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LogicBomb8:
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Jeferious:
Guy chill first The manchi fit dey talk for talking sake. Na when im come here again confirm say the thing really happen na when I go start to cry for am

He's not joking. I can deduce he married a very pretty woman he chased for many months before she somehow accepted his sorry asssss so since then he's been living the chasing life otherwise she would threaten him with divorce .

I pray he's joking though.

Jeferious:
Your wife get 2M, but you comot outside to collect loan of the same amount? Hey Jesus ....Guy you dey whyne me

The guy na phool and he's proud about his stupidity. Borrowed 2M from your wife and she started complaining within 24hrs. He's claiming to be man but he's actually not a man.

myfantasies:
How do you know she is not worried about it, and what made you think I have not been trying to up my game.

Do you think it's easy for any female that is trying to earn a living by doing the right thing?

I can't count how many interviews I have been to, or other financial assistance that people want to assist me with, when it's time to offer me the job ,or the assistance, there is always a price for me to pay. Most times I am tempted to do it, but to what end.

It's not just easy for anyone out there, that is why I said he should have try and see how he can assist her before they go into marriage.

True.

myfantasies:
If I contribute half of my salary for upkeep then I will still be left with nothing cos of transportation and feeding at work, my toiletries, recharging my phone and still send something to my parents.

Think about it

You have to up your game. I wonder why people are blaming the man, the gf is simply not earning enough which she ought to be worried about. I hope you find something that would double or triple your income.

myfantasies:
Guy if you bring this before me , I will walk away....

I earn 80k per month
My transport fare per day is 1,200 to 1,400
Feeding morning and afternoon 800
I recharge my phone
Get data for my phone 3500
Sub dstv 7900 every month end
I get gas ... No specific amount depends on how we use it
I get my toiletries for the month
I will make my hair
I still give mumsy and popsy little change
And I still do other expenses in the house

I can't remember the last time I bought maybe clothe or shoes for myself , cos at the end of all these expenses I am left with nothing, no savings , NOTHING.

I think you should try another different approach, try and see if you can help her get a better job or ask her if she can try side hustle, at least that will be bringing in little change.

Things are hard , the economy is not smiling, married couples need to have good income before they will start thinking of saving for this and that.

This is the case. You earn 80K and foot all the bills that exhaust your 80K in a month. You find a man that tells you to contribute just half, that means you would live more comfortably and have 40K to save....... That's a huge improvement.

I think our girls must start improving. Most don't think of being financially ready for marriage, they think being a woman automatically qualifies them.

Kriss216:
Say Yes to his request, collect the laptop and find excuse to dump him weeks later.


Well, you're a Nigerian girl. Sense is always far from you people. No surprises here.

You think the guy is a foool? That's only stage one of his requests.

Mesmerising!!

Laughnow419:
1x2x3 thank u for your enlightenment, I learnt something from u. Mr HeroHero try to calm down and open your mind to learn, stop using bet9ja to judge all betting site. 1xbet does not have a paying limit while placing a bet it is when u win you'll know there was a limit. Their limit is 600k usd but place a bet of 50 million usd they will still accept. Below is a thread I posted this was my first bet on 1xbet by mistake 980 million. If it won they would have told me my money was 600k usd which is their limit, but while placing a bet on 1xbet there is almost no limit
https://www.nairaland.com/6391652/100-naira-win-980-million

I have also placed a bet of 55 billion and 1xbet accepted the market was first half 1.1 correct scores

He doesn't want to learn. He hasn't been to law court or know how terms and conditions function. Betting companies know there are many who won't bother to read or open themselves to learning thus they put those clauses in there.

KillAlabi2021:
Senseless

She's made sense. Foolish men should learn from what she just said, rather than give a girl money, just take care of home.

pocohantas:
Beautiful. That is why I love girls. Even if they are doing olosho in town, they don’t mind milking all the men in Lagos/Abj and sending it home. Once a girl starts dating a working man, let alone working, you will start seeing little changes in her family house. Even if na curtain, she go buy.

But you see Tallesty’s gender. That is how they’ll be posting “Mama’s prayer keeps me going”. “Doing this for mama”.

Make mama looseguard drop 2k for parlour, them go move am.

If they even do yahoo and hit big, their family house would become below them. They will stay in a hotel for months.

