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Re: Should Married Couple Sleep On Different Beds? by Oracle(m): 3:53am On Jan 03, 2007
There is need for Privacy sometimes
Re: Should Married Couple Sleep On Different Beds? by suricattca(f): 12:23pm On Nov 10, 2008
The married couple (= husband & wife) should/have to sleep on one bed. Why? They are marriage so they have to eat at one table, live in one room, sleep on one bed, share with spouse everything. The husband has big problem when he gets married with wives
wink
Re: Should Married Couple Sleep On Different Beds? by sexyLeamon(f): 12:24pm On Nov 10, 2008
Should Married Couple Sleep On Different Beds?

what nonsense undecided undecided undecided
Re: Should Married Couple Sleep On Different Beds? by MsLurker(f): 9:10pm On Nov 10, 2008
I see nothing wrong with having separate rooms that you can use when you need some time alone BUT I would prefer to sleep my with significant other the majority of the time. That said, I would love a king sized bed so we can have our distance, though. smiley
Re: Should Married Couple Sleep On Different Beds? by abujabooks(f): 11:48pm On Nov 10, 2008
I think it is wrong for married couples to sleep in separate beds.

Because, you get body warmth from each other.

Also, if u argued before going to bed, after sleeping on the same bed and your body touches each other, u can forget d trivial differences.

Sleeping on separate beds, u will end up as friends rather than lovers, after 2 decades of marriage.

You will feel alone and this can encourage adultery. A woman was created for the man and her place is next to him.
Re: Should Married Couple Sleep On Different Beds? by MrCrackles(m): 11:50pm On Nov 10, 2008
If they want to sleep on different bed, why not? undecided
Re: Should Married Couple Sleep On Different Beds? by ula(f): 9:34am On Nov 12, 2008
depends on the circumstances
Re: Should Married Couple Sleep On Different Beds? by Mindfreak1: 3:29am On Dec 08, 2008
no
Re: Should Married Couple Sleep On Different Beds? by CrazyMan(m): 7:42am On Dec 08, 2008
I don't think married couples should sleep in different rooms. Unless maybe they have some kind of misunderstanding.
Re: Should Married Couple Sleep On Different Beds? by dellynash(f): 11:15am On Dec 08, 2008
To me its a good idea that couples sleep in separate rooms, atleast one needs to be alone sometimes, one needs some privacy.If i had a way i will not sleep in the same room with my husband
Re: Should Married Couple Sleep On Different Beds? by JJYOU: 5:40pm On Jan 28, 2009
abujabooks:

I think it is wrong for married couples to sleep in separate beds.

Because, you get body warmth from each other.

Also, if u argued before going to bed, after sleeping on the same bed and your body touches each other, u can forget d trivial differences.

Sleeping on separate beds, u will end up as friends rather than lovers, after 2 decades of marriage.

You will feel alone and this can encourage adultery. A woman was created for the man and her place is next to him.
una hear? abujabook thanks a million. you make knowing a woman worth it
Re: Should Married Couple Sleep On Different Beds? by TOYOSI20(f): 6:34am On Jan 29, 2009
Ahhh!!!

Thats a big No-No- for me oo!! shocked shocked shocked
Re: Should Married Couple Sleep On Different Beds? by Nobody: 10:01pm On Feb 08, 2009
NO angry shocked
Re: Should Married Couple Sleep On Different Beds? by asoji23(m): 11:52am On Feb 09, 2009
i dnt see any reason why they should sleep apart,even if one of them snors the other just have to adapt with it not only when they need sex should them come together.Sleeping together is going bring up new topics that will help the family
Re: Should Married Couple Sleep On Different Beds? by FBS: 10:07am On Feb 10, 2009
No.
Re: Should Married Couple Sleep On Different Beds? by temi4rea(f): 11:17am On Feb 10, 2009
why una say couples on seperate bed dey wrong,

Wht if na two wives the man get or even more.

