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Re: Already Frustrated With My New Job by maryhaam(f): 11:55am On Nov 08, 2014 |
Am experiencing the same,applied for a protocol officer job, now am the company secretary.......that Nigeria for u,everywhere is distabilized just doing it for the main time. |
Re: Already Frustrated With My New Job by Originalsly: 12:17pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
Truth be told...you are blinded by your pride and ego ....blind to common sense. Don't for minute take this as an insult but the bitter truth. Instead of forging ahead...did you reflect on how you got into this situation?...did you try to see where you went wrong/what mistakes you made? How on earth can you study for a test and you have no clue what kind of test?....didn't a bell go off in your head?...and why would your friend withhold the name of the company? ..shouldn't you at least know that so you can do some research on the company? The company required certain qulifictions...but never stated position ...and you never asked...but they did let you know at the last minute....and you accepted. You also agreed to a salary of below K140. Would you cry foul if your next pay cheque is N1000K? I hope you didn't burn the bridge on leaving your last job. I suggest you try to get back in as soon as possible if you see no need for a man of your qualification in this company. 1 Like |
Re: Already Frustrated With My New Job by Nobody: 12:29pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
Will you rather be a manager that earns 50k or a messenger that earns close to 140k?...it all boils down to ur basic financial needs;thank God dt after all work will eventaully close by 4:00 or thereabouts....and you"ll go out,av fun and socialize,it doesn't matter wot u do...as long as you get paid...afterall,you don't know the role other people play in their work places...or if you don't like the way the treat you;you could tell them upfront,let them take it to anywhere;and u can tell "em you won't accept an undignified treatment.... |
Re: Already Frustrated With My New Job by chumasmog(m): 12:35pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
sincerely speaking, this isn't funny it could happen to anybody. but d fact is that such is life its part of experience, jst b determined and focused, u neva can tel whn d ball will turn around |
Re: Already Frustrated With My New Job by vislabraye(m): 12:42pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
Please my people of nairaland, I need your advice on what step to take on this situation. |
Re: Already Frustrated With My New Job by Gwan2(m): 12:43pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
Am also an Engineer (Chemical) by 1st degree qualificatn ,graduated wit a 2.1 if u must knw....Guess wer am presently workin, in a Bank as a DSA (contract staff) for 2 yrs runnin now i ve bin stagnated on a spot....Ma monthly allowanz depends on hw i meet ma mnthly target....Last mnth i had a vry low pay of #35000........Mind u i pay ma rent, foot ma billz, even had to send some money home...Mayb ur background aint same wit mine, probably u gat som backup bt as 4 me quittin da job means goin bak home n u knw wat dat means...cos as as a man ur job is ur pride. I hav com 2 a point of realizatn dat i nid to giv God 1st place in ma lyf n he wil take ma places....1 touch of God's favor can catapult u to a new level u can neva imagine (as som1 said abt da top manager in shell)...Ma broda no tym is a wasted tym, ur dia 4 a purpose,,so mak sure u pass d test...God knws hw to mak up 4 lost tym so 4get abt tym ur wastin...somtym u culd b runnin 1000km/hr in dá wrng directn. 2 Likes |
Re: Already Frustrated With My New Job by Ama28(f): 1:22pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
Op, the easiest way out of your job is to leave the job and walk. Another option will be to do it efficiently and efffectively in such a way that those engineers cannot have a fullfilled day at work without your services. By doing this you will make yourself an assest rather than a liability. Take this opportunity to study what they do, teach yourself and be equipped. For me I will advice you take advantage of a bad situation. I had my lecturers who trampled on me at school as colleagues under my supervision once. Don't mind their pride. But this is the most difficult way out. It all boils down to what you want, easy or hard way out. Goodluck in the decision you make 3 Likes |
Re: Already Frustrated With My New Job by Reference(m): 2:37pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
I really wish I could respond to the substance of the text but there is something I notice which may or may not contribute to the scenario. Your presentation is frankly, below par. I do admit in certain professional circles this is not considered a hindrance but when you aspire to govern an office at a level higher than yours, you must equally raise your standards to meet its demands or you will repositioned. In engineering the rule is simple you look for the tool for the job and not look for the job for the tool you have. You simply donot meet the criteria yet, for the position you think as they see it from their perspective. So raise your game. |
Re: Already Frustrated With My New Job by Nobody: 2:41pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
Bros just giv me d name n contact n directory of the job so I can swap position with u. Thanks. Reach me via @iamjohnbright on twitter |
Re: Already Frustrated With My New Job by masamari(m): 3:08pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
Honestly I feel so bad for you Guy but you still have every reason to smile ok, bcoz million of good degrees are out there looking for something to do. I was trapped under UK graduate scheme 2012 having completed my degree we were forced to go back home without enjoying the 2 years visa permit. Those who belongs to my generation can confirm how emotional wreck it was then, all along I flee back to Nigeria where I have to use my degree to start my career as a trainee of which most of my senior ordinate in my dept bagged OND with their professional certification. That's my field for you! So I took my time to learn practically and pursue my professional cert. It takes me another 1years but now by God grace I have overtake all of them. Having good degree in engineering should be an added advantage irrespective of your starting point, just open your mind to learn and research on professional courses that's is relevant to you company and your career. If I may say the new offer could be blessings in disguise! Best of luck Ore |
Re: Already Frustrated With My New Job by Nobody: 3:32pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
saponification: you have said it all, he bleeped up by not knowing the details of the job offer before resigning from the formal, but come to think of it, you do not have to resign your job before accepting there offer, that is in-mature of you and lack of experience on your part. secondly he did nt tell us the salary difference btw his formal job and the later one. thirdly, your friend, your so called friend betrayed you. 3 Likes |
