focus will certainly change.  I love ma dad too.  Infact this is for you ma dear so you can cry some more.  The song I am playing right now.

Dance With Ma Father------------------Luther Van Dross!---For Michelli89!



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nZxAJxw00Lc

Dance With My Father


Back when I was a child, before life removed all the innocence
My father would lift me high and dance with my mother and me and then
Spin me around 'til I fell asleep
Then up the stairs he would carry me
And I knew for sure I was loved
If I could get another chance, another walk, another dance with him
I'd play a song that would never, ever end
How I'd love, love, love
To dance with my father again
When I and my mother would disagree
To get my way, I would run from her to him
He'd make me laugh just to comfort me
Then finally make me do just what my mama said
Later that night when I was asleep
He left a dollar under my sheet
Never dreamed that he would be gone from me
If I could steal one final glance, one final step, one final dance with him
I'd play a song that would never, ever end
'Cause I'd love, love, love
To dance with my father again
Sometimes I'd listen outside her door
And I'd hear how my mother cried for him
I pray for her even more than me
I pray for her even more than me
I know I'm praying for much too much
But could you send back the only man she loved
I know you don't do it usually
But dear Lord she's dying
To dance with my father again
Every night I fall asleep and this is all I ever dream


awwwwwwwwwww! Love you daddy!

What a sadist. You love to see your little sis cry? I won't give you this satisfaction.

You are right. My focus will change but as for now I want to live the love for my father to the fullest so that when the attentions shift, I won't have regrets!

michelin89:

What a sadist. You love to see your little sis cry? I won't give you this satisfaction.

You are right. My focus will change but as for now I want to live the love for my father to the fullest so that when the attentions shift, I won't have regrets!

Then don't be too hasty to answer the question just yet ok? Crying is good once in a while ma dear--but not on Nairaland--I understand. You can cry to me privately. Just enjoy you dad while you still have him. And your mom too. You can never regret anything if you made the right choices and you treat all fairly. Everyone will be cherished accordingly and when that time comes--you will have no regrets at all. Do not fight with your parents at all--no matter what you feel has gone wrong--just commit them to our creator that's all.

Hard