[b][/b]got lots of requests to write the male version of what girls do after a break up. After lots of interviews, I came up with a few behaviours guys exhibit after a break up. It turns out that guys are not as hard hearted as we think.1. CRYING:Believe it or not, they do not only cry at funerals, they cry for babes too. Quite a number of guys are guilty of this. Most of them come out doing “Odi eshi” (Igbo slang for ‘not bothered’). But the reverse is the case for a guy who cry after aheart break especially if he was in love with the girl.2. STAY INDOORS:For some people, they cannot handle going out and people are asking where his babe is. The truth is, you can’t be explaining to everyone. So some guys who can’t handle the heat avoid friends and events where they might see the ex or where people who knew them as a couple might be. Meanwhile some guys go the opposite direction.3. HANGING OUT A LOT:This also occurs often. Guys do this because they need to take their minds off the good times they shared with the ex. The kissing and hugging, the hanging out on the beach, movie dates etc. So to avoid thinking a lot, they channel their energy into something else.4. STALKING:From the interviews, I found that guys do this too. This is not the usual scary stalking. This is the subtle kind using social media to find out how the ex is faring, dressing to kill to go for events because you know the ex-girlfriend would be there, and other little things involved.5. DRINKING:We all know some guys quit smokingor drinking because of a girl they fell in love with. But as soon as the relationship is over, they are back to old habits. They know they do not have to answer to anyone anymore or feel guilty. Alcohol and cigarettes tend to be their consolation so they drown and choke in it.6. SULKING:Yes, I said sulking! Some guys actually sulk when they are sad. After all the hanging out with friends, partying, drinking and loads more, they still end up alone with their thoughts. Back to square one! Trying to figure out where it went wrong. That is when sleep refuses to show up. Even after counting the ceiling a thousandtimes, they still can’t stop thinking of her. Even if some guys won’t agree with this, I am sure some others can relate.7. STARE AT THE GIRL’S PICTURE:Personally, I found this hilarious! I didn’t know guys actually didthis. I guess ladies aren’t the only softies in this world then.8. ALL BABES ARE THE SAME:Obviously, it is after bad breakups you start to hear things like this.No matter how nice the girl is, they do not want to believe she is different from the next girl. No mercy on the babes after a heart is broken. So in retaliation moves, he would start plotting to break the hearts of as many girls as possible! Just kiddingbut you get my drift!9. CALL THE SECOND OPTION:It’s after they breakup with their girlfriend, that they remember the other babe who liked them but they couldn’t date, because they were in a relationship. She becomes his new besty. He starts to tell her he likes her and boom! They go on from there. But this is never a good fortune for the girl because she ends up being the rebound. No girl likes to be on that end of the rope.10. TRY TO ACT LIKE THEY DON’T CARE:This is typical amongst guys. They put up a front so they do not get dissed by their friends. They try to hide that they are really softies. Some even go as far as dating their ex’s friends or a hotter babe just to get back at her.Things we do for love!!!At the end of the day, it is all based on the maturity of the guy. Sometimes it works out negatively, and sometimes positively. Choose your path!

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[color=#550000][/color] [ Joe Adams, It is terrible that you sit on this blog site and say what you have about me.Just this past week, you were in tears and said "Your still in love with me.And I Love you too.Stick with the winners huh? Did you forget how I was there for you through thick n thin??That we would grow old together.How dare you degrade me on a blog.Did you forget stealing the workplace vehicle because you were out of it?Or how i kept you from going to jail for 25 years, because you went to the police station, and what you had in your pocket Or even all the tears you have cried, when we provided hospice care for your dying gpa?Masons surgery, us coming up together in life.Or even the timw you nearly froze to death outside my sisters yard, and I picked you up from the hospital?You had passed out.Or even you chose to go shit and piss in a bucket, to use..At your Moms no running water..You told Ammi that our family gave you a reason to live an be out.You also told Ammi, that you love them but you cant be around them.They will never do anything for themselves.They have emptied your pockets, called the police on me.You only have 2 true friends..D and Angie.No one else has been there for you like they have or I.It sickens me the way you hold me, tell me you love me, only to dog me out on a total stranger blog.Maybw you guys were an item b4 u went in.You changed.We brought eachother uo far in life.You said you wouldnt have almost made it off parole if it werent for us.We are both our worst enemies.I have screwed up..Yes..but you took it from good to shit..it didnt take long.Scheming on this blog about buying a plot??Hmm.You have shown your lack of loyalty.You should get that covered up, along with the tattoos you have on your body with my name.Lies!! One thing I do know is that You still love me.Your Grandson still asks when your coming home from work(FBOP)..WE should have let you go, instead of being strung along with broken promises, an your oppourtunist attitude. Have copied everything you have posted for divorce court.Itll show the judge how truly yoy are ungrateful.Funny how you said you wouldny talk bad about me.Busted! Did she give you a chubbytoo?? I dont have a boyfriend, but I will now!!He isnt a bum.You did teach mw self worth..only to take it away from me.My famiky was good to you.You never owed me nothing.Don't you dare, degrade me and flip.flop and depict me as a monster You were the monstermonster in the end!! Oh Baby I love my womans body , her love, ..blah.you are the one who needs to love your self..How many years have you been in the system 12 years off and on??.Your not doing something right..Oh its going to take that special lady to change you??Heard that, you said I was that...and the input from a stranger??Your friend s,are at least cool enough to know it wasnt all me.Talk to them..Your a great person, its very hard for me to say this to you..Look what youve said when im nor around..Your reap what you sow...Things have just been elevated to a level.Its on you!Goodbye Joe Adams #14152 031.As I have had enough of your double standards..You we're my King and I was your Queen..or maybe it all,was an illusion.FAKE!!When you get to Topeka Ill be gone.You better think twice before you do some more evil stuff.Im at my breaking point!! Im crying.Goodbye my love

Errr.op..

Jst broke up with my gf yesterday...


abt 3 weeks ago, she tld me she needed space to think...tho we werent breaking up..

Jst yesterday she tld me she couldnt continue with the relationship....

Surprising thing is..i really really really loved this girl... Buh am nt bothered....

#UntoTheNextOne

Rapaltar:
Errr.op..

Jst broke up with my gf yesterday...


abt 3 weeks ago, she tld me she needed space to think...tho we werent breaking up..

Jst yesterday she tld me she couldnt continue with the relationship....

Surprising thing is..i really really really loved this girl... Buh am nt bothered....

#UntoTheNextOne

hope you gat one gal behind before

dlaw6263:
hope you gat one gal behind before

Nahh...

Im part of the few guys who do the

One woman one man relationship...

No side chicks...