Below are 6 types of Toxic friends that we will encounter in life:

1. The Promise Breaker

This friend constantly disappoints you or breaks promises, most likely because he/she herself was constantly disappointed during their formative years. Your friend is unable to stop him/herself from repeating that pattern. It is an annoying but comfortable pattern for your friend,and without psychological help, it may be hard for her or him to alter this pattern. You could abandon the friend and the friendship, or you could find a way to detach yourself by lowering your expectations for this friendship.

2. The Double-crosser

This negative friend betrays you big-time. It could happen when someone does something to hurt you, such as spreading a malicious rumor about you. Or it could be an emotional double-cross; for example, when a close or best friend stops speaking to you and you never find out why.

3. The Self-absorbed

Certainly the Self-absorbed is a tamer type of negative friend than the Risk-taker. Still, especially over the long haul, a friend who does not make the time to listen to you will eat away at your self-esteem. For you to feel good about yourself, and for your friendship to thrive, you have to be more than a sounding board. The Self-absorbed does not care; she listens to you only because she is waiting to speak...LOL

4. The Discloser

When you say to this friend, "This is just between us," she nods her head but unfortunately that promise will last only as long as it takes her to get to her phone or e-mail. Although there should be an assumption of confidentiality and trust between friends, this friend can't help herself. Telling this person a secret makes her feel vulnerable and uncomfortable. Like the game "hot potato," she has to pass the hot secret along to someone else in order to relieve the anxiety knowing the secret made her feel. There are also some Disclosers who simply have a big mouth. If someone you know has this personality trait, avoid telling her your innermost secrets .

5. The Competitor

A little bit of competition is healthy and to be expected. An appropriate amount of competition will motivate and stimulate. But too much competition between friends starts to destroy the friendship. One of the primary ingredients in a positive friendship is that one or both friends feel that they can be "themselves" and that they don't have to put on airs or impress one another. Competition implies a race in which one wins and the other loses; those conditions are quite the opposite of what someone typically expects in a positive friendship, especially a close or best one.

6. The Fault-finder

Nothing you do, say, or wear is good enough for this overly critical friend. The Fault-finder was probably raised by extremely judgmental parents who were also rearing equally hypercritical siblings. Being criticized during her formative years laid the groundwork for an overly critical adult. It's a hard trait to reverse, and your friend may even be unaware that she is so critical or that it annoys and upsets you so much. Before labeling this type of friendship as hopelessly destructive, you might want to see if your friend could recognize this excessively derogatory behavior and, with time and help, change that orientation. Otherwise, you may decide that you just have to accept this trait in your friend and realize that it reflects on her, not on you or your friendship.


Which of these toxic friends are you harbouring right now?
Do you belong to any group?

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Source : http://www.stelladimokokorkus.com/2014/11/toxic-friends-you-may-encounter.html?m=1

Hmmmmmm ok

Oya o
Let them nairaland girls come and lie of how they are selfless and flawless without any of the above points

deb6:
Hmmmmmm ok

what kind of boring comment is this

98% women r number 4, the discloser

folly65:

Oya o
Let them nairaland girls come and lie of how they are selfless and flawless without any of the above points

Why do people like you just believe that no one can ever be perfect or at least try to , it amazes me.

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this guy always make FP...

this guys always makes FP...

D DOUBLE CROSSER! I once had such as a girlfrnd. i gave ha a vivid description of how massively huge my ex was down there and how good he waz wit it. she said i de try o, dat she doesnt like it huge dat she prefers it smal or moderate. i waz shocked to meet her in my ex guys house one wk end lik dat. she waz on a nite gown, she obviously had slept ova to taste d huge pipe she claimed she detests.

emusmith:
Land For Rent...Interested Applicants...

And u hav to buy all 3 plots of land?

Kachisbarbie:
I am a fault-finder butttt I criticise responsibly.
__ and I think I'm surrounded by a lot of competitors. I don't know if it's intentional of not but, I just don't dig unnecessary competition.



your annoyance is that, she took yo spot ba?
__and she didn't even make good use of it...I can imagine how annoying that must be...lol

You are a fault finder? Those kind of peeps are hard to please o...Hmm

diksucker:
And u hav to buy all 3 plots of land?

1 plot= 1 million. 2 plots = 2 million. 3 plots = 3 million.

Kachisbarbie:


I'm not hard to please joor...but I'm a perfectionist...I have symptoms/traits of OCD
__ very detailed human being.

Beautiful Girls Are Always Right.

diksucker:
D DOUBLE CROSSER! I once had such as a girlfrnd. i gave ha a vivid description of how massively huge my ex was down there and how good he waz wit it. she said i de try o, dat she doesnt like it huge dat she prefers it smal or moderate. i waz shocked to meet her in my ex guys house one wk end lik dat. she waz on a nite gown, she obviously had slept ova to taste d huge pipe she claimed she detests.

You aroused her curiosity. It's hard when you say such things to a girl friend and expect a little from her curiosity.
When my neighbour friend always prevent me from touching her phone...My Curiosity got the password and saw all manners.

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diksucker:
D DOUBLE CROSSER! I once had such as a girlfrnd. i gave ha a vivid description of how massively huge my ex was down there and how good he waz wit it. she said i de try o, dat she doesnt like it huge dat she prefers it smal or moderate. i waz shocked to meet her in my ex guys house one wk end lik dat. she waz on a nite gown, she obviously had slept ova to taste d huge pipe she claimed she detests.

Mtcheew. Dick, dick, dick.

emusmith:
You aroused her curiosity. It's hard when you say such things to a girl friend and expect a little from her curiosity.
When my neighbour friend always prevent me from touching her phone...My Curiosity got the password and saw all manners.

wow. like wat & wat?

VickyyB:


Mtcheew. Dick, dick, dick.

Dont mind ha. she 2 lik am

diksucker:
wow. like wat & wat?

Hmm! If I tell you, you won't believe me...

diksucker:
Dont mind ha. she 2 lik am

Lol. Goodluck for both of you.

VickyyB:


Mtcheew. Dick, dick, dick.

Nice pair of eyes...

Kachisbarbie:
I am a fault-finder butttt I criticise responsibly.
__ and I think I'm surrounded by a lot of competitors. I don't know if it's intentional of not but, I just don't dig unnecessary competition.



your annoyance is that, she took yo spot ba?
__and she didn't even make good use of it...I can imagine how annoying that must be...lol

Lol...so you too go criticize me
But i usually make good use of it abi

emusmith:

Hmm! If I tell you, you won't believe me...

yarn me tori, i no go tel anoda peson

I have very few friends not up to ten, the rest are acquaintances. I love my very few circle of friends,no hassles no stress we just dey flow normal and want the best for each other.

diksucker:
yarn me tori, i no go tel anoda peson

E get wetin I wan tell you wey you know know...
Girls phones full of shitzz since 1936...

emusmith:
Nice pair of eyes...

Thanks

emusmith:
E get wetin I wan tell you wey you know know...
Girls phones full of shitzz since 1936...

Guys own worst

none.. she is worse than these