I can’t imagine life without a daughter. Chukwu okike ekwela ihe ojo!!!!!

You are right. Majority of men are stupid, they will rather give woman than taking the money home. I hope men who waste money on girls can read and understand what you wrote there.

Simran94:
Cc SIRTee15 1x2x3
What do you have to say about this? Are we blaming the woman in this case too?

I already told him to have his cigarette then go and eat his food. He has no case as long as food is enough for everyone.

A hungry man is indeed an angry man. Oga smoke then go back inside to eat. There's no big deal as long as food reach everyone.

greypencils:
To balance a man's needs, she should keep doing everything she has been doing. Her leaving without taking care of the house is the exception not the norm. She is tired of the monotony of it all that's why she left without taking care of the house, it's more like a protest. And definitely, I believe a woman too should have something doing to supplement the man's income. Both man and wife must work, both man and wife should do house chores. That's what being modern is all about, balance.

But the man is also here protesting that he is tired and you are telling him to shut up and be modern. They both must find a balance. You just believe any woman acting wrongly is about response to monotony. You see those slayqueens out there today? They will marry and do worse and you will make excuses in the name of monotony.

The man needs to improve and that woman should be cautioned, that's not a way to protest.

MartinsD12:
But I still think the wife was insensitive in this case , she should have at least make sure that her home is in order before embarking on such journey at least stock the home with food and leave the rest for the husband but I guessed there is no proper communication and good planning habit between them.

She's insensitive, I've said that before. There's no excuse unless it was emergency. Anything aside that was premeditated on her part.

greypencils:
You think marriage is all about having money without emotional intelligence. It means you have never cooked for your wife or done the little things for her. Times are changing. Even with you dropping money, you must show your wife your romantic side by doing the little things like cooking once in a while for her. That's how you balance your wife's emotional needs and make her dependent on you. For now all she gets from you is money, NOTHING ELSE. This kind of woman will divorce you if you were living outside the country. Be modern, stop being stuck in the 15th century.

I agree with all you said but I have a question.

How does a woman balance a man's need?

If you can answer that you will figure out she should have made provisions before leaving.

Mariangeles:
Why are some men always petty minded?
You’d make your wife jealous because she went to go see her sick mother?

What's petty about having food in the refrigerator? Naturally she would be jealous whether it was stocked intentionally or not. Its a subtle sit-up call which is a better solution than fighting.

You see how this thing I said pained you? That's how she will be pained then change her ways. It's a smart quick fix.

StylesX:
Yes dude, I don't have double standards.

Then good. He's whining, if na me I go stock up that refrigerator with food that will get her jealous on return.

MartinsD12:
Hahahaha exactly what I suspect, this guy cannot cook , infact he doesn't know anything concerning food preparation or even going to market but he said he has a helper in the House let them both do the cooking and house chores together

For me it's interesting. I believe he can't cook, a man wey know him way go vex but will still figure it out. If money dey, go buy food stock for fridge....case closed.

StylesX:
Okay why are we having the back and forth? Since the wife didn't do it he should do it, abi there's a rule that says men can't do whatever she's supposed to do? Why can't he step up and be the responsible one?

Would you say this same thing exactly if the man leaves home on festive period without leaving a penny for his family to feed?

Simran94:
I never called him irresponsible in the first place.
Did he call his wife to ask her why she never made provisions for the kids before she left? Do you even know if the OP put money down before embarking on whatever journey he embarked on because with the way he narrated his story, it doesn't sound like he was home for even a week. This is just one side of the story and it's easier to judge since it's coming from a MAN.

Anything to call a WOMAN the devil

Yes, it's one side of the story. The woman isn't a devil in any way to me. If you read in-between the lines you will notice there's underlying issues in his home... Food alone can't make him fed up 200% . The guy way no too pure but then, as a woman, never make the mistake of travelling without cooking and storing (everything being equal).

StylesX:
Talking to her about it is what I meant by closure, the deed has already been done, what good is his nairaland whining going to do? Since she's irresponsible he should be the responsible one and take care of his kids then, abi it's not a male thing, Nigerians and double standards.

