What would you do if you discover that your girlfriend is pregnant? As for me, I would give thanks to God.

Will you also give thanks to God if you claim paternity when the pregnancy is not yours?

For me, I must make sure the pregnancy is mine before thanking God. But I will not deny her if truly the the pregnancy is mine.

Assuming the pregnancy is mine (rather strange since I always use protection), I would claim responsibility. But I won't neccessarily marry her, unless I was already planning to do so.

I'll quit my job..so no child support for her

Na test first......ooooo before i go take the pikin as my responsibilty. but if its the other way round. i will still maintain her even if she is pregnant for another guy. its difficult anyway but i love her no matter anything.......

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« #3 on: Yesterday at 08:17:31 PM »

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I'll quit my job..so no child support for her



Ol boy, your way worry O!
So if the baby turns out to be yours, you'll allow both of them suffer. Bros "farabale o!"

Assuming both of you are in school and you know your parents will not torolate such nonsence and you know you are not on your own neither do she. What will you do?

Assuming both of you are in school and you know your parents will not torolate such nonsence and you know you are not on your own neither do she. What will you do?

To be candid with you, I will let her know what's up and how difficult things are gonna be.

of course, we will sacrifice a lot for our baby.

A guy tells me to go for a test b4 agreeing the baby is his........then sorry.....no further r/ship...just father and child r/ship..cos i will collect child support till i tire.......even if he quits job......na trouble.......cos later when the child is one good man...the father comes along claiming....so wots the essence of dying alone for the baby.

@ mide2....if u no wan die alone for the baby then u should be wise enuf not to get pregnant not to talk of havin it......becus u r on ur own(OYO).....

doubleface, as suggestive as your opinion sounds, I still think it's ridiculous to think that.
No unmarried girl prays to be pregnant for her boyfriend nor does any guy prays to be a sharp-shooter.When you are in the heat of passion the only thing in your mind then is love-making. Most atimes you tend to forget to protect yourselves. We shouldn't blame the girls if it happens.
The only thing you owe yourself is ask,"is the pregnancy really mine"? And if it is yours, you don't have to chicken-out of your problem because by tomorrow, you will still look out for your little kid.
Mind you, you don't know what tomorrow holds.

ok..agreed that we 4got to protect ourself be4....should she also 4got to do something after?

Every action has a consequence, and one of the conseqences of sex is pregancy. So if you fit do the thing, you must be ready to fit be parent (both parties).

You can't eat your cake and still have it.

doubleface:

ok..agreed that we 4got to protect ourself be4.should she also 4got to do something after?

No offence intended, but i think that is irresponsibility of the highest order!! Same thing that made you forget to use a condom is the same that made her forget to use contr==

Pregnant?Wetin you wan make i tell madam for house?Number one rule for my girls" No Pregnancy Joke!

Take it or leave, If you have the heart to climb a very tall tree, you must be ready to look down and bear whatever cosequences should you fall from there.

look at them running their mouth!! as soon as they find out shez pregnant! guyzz no lieing!!!!! juss watch guyz hallarin!!! haaaa "I have nevaa seen u in my life" "Noooooo i think u made a mistake. Ehen do i know you? i'v never touched you in my life!! " hahahahahaha u 4got when you two where getting low!! guyzzz guyzz guyzzzz na wa!!

abi ooh! chillin. They've forgotten it takes 2 to tango.
Asking you girl if the baby is youRs, shows that you never really cared(no trust when trouble shows up), she was just an object for your pleasure.(not saying that we don't have trifling b****es).One thing I'm gonna say.
MAN UP!!!!! FELLAS AND ACCEPT RESPONSIBILITY

lol they HAVEEE FORGOTTTEN!!
Out kassst!!! u talkin girl!!! please explain real good so theze guyz know whatz goin down!

If the pregnancy is mine, I won't disown her rather I will acelerate the wedding than initially planned.
And i won't abort the pregnancy.

A woman can never get pregnant unexpectidely and that's a fact ))

Thatz a fact
complete fact, except she was raped

implying what?
I didn't read anywhere in the condom wrapper that said it was a 100% effective. Things happen and I'll repeat nothing, absolutely nothing is a 100% effective. Spare me all that "a woman never gets pregnant unexpectedly" Do you think we want to be having babies if they're not planned for? If you can't stand the heat, get out the kitchen.

@ outkast said, "do you think we want to be having babies if they're not planned for?"

I bet you the day they stop child support that every day the number of single mothers will reduce by 80%.

It is not sensible for a man to claim to know more about the body of women than women themselves. Condoms can fail and pills too. Pregnancy is not easy and no woman would want to be pregnant if her child is not going to be catered for.

It's so good to read so many men would take responsibilty but I suppose no-one knows what they would actually do till it happens.

I had my son when I was still in school and the guy refused to acknowledge my son