How would you feel if your love for someone was not returned.?.
Is Love suppose to hurt?
Is Love sure/unsure?
Is Love Suicidal?
Does Love make U cry?
Is Love a mixed feeling?
Why is it that I always get to fall for the ones that do not deserve my Love?, why, why, why,,,??, so many questions about Love

I feel u. That's life.
Actually, the question you suppose to ask is 'is there something like true love?
My answer - NO.

ok, but, then what am I feeling for this young man?, if it aint Love?

are you lonely

@Lauryn
Maybe it's lust .

I may not know what it is, but it sure aint LUST

@ man2man
not really

pls baby girl that boy is not for you or he is not interested in .like me i have such case.you know you are a girl pls tell me whwt do i do to get a girl that will love me

honestly, i'm the wrong person to be asking that right now. If only U know how bad it hurts me, I cant believe its happening to me,,,,,,,wow, LIFE IS A BITCH!

What exactly do you want from this man?

- Marriage?
- Sex?
- Friendship?

More like Friendship that could lead to marriage

where do you exactly live in states. i think we need to talk things over since we shear the same feelings.

where do you exactly live in states. i think we need to talk things over since we shear the same feelings.

why don't you both just hook up and give it a rest?

soul patrol why  are you doing like this now

Don't mind Soulpatrol because it won't work between you. That's the gospel truth.

At times i get so angry at the word love coss it makes one become so foolish,
imagine someone u say u love sending u a text message when he knows u r preparing for ur semester exam that he's no more interested in the relationship.
can some pls tell me if there is anything like an ideal man?

awwww, i was just trying to play matchmaker. no offence. but i do wish you both luck though, been there myself. not fun at all. how did i handle it? i concentrated on the person that truly loves me and stopped wasting my energy on the other guy that wasn't feeling me as much as i was feeling him. can't always get what you want.  

Those things happen because people allow their emotions to overule their minds when choosing a mate.

lauryn, you want friendship that will lead to marriage. Is this man especially qualified for the role of a husband?

anniebear:

At times i get so angry at the word love coss it makes one become so foolish,
imagine someone u say u love sending u a text message when he knows you're preparing for your semester exam that he's no more interested in the relationship.
can some please tell me if there is anything like an ideal man?

whoa, that is just the cruelest way to break up with someone. what did you do after that?

ANNIEBEAR THERE IS NOTHING LIKE AN IDEAL MAN IT IS LIKE THE WAY YOU MAKE YOUR BED YOU LIE ON IT

my dear i had to move on but it wasn't easy and it's not easy still yet finding the right man, now i get so pissed off with guys and all their wahala.

@anniebear. your ex could have been more matured about it by sitting you down and talking about it, and not sending it through some text. how corny! i wouldn't have much respect for him after that even if we parted as friends. girl, even though i dont know you, you deserve better than that and im glad you're moving on. its his loss. one day youll look back and just laugh about how absurd the whole thing was. dont take it out on other guys, but be wise. good luck and keep your head up!

There's nothing like the ideal man or woman. My rule is to live life as I want without giving anyone advantage over me. I won't surrender my heart so that I won't have heartbreak.

@annieman; sorry o but take it easy. all men are not the same and also themselves victims. Look at my story under the journal forum titled - in the cyber cafe. Finding a "correct" girl is also not easy especially when the money is not flowing in hundreds of thousands.

@Dojo; you never ready for woman levels.

@ Seun
All I want for now is the friendship. I'm not really on the marriage issue yet. If only he could give it a shot, I would really appreciate it.

i ld feel rejectd n neglected

thats exactly how I feel, I probably feel worse, in too much pain to realise exactly how i feel.

Lauryn,

Life is full of suprises and expectations. It also presents its fair share of disappointments. These experiences are meant to shape us and make us more formidable. The only reason people fall is in order to rise again and continue.

In relationships and affairs of the heart, you will learn to replace your heart with a rubber heart. You seem to have a tender heart. Time will harden it. In as much as you trust your beloved, be prepared to face the little suprises he/she will package for you once in a freaking while.

While I urge you not to relent in your search for the dream man, it pays to brace yourself for any suprises that love will present.

C'est la vie (that's life)

As to the question: is there an ideal man? Yes there are ideal men; ideal for you.

But there is no perfect man. Perfection went the way of the dodo.

Thanx Rhea

Thxx soulpatrol