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VICTORIA91:
Dear NL,

I'm 25 years old, I met this guy online via chatting and before i knew, we met and we fell deeply in love.This guy is irresistible when we met and i never prayed for something more, because he was so caring, lovely and loving, not only that he is so tall and handsome as i have always prayed for. After a month we knew each other better and every minute i rang him up, he later told me and revealed to me everything about him, because he is not the flamboyant type of guy, i hardly notice that he is loaded.

At age 33 he has a lot of properties and work with a Ministry in Lagos, seconded employment with one int'l institution, he got me int'l passport and took me out of Nigeria shore for the first time in my life. I am from an average family and I'm not easily moved with material things, I'm a working class lady earning moderate salary and living well, i had a relationship before him but not a stable one.

He later revealed to me that he has something to tell me that might tear us apart, i made up my mind since it would not lead to my death, i bet i have reached my bus stop, because he is also in love with me. What a perfect match!. Until the day he bursted it out that he is married with kids and he was sweating and breathing so restlessly, waiting for me to breakup with him, i reassured him i will still love him at that, he explained he impregnated the girl and his family forced him to marry the girl...in short, three kids, two boys and a girl from the woman,(first boy and a twins).

I almost fainted, but pretended as if all is well, at least he still managed to tell me to let me decide to continue or not. We both continued and this month make our 6th month and he is already talking about our marriage, he tried divorcing the first wife, but get warned to let her be to make peace reign, i noticed he loves me so much and also loves his children too well too. He is traveling out soon to study for his PH.D. He wants me to get pregnant for him and do the needful with my family and declare his intentions of taking me as his second wife to his first wife and family...But at this stage i have doubting mind maybe i'm ready to go on or not..i don't feel like ruining the woman's home, and i don't feel like losing this my sweet love, he is not forcing me and he wants me to decide for myself....

Please help me dearies, abuse are allowed at least maybe it will straighten my brain..but i sincerely love him, he promised to settle me down in another state and assured me that all will be well.The issue is i'm so CONFUSED.

My sister forget all the abuse.
Abraham had two wives and was not rejected by God.
Solomon had many wives and still love by God.

You see all the people criticizing you are not better than you.

Your life is your own personal property....live it to suit urself alone.

Why do we take good people for granted?

A guy that pampers a lady, overlook her bad side is a maga.

A boss that understand and have a listening ear is a mumu, and the company will soon fold up.

A wife that is understanding and persevere will always get beaten by the husband.

A friend in need will turn to friends ATM, everybody calls him a cheerful giver.

Even families choke you up just because you offer them a shoulder to lean on.

Why do people take good people for granted?

Must one renew ablution after every fart?

Is there a permisible number of times to do so, of which one can continue praying even if he farts?

Three of my colleagues actually said am strong for daring to date a nurse.

Is there anything am missing?

Guys, any reason for not dating a nurse?

Who have dated one before or still dating, what the experience like and what will you advise?

Maximillian1:
The black gate again

Dats to tell you that situation still remain the same.

For me its 5.

Why is we have fun during festive seasons.

Why not..cost of living is high.

Reasons for having kids differs and so also is why couples have a particular number.

Aside other reasons, how many kids would you have should you follow your parents path?


You can state why and why not too.

goldiam:
this is what you get when you refused to be loyal to the party that made you.saraki thinks he is wise.the people voted for apc/change and not saraki so if he thinks he wants to play a mind game on the party that gave him the position he is occupaying then he needs to be checked.''Nigeria politic of today is equal to being loyal to your party first rather than the masses''.

well said.

Chelsea striker Diego Costa has been charged with violent conduct by the Football Association after his side's 2-0 win over Arsenal on Saturday.

Costa, 26, put his hands in the face of Arsenal centre-back Laurent Koscielny prior to clashing with Gunners' defender Gabriel, who was sent off.

The FA has also charged Gabriel with improper conduct and both clubs with failing to control their players.

Arsenal are to appeal Gabriel's dismissal and three-match ban.

Costa has until 18:00 BST on Tuesday, 22 September to respond to the charge, which is for the incident with Koscielny as it was missed by match officials but caught on video.

"Off the ball incidents which are not seen at the time by the match officials are referred to a panel of three former elite referees," said an FA statement.

"Each referee panel member will review the video footage independently of one another to determine whether they consider it a sending-off offence.

"For retrospective action to be taken, and an FA charge to follow, the decision by the panel must be unanimous."

Referee Mike Dean booked both Costa and Gabriel for their spat, before the latter was dismissed for kicking out at the Blues forward.

Gabriel and both clubs have until 18:00 BST on Thursday, 24 September to reply to their charges.

Arsenal midfielder Santi Cazorla was sent off in the match for two bookable offences and has been warned about his behaviour.

SOURCE : http://www.bbc.com/sport/0/football/34319410

SEE HIM EYES...

Na dem dem full dia.

I will be ther too... Who is coming?

Season film.

Stale news.

suffering and smiling.

:Psauce

lawyer:
Jokes aside. This country is sick. This is a former Minister of Finance, ex-Secretary to the Government and Former Presidential Candidate of the Federal Republic of Nigeria and a Yoruba Elder statesman that has been kidnapped. In civilized countries, the highest level of security alert would be raised to locate this Very Important personality within hours and try to forestall such from Happening again. But then again this is Nigeria where anything can happen. This is a very very sick country and i am surprised this is happening under a Buhari led APC Government that promised the highest level of security to all Nigerians.

Can this be traced to the withdrawal of police men from Nigerian VIPS or what? This is just as bad as the kidnapping of the Chibok Girls and its sad a whole Former Presidential candidate can be picked off the streets without a whimper of resistance. APC led Government must take responsibility for this and wake up to their responsibilities. Its over 5 months now and they cannot hide under the excuse of we are not prepared or handover security notes have not been properly briefed to Buhari. If GEJ was roundly criticized for the Chibok Girls kidnap, Buhari and APC must accept this one as their fault or are they going to blame GEJ for this one too? No VIP of Falae's stature has ever been kidnapped this easily in Nigeria and they should do everything possible to locate him ASAP unless this would further dent our poor security image.

Dey dia dey write grammer.
How well u don rule your 1 room.

Hh

Who's next?

U try.

The world would surely end one day and some how.

Hh

Can't wait to see how these ends.

oju ni a doo, obo werey oyato.

ok

Kkk

Doctors and Nutrionist,which is the best order and why?