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phr0nesis:
God's natural order is not about being straight, it's about maintaining sexual relationships only within marriage. If married couples remain faithful to each other, while singles abstain from sex, why would they worry about HIV

RealityKings1:
If he had followed God's natural order, he would have had a normal life

Love800:
Yes, am going to do it. In my leisure time or when she cries out. And she must be genuine about it and not just using me!

Love800:
She does it ontop of mine in breaks(piece). Am the one in charge(24hrs).

Love800:
Nope, am not.
I need a caring woman so as to know that am living with a human being and not a furniture piece!
It will make me to appreciate her by doing more things for her.
And in my low times, i already know that my woman is capable(she can also finance).
And a caring woman will make me have feelings for her. If she is the opposite, i will just take her as a mere wife with nothing attached!

Love800:
My responsibility is to see that my woman and kids plus the house infrastructure are healthy always. I can do this by providing for them. I dont need your(her) money!

Love800:
Most girls don't know that when using their money to show care for her man, it will ginger the man to more in the relationship.

In as much, the basic task of man is to make money, his wife's money puts his mind in solace

Silentgroper:
still with the help of man somewhere in between ..

Love800:
Thats not my responsibility. But i will help when you are really exhausted!

Silentgroper:
easy peasy .. shit we do almost everyday ..


Now let's watch you go to work, pay house rent, fuel the house, pay nepa bill, pay school fees, buy cloths for the family, provide all electronic and electrical appliances in the home .. protect the family from dangers, stick your head out for the family .. Heck you better be a black belter so you can fight off anyone or anything tryin to pick a fight with your hubby, God help you he is not a provocative one ..
Pay medically for the family . Handle expenses of his extended family . Be it paying his siblings school fees or giving money for any cause ...

Provisions of car for him, I mean he shouldn't be moving around taking public transport. Btw, you would fuel the car too, give him weekly salaries, and so on and so forth ..


If you think what all that you mention is a problem ..

Then try doing all the things you think a man is supposed to for six months .. let see how it goes ...

Love800:
You just hit the nail on the head. Very good write-up.
Most girls don't know that when using their money to show care for her man, it will ginger the man to more in the relationship.

In as much, the basic task of man is to make money, his wife's money puts his mind in solace. Because at some point when he cannot easily get reach of money, his wife/girlfriend will lean a shoulder to him.

ChiefOkporghe:
Lol.... So WAEC “Miracle" centers are also magical thinking that also involves God and Christianity?

Zico5:
Liar. These daughters of Jezebel can lie. How is it possible for 65% of married men in Lagos to be in ur DM. Do you know how many married men are in Lagos. I'm a married man in Lagos and I have never heard about u or your existence.

Orlu13:
u useless olosho....I hope u will be assaulted one day so dat u know how it feels....animal

Stolen:
THEY TEND NOT TO BE MAN HATING FEMINIST.


THEY STILL REMEMBER THEIR FATHER WHO TOOK CRE OF THEM PROVIDED FOR THEM AND LOVED THEM WAS A MAN.

InstanetTV:
The more educated a woman gets, the more arrogant she becomes, she then wants more out of life for herself rather than be second place to a man.
This is the reason back in the day, women were never educated, but were only allowed religious education and house keeping, so they can be well equipped to be good and obedient house wives.

Orlu13:
if it was a man dat did same now...these useless women will be complaining


why should she be touching someone without Hus consent

Leonardo4:
Read, my friend readddd. What is the relationship between religion and the story up there. Pls read the write up. It will help you

purples25:
My own is not true but your own version is sure. See bias. You too are sure she ditched him and not her own account of the story.

xrucifix05:
You were a pain in his ass, and probably your mum nags him too. Are u actually the one to force him to send you abroad? He was acting based on his own capacity. After all he provided your tuition and upkeep till university level and even gave u 400k for masters. Make he kill himself for u na. People that their pops abandon for secondary school still reach out to their pops after they made it, e com be u. Ogbeni show the man love. Funny enough all the money your mum gave u is still your father's money.

ednut1:
She is not a victim but a fool. Why would any women looking like this think any young man even in Nigeria loves her? Delusional .

For her mind the guy in that picture will look at her twice?

Blitzking:
Why marry a 2nd wife...without adequate plans for such pikin wey neva settle him life you wan use load kill am..if he didn't get a 2nd wife that kind pressure for old age for no dey there..person neva settle him own life u want make he dey send upkeep money for him new family. Wonder who gave the black man that stupid mentality to depend on their children in old age...old age is not a disability.

amazinghands:
After giving it some thought, I believe he has the right to do whatever he wants as long as he can afford it. However, "I find it frustrating when people play the victim in the chaos they created" He has a roof over his head, feeding himself isn’t an issue, yet he continues to dwell on the life he once had.

He’s in his sixties, retired, and recently lost a baby with his new wife. I struggle to understand why a man in his sixties would even want to become a father, given the current realities.

While I may not entirely agree with his choices, he is still my father. That said, I don’t feel inclined to support his excessive behaviors, especially financially. Ultimately, I don’t have a problem with what he does, as long as I’m not funding his habits.

Basiljoe:
Please get that car for your father and increase his allowance. As his retirement gift.

Men make numerous sacrifices for their family which go unappreciated.

He trained you from birth to college. Although he's not perfect but he deserves it. Thanks.

BlackfireX:
You get bad mouth when fame get to you, na so you insulted and disrespect your husband hence the beating, now your husband wey be the architect of your success don remove him contact na so you fall yakata.
Believe the opposite of some crying women

Klass99:
I find it interesting that most of the commenters above me are men with similar daddy issues. As in, sons and fathers not getting along well, sons treating their mothers better and not wanting to help their fathers.

The same men will open their mouths waaa tomorrow to say marriage does not benefit men, men get neglected in old age, only women/mothers are looked after and only they get to travel, blah, blah, blah.

Meanwhile sons are the ones neglecting fathers and actively participating in this narrative they push out about men being neglected and marriage not benefiting men. Men doing men!

They talk from both sides of their mouths or should I say all sides of their mouths, never taking a stance and always being all over the place. Today it is ABC, tomorrow it is XYZ, next tomorrow it is KLM and they say they are logical.

dominique:
Look at what people are defending egbami🙆🏽
So there are no ways the family can use to determine if the groom is financially capable other than imposing this heavy billing on him? The family and culture are greedy, let's call a spade a spade