Re: Already Frustrated With My New Job by Nobody: 3:44pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
i know an engineer with a uk master degree that earns less than 100k a month. although, it is the kind of job he liks |
Re: Already Frustrated With My New Job by Nobody: 4:54pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
Saraha1: you need to calm down if you want us to talk. |
Re: Already Frustrated With My New Job by Saraha1(f): 5:06pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
letsdothis:yes sir. But do you mind telling me where we have met? |
Re: Already Frustrated With My New Job by inice(m): 5:07pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
It happened to me my friends. I got a job after passing the interview. We argued on the pay on phone for days. Finally they accepted mine. I asked for employment letter but was told I will get it later. After a month I was paid salary to discover that they short paid me. I refused to pick up the money. They argued vehemently that the pay was our agreement. Now I have resigned from my former job. what do I do? Plz advice. |
Re: Already Frustrated With My New Job by Kessyy2k4(m): 5:35pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
sorry o! i dont av that time 2 read ya garbage, buh....all i can advce is here is.....100 &1 qualified graduate will b willing to accept & b contented wit that job so know that u av gat opportunity, don't lerit out |
Re: Already Frustrated With My New Job by Nobody: 5:58pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
Saraha1: Im not interested in talking about that anymore since you pissed me off. What im interested in now is to get your number and toast you. |
Re: Already Frustrated With My New Job by iGeneral: 7:42pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
Now how does one refrain from insulting this guy? |
Re: Already Frustrated With My New Job by Nobody: 8:47pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
iGeneral: Its simple. Just shift the automatic gear to Reverse then press the throttle and go another way. Best advice. |
Re: Already Frustrated With My New Job by ssammy: 9:11pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
This could be a testing time for u, if they see how well u serve and how much u can offer, u could be promoted. Am saying u should be patient and diligent. |
Re: Already Frustrated With My New Job by Amhappy(f): 9:33pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
Cool down bro. Job position is important but will you prefer a big name without value? Do this job diligently and you will be surprised how high you will rise. A good company with a systematic way of doing things is a great place to be. I will rather be a gate keeper in heaven than be a manager in hell. I'm talking from experience. 1 Like |
Re: Already Frustrated With My New Job by waaju: 12:18pm On Nov 09, 2014 |
Everything in life is important.. |
Re: Already Frustrated With My New Job by Nobody: 12:30pm On Nov 09, 2014 |
Please my people of nairaland, I need your advice on what step to take on this situation. From what you've said,it seems you earning more now than before...which is good. But i advise you stick to it & with subsequent time,you keep looking at getting your self a more better job,don't relent my brother,i know how you feel,but you know how difficult it is getting a job in Nigeria could be¿ |
Re: Already Frustrated With My New Job by lavista13: 2:41pm On Nov 09, 2014 |
@ op: i think God is taking you somewhere big but he needs you to learn some things first. To be a good leader requires being a good servant. Probably in your former job as a manager you were too full of yourself because u feel that u are an engineer and so most likely too bossy and probably looked down on others below you-( i stand to be corrected though, just saying). So my advice for you is to face the test and learn what God wants you to learn while u are at ur new place which is humility and service. I think these are the qualities u require for the next exalted position God has in store for you. Patience is key. 1 Like |
Re: Already Frustrated With My New Job by iyknaz(m): 9:14am On Nov 10, 2014 |
Guy, don't let anybody make u feel u'r Inferior just because u wanna keep a job. Except u were employed as a messanger, no idiot has the right to send u on stupid errands. However, if it was stipulated that running errands is part of ur job description and u went ahead 2 sign, then u probably have urself to blame, otherwise no fool should make u think less of urself just because of a stupid job. If this continiues, I advise u quit. Trust me, ur self esteem is the most valuable thing u'll ever have, dnt let anybody take that away from u. 1 Like |
Re: Already Frustrated With My New Job by Nobody: 3:50pm On Nov 10, 2014 |
I don't even want to imagine how you feel reading some of the replies on this thread. This i have to say, you can be humble without losing your pride in yourself. You just need to really understand the meaning of that statement. You took the job, so if its too late to go back to your former one, its your cross to bear but you should contact someone there that may be able to help you get it back (swallow your pride and do it if you think you'd rather go back). Call your "friend" that helped you get the job and give him a piece of your mind. If you have to remain in this job, learn to do the job and search endlessly for a better one. This is probably life's lessons in humility. Going through one myself presently. Just try to accept things while working towards better ones. No one can make the right decision for you |
Re: Already Frustrated With My New Job by AdexOmoby(f): 9:44am On Nov 11, 2014 |
Victorakats: I wish I could like you comments more. You have did it all! Need I say more? |
Re: Already Frustrated With My New Job by SenatorJames(m): 9:11pm On Nov 11, 2014 |
With the way you describe your former job, I don't expect you to quit at that time. I can see some prospect in it. Anyway if you are not happy with your current job, i will advice you try your former place, if they still need your service, If not remain there for a while till you decide better what next to do. |
Re: Already Frustrated With My New Job by pretts(f): 12:44pm On Feb 13, 2015 |
Wao...You just spoke my mind! My case is somewhat similar to yours OP, however, it is different in the sense that at least you are an engineer in an engineering firm with some interest in the core business of the firm. Mine is such that I have tried all I could to be interested in what my firm does for more than 3 years, but the more I try the more unhappy and frustrated I become...so I guess it is time to move on! I guess you just can't force what you aren't interested in. I'm not sure what I'd advise you to do but one thing I'd say is, be aggressive with your job hunt. Tell everyone you can, including some of those engineers who seem to be reasonable at your current job...you never know who God can use to move you forward.
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