I didnt say its right neither did i say is wrong. smiley
Re: Should Married Couple Sleep On Different Beds? by chihums(m): 11:30am On Feb 10, 2009
if they sleep on different beds, how would they solve thier problems if they come up. any way, my advice is 4 a married couple 2 sleep on the same bed. but if there is a problem one can choose to sleep under the bed or on the floor that will help solve d problem. i think i'm right. grin
Re: Should Married Couple Sleep On Different Beds? by temi4rea(f): 2:42pm On Feb 10, 2009
chihums:

if they sleep on different beds, how would they solve thier problems if they come up. any way, my advice is 4 a married couple 2 sleep on the same bed. but if there is a problem one can choose to sleep under the bed or on the floor that will help solve d problem. i think i'm right. grin

Na u Right pass!  cheesy  cheesy U no see ur teeth!
Re: Should Married Couple Sleep On Different Beds? by Moyola(f): 2:43pm On Feb 10, 2009
No, whai shuld dey? undecided
Re: Should Married Couple Sleep On Different Beds? by mogentle(m): 10:18am On Feb 12, 2009
One love, One House,=====One bed

But not size 21/2(2.5) Bed O. grin grin grin grin
Re: Should Married Couple Sleep On Different Beds? by Wrex(m): 5:42pm On Mar 04, 2010
In my own case,i prefer couples sleeping in separate rooms.I really value my privacy
Re: Should Married Couple Sleep On Different Beds? by biina: 8:27pm On Mar 04, 2010
Sharing a room is ideal, but is often difficult to implement. Snoring is enough to send one of you packing out of the room. grin
Re: Should Married Couple Sleep On Different Beds? by MrCrackles(m): 8:29pm On Mar 04, 2010
biina:

Sharing a room is ideal, but is often difficult to implement. Snoring is enough to send one of you packing out of the room. grin
LMFAO!
Re: Should Married Couple Sleep On Different Beds? by biina: 12:21am On Mar 05, 2010
MrCrackles:

LMFAO!
seriously, dis na true talk, we get one neighbor, one time, for one place like dat, wey im snoring gengen so tey, pilots wey dey fly pass go call am to wake am, say im snoring dey cause turbulence  grin  grin  grin
Person come ask d wife to sleep for dat kain room grin grin grin
Re: Should Married Couple Sleep On Different Beds? by MamaJD(f): 12:01pm On Mar 05, 2010
married people should sleep in the same bed, for my own i wouldnt like it when me and my husband are sleepin in different beds, i want my husband to be close to me, especially at night
Re: Should Married Couple Sleep On Different Beds? by jamesyins(m): 5:11pm On Mar 08, 2010
no
Re: Should Married Couple Sleep On Different Beds? by judoken: 8:58pm On Mar 30, 2010
Hey I have just bought seperate beds.
Life is great just my wife is pregnant with twins.

i am getting no sleep neither is she as the worrie of kicking in my sleep.

I like being in seperate beds as we get to turn as much as we want because i have ADHD i cant stop fidgiting so it helps her sleep and myself.
I dont believe being in a seperate room is good for anyone but seperate beds next to each other should not knock the relationship at all married ith 4 kids now 4 kids do lol!

All the best to everyone Daz,
Re: Should Married Couple Sleep On Different Beds? by Kunbee: 11:55pm On Mar 31, 2010
No
Re: Should Married Couple Sleep On Different Beds? by queeneve: 3:25am On Apr 01, 2010
My fiance told me I wish I would ask him to sleep in seperate bed once we are married. But, each to their own.
Re: Should Married Couple Sleep On Different Beds? by udobe: 11:35am On Apr 02, 2010
me when i sleep with my wife the same bed i like kool touching but my wife keep complaining i am disturbing her every night, pls advice what should i do? for now i have rented 3 bedroom flat, one for myself,one for my wife, one for my 4kids, then i started sleeping in my room, but now my wife is complaing that i have abandon her half way. pls i need advice,contributions and suggestions. thanks embarassed embarassed
Re: Should Married Couple Sleep On Different Beds? by Prince22(m): 11:09pm On Oct 22, 2010
Nothing bad, making love and feeling each other is the only enjoyment of sleeping 2gether on thesame bed, so far if 1 ask the other don't reject it doesn't matter slleepng separatively. except those that has no 'yes sir job' 'bo ji o ji mi' that will enjoy sleeping 2gether on a bed all thru d days of their life, Think of it guys!!!!
Re: Should Married Couple Sleep On Different Beds? by OCCULTIST(m): 10:26am On Oct 23, 2010
yes they should sleep on different beds

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