It does hurt,sometimes brings down your self confidence but
the best part of it to me is that it becomes a challenge.Probably
brings out the best in me.

@IICE
Hi suppose ur are female so how does it feel to be rejected by a man?

@iice
Nice one but imagine some dude that just not seem to recognise ur presence,
and you are probably all emotions for him,or he starts probably a teaser then gets cocky,
how would u react?
I am sure we've all had fantasies about someone that doesn't even know about us.

Thanks IICE well spoken.

I have always said iice is a very intelligent lady and i'm yet
to be proven wrong

I do not think I agree with you guys here. iice is just saying that that should be the best way to handle rejection.I agree with her on that.But that was not the question,, How would you handle it?I mean when sb you really love decides to shove you aside, a nybody will feel dejected .Even a very cold iice

u feel bad of course, but u know u win some u loose some. that just the way it is . If u aint ever been rejectd then maybe u aint trying enough or ur just plain lucky.

the kind of ladies i talk to get level and i don't go inform of r/ship or anything. there is a way to go about certain things and you wont be rejected. ones one 10,000 naira in a bet. the bet was to talk to a girl people say has a long history of rejecting guys. i did my thing and she fell. is all about attitude and xter.
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i have the same view and experince. we all have spiritual reflexes that tells us what we can conquer and what we cant. We can also "learn" to conquer the girl we want if we really want to and study the person. it has happened to me and i won where they said angels even fear to hi !!!

oooh how much it bleeds!
it feels good knowing that you actually tried.

Your choice to approach outweighs the rejection. Refusal to approach a lady by talking one's self out of it leads to the development of an unsettled conscience infected with 'what-ifs'.

How one chooses to react to the rejection is a different narrative. For me it's like adrenaline, the pain is such a sudden rush for me. lol.

if i was rejected i will feel very very bad
dejected and like trash
that is why most people go to extremes to try hard and hurt the one that rejected them .

Is the person rejecting me better than me? lol

I won't even give it a 2nd thought if I was rejected. And besides, I always get any guy I want if I have the chance and before he starts professing and confessing, I'm out.

If I'm in a r/ship and the guy decides to leave me, is that also part of the rejection u talking about? Oh well, u feel bad definitely but hey, you gotta hit the road again. No man is worth living in Misery for.

No one wants to be rejected the feel is obviously not joyful.

In breif i would say it makes you concentrate too much on yourself(your worth ,physical appearance, mistakes, and everything that could have gone wrong.

Most of all if not carefull it would ruin u

diyo ure right dere girl


radiant even if you never loved the guy or you were the one always calling the shots in the r/l its hard for someone to reject you . .

mukina2:


radiant even if you never loved the guy or you were the one always calling the shots in the r/l its hard for someone to reject you . .

Muki, what exactly d'u mean? _{How u been?}

_{am good girl}
what am sayin is that even though you were fronting onthis person or he loved you more and you didnt love you . .if he rejects you its hard .no matter what. .yeah other guys will always be around but that rejection part will make you feel bad anytime you think about it

Muki, one thing I can never do is see myself lower than anyone. It's all about lifting your head high, brush off the rejection off your shoulders and pop ya collar.

My friends know me. I don't worship anybody! Not even a guy I love. You can't be accepted by everyone and the fact that some lousy being rejected you isn't a reason good enough to reason like him.

I understand it's a sad feeling but then, so what? You shouldn't let inferiority complex sink into you. Be yourself and appreciate who you are. Be the best of who you are!

Even Jesus will all his perfection, was still rejected. So who are you not to be rejected? That should even be a driving force to making a difference in this life!

she has spoken . . ok . .radiant

hey icicle

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Good

Okwa . .
good girl . it hurts but hey look at you know . you can even talk about it

@icicle longgg time

uche where have you been?

iice:



okwanuzu3, that's the spirit

mukina2:

Okwa . .
good girl . it hurts but hey look at you know . you can even talk about it

thanks girls

Okwanuzo, that's it!

am feeling you girl!

rejection?
i'm so used to it that i get surprised when i'm not rejected

infact i expect every girl to reject me now and it's so funny b/c i'm handsome and gentle. . . .at least by my own assessment

anyway, rejection is so common that i just get on with my life as if nothing happened and indeed nothing happened b/c 3mins after rejection i've forgotten it all ;Dheading for the next babe. . . . and next rejection

lol, dats y its always gud to have Subs, one car Breaks down & u hop into anoda,

some people love you for no reason just as some people will hate you for no reason. i have seen both. but if i find myself going through such wire, i allow that feeling to burn for some mins just to learn my mistake if there is any,then sit back and view life from the angle of being dead,spend time with people that cares for me and things that matters to me before i know it i am back to my person again and i try not to bear any grudges in my heart, no matter how worst things get for me i always try to have it at the back of my mind that the defeat doesn't really worth taking the best off me.