You don't get it do you? The double standard here is that if a man leaves without leaving upkeep money he will be called irresponsible. Imagine you telling the woman to run the family na....a good wife will play her role perfectly and happily by making provisions most especially if you know your husband can't cook. There's no big deal here, she only didn't plan well.

Simran94:
So a woman visiting her sick mother to take care of her is an Evil woman?
Did you even ask the OP why he's not able to take care of his own kids without the mother being present? What if the woman's enemy was dead, is this how the kids will continue to cry and he won't be capable of taking care of them? The OP doesn't even sound like someone who is close to his children because how can a father not have the ability to pacify his own children?

You men will end up killing yourselves before your time

You are wrong. Going to see her sick mom isn't the problem, she didn't make provisions that will sustain the family while she's away. This is equivalent to a man travelling to see his sick mum without leaving a penny for his family to feed....... You would call him irresponsible. Life no hard, make provisions while you are away so your partner at home don't suffer.

fola044:
[b]How sure are you that she didn't navigate somewhere before reaching her mum place ? [/b]Marrying from areas you mentioned, are the ladies or women there angels or married men from there are not experiencing worst things than yours ?

I suspect that. The man no get idea. No one zooms away from their partner on festive period in a carefree manner. Matter dey ground for the house before now.

StylesX:
You make it seem like it's a taboo for men to cook, you married a wife not a cook, she shouldn't have a life just because she's married to you, instead of you to get closure and make her your friend you're talking about Enugu girls, maybe she feels the same way about you and can't wait to get away from you too, get your sh!t together and take care of your kids like a man instead of whining on NL like a lil b!tch.

You are wrong. He has every right to complain. Imagine a man travelling without making financial provision to run the house, I bet you won't tell the woman to shut up that she didn't marry atm.

Truth is, there are roles a man and a woman plays at home. A good wife would never leave without cooking and storing food for her husband and kids or being worried about what her family will eat. Don't make these silly excuses. She's irresponsible to have done that unless it's a case of emergency.

If I were in his shoes, I would rather talk to her and sort myself out...... If it happens again then she's calling for me to seek alternative means of feeling which I will stick to randomly even if she's around.

Let your anger not be long in your heart. It's all about planning which she didn't get right but you sound like there's been so many things going on before this issue for you to be fed up 200%.

You have a house help, what's the helper there for? If you were the one that travelled, this same woman will take care of the kids 100% but she go complain if you don't do your duties of providing. Yeah, it's her duty as a mother to stay closer to the kids due to the bond so she could have planned better by providing what is necessary to make it easier for you whiles she's away. Forgive her.

If money dey and you can't cook then pay someone to cook for you and be sure you don't finish it so she can meet some when she returns. Don't make noise about this, don't make her feel like she can punish you with hunger, let her know you can handle all and feed well in her absence then watch how she will sit up the next time she's travelling.

timifaithus:
I understand better now

Thanks.

timifaithus:
I just want to know what's so special

But that's not a way to convince someone

Why is yours different. No answer to that

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Majority who sell you reviews here are sellers who have made sales on fiverr, they probably can't withdraw or they feel they will make more money selling the dollar they have in there through a review.

My services are strictly through buyers account, I fund my account before I can buy. Secondly, I manage about 10 different fiverr USA buyer's account so my reviews will all come front different accounts, I simulate the behaviour of normal buyers which makes every of my review appear 100% organic. Fiverr know the review exchange thing between sellers so those reviews you get by sending your gig link for them to buy doesn't help you rank.

I don't just buy your gig, I first of all look at your gig, tell you what needs to be modified and improve on to make you rank higher through organic searches.

The attached screenshot is a member of this forum who came to buy review, while others will sell to you and collect their cash I had to look first to tell him what to improve on first. Once your gig is improved then I can come in.

I could go on and on but that's spilling my method. I hope that helps to some extent.

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timifaithus:
But why the service fee again

Is that how it's done now?

You're the first person ever I've seen doing service fee after payment order fee plus fiverr charges

Read further on www.fiverrbooster.com

The service isn't for everyone like I said.

Jidesam01:
Y’all might think 6570 is too much for a $5 review but it really worth it, I did mine from him last week and I just landed on the first page today.

Thanks bro. His gig wasn't even on pages 1 to 20 of his niche, 1 week after reviews he's on 1st page

I'm happy for you.

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