Ok, I have a crush on this guy and I want to stop it.  I have tried all the advice (from co-workers/friends) on how to rid him from my mind but I am still feeling him.

Funny, i am usually good on giving advise to my friends/co-workers (first date, gifts, crush.etc.) but now that it is me in the situation i am helpless.

So I ask y'all, how to get over a crush?

L8tr

No idea shordi!!!

tell him!

trust me, it works. immediately he knws, he wont seem so attractive anymore. . . he'll either start actin like a jerk (like they always do) or he'll warm up to d idea and u'll start seeing all his nasty habits.

Acting like a JERK? Thats unfair nd impudent,

Watch him poo poo. Instant turn off!

spikedcylinder:

Watch him poo poo. Instant turn off!

lol. i responded to you on Friday (check email). sorry for the late reply. hope we can hook up at a club when i get there

off to face the cold outside

Cayon:

lol. i responded to you on Friday (check email). sorry for the late reply. hope we can hook up at a club when i get there

off to face the cold outside

Oops.

Sorry. Haven't checked that email since Friday or so, will get to it in a bit.

Think of me baby and you will start a new crush with me and end the old one.

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@Topic

I say step up ur game. . . . . . . or just get over it, trust me its just a phase.

HR.hotness:

tell him!

trust me, it works. immediately he knws, he wont seem so attractive anymore. . . he'll either start actin like a jerk (like they always do) or he'll warm up to d idea and u'll start seeing all his nasty habits.

This is so 111% right!!

Have a "Sprite" or a "Tandy" or even a "Mirinda"

Trust me, the "Crush" would never be the same again!

MrCrackles:

Have a "Sprite" or a "Tandy" or even a "Miranda"

Trust me, the "Crush" would never be the same again!

lol,

MrCrackles:

Have a "Sprite" or a "Tandy" or even a "Miranda"

Trust me, the "Crush" would never be the same again!

Mr Crackles, you are cracking meeeeee!!!!!!!

Buahahahahahah!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

HR.hotness:

tell him!

trust me, it works. immediately he knws, he wont seem so attractive anymore. . . he'll either start actin like a jerk (like they always do) or he'll warm up to d idea and u'll start seeing all his nasty habits.

Faux Pas!!!!!!

The best way to get over a crush is TO FIND ANOTHER ONE.
Better still, look at them with your blinders off and start noticing their faults and the things you don't like.

Cipriani:

Mr Crackles, you are cracking meeeeee!!!!!!!

Buahahahahahah!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Dude be easy !

MrCrackles:



Dude be easy !

Seriously busy men

walk up to him and tell him, ina soki   hope my Hausa brethren won't crucify me for not getting the spellings right.

Ewo
You soo crazzzy!!

Her Royal Hotness
MissB
Sauron
Igwe

You really think I should tell him?  Is it a wise thing to do? I Don't Think So .  What if he say "lady leave me alone, now that's just embarrassing.  I say its best to get over him. LOl

I am online with my Phillipine girlfriend and she is killing me with jokes.  Oh, she sent me this link

http://www.go-get-guys.com/dating/advice/signs-to-know-if-you-have-a-crush-on-a-guy.html

Peace

Ps MissB, I thought you were an old woman. I just look at your profile and see this young chick. And all along, i am saying to myself "let me respect missB because she is a much older person than me. For some reason I thought you were a 50T something woman with grown kids. LOL

Tell him. . . .it works.
He'll start acting all shitty and egoistic and what not.
shivers

Sweats all over me, the ladies looking for solution from the cause? U have a crush on a guy and indirectly u want the guys to give u solution? Oya na, lets go there. . Ugly MissB

~Sauron~:

Faux Pas!!!!!!

The best way to get over a crush is TO FIND ANOTHER ONE.
Better still, look at them with your blinders off and start noticing their faults and the things you don't like.

correction!
the best way to get over a guy is to get another one. . . the best way to get over a crush is to let him knw.

there u go again getting it all wrong. . . a crush is an infatuation usuually for someone u dont really knw. . u dont choose who u hav a crush on, u cant control it so u cant go and get another one, u dig?

Cayon:

Her Royal Hotness

You really think I should tell him? Is it a wise thing to do? I Don't Think So . What if he say "lady leave me alone, now that's just embarrassing. I say its best to get over him. LOl

but how do u get over him tho. . . he hasnt really done anything for u to get over

i still say u shd let him knw. . . he cant say leave me alone becos u arent stalking him or anything, u r a very confident woman who is dealing with her crush in a very direct and unusual manner. . . i bet u he'll be stunned. even if it does get embarrassing, u dont hav to let him knw, u cld act like u get a rejection every other day so it isnt a big deal. . . d great part is a rejection is d quickest way to get over a crush

u dnt need to let him know u have a crush on him abeg

he will just turn around and take advantage,besides

as a lady you need to have your pride in place

let the guy do the seeking and askking

and if he is not feeling you as much as you feeling him

then all u have to do is cruch the crush dear.

Dont fight the feeling, u wont win!
Find a way to get it on with him, flirt with him a bit - intimidate him by imposing your feminine side on him, trust me - good men love a woman who is bold-minded. He'll get attracted to u instantly. What u do with the crush is up to u sha.

Spread the lurve, dont kill it!

smooooooth:

u dnt need to let him know u have a crush on him abeg

he will just turn around and take advantage,besides

as a lady you need to have your pride in place

let the guy do the seeking and askking

and if he is not feeling you as much as you feeling him

then all u have to do is cruch the crush dear.

pray tell how he wld take advantage?

HR.hotness:

pray tell how he would take advantage?

next thing on his mind is have sex and dump ya

and even if he doesnt dump ya ass, he will take

you for granted cos he knows just how u feel about him.

meet me

whitelexi:

don't fight the feeling, u wont win!
Find a way to get it on with him, flirt with him a bit - intimidate him by imposing your feminine side on him, trust me - good men love a woman who is bold-minded. He'll get attracted to u instantly. What u do with the crush is up to u sha.

Spread the lurve, don't kill it!

Something similar to what I  used to do to any girl that has a crush on me. For me to resist I face her and joke uncontrollably with her  to the extent that she will find me unattractive again.  

@ poster

I believe if you tell him that it will get into his head and he will exhibit an arrogant attitude that will definitely put you off

Frankies:

@ poster

I believe if you tell him that it will get into his head and he will exhibit an arrogant attitude that will definitely put you off

thats what we r counting on. . . she doesnt want a relationship with him. . . she wants to not hav a crush on him anymore

simple english!

hehe. . . . c replies!


get ova it jare

iice:

I don't know, i can only crush from afar, once i get to know the person zapppp it's gone

exactly the same for me, especially the eye candy guys could drool n fantasize ova the guy all day but up close n personal, it pretty much fizzles out.once  had a crush on a guy n got him to be my date for a weekend, i took everywhere i went n by the time the weekend was spent, i realized all i needed was his picture!

tellin him? i guess when u do, he'll grin like he's heaven's gift to depraved Hot women and by the time ur done with ur confession,u will feel really silly and overwhelmed in shame that u would automatically decrush! so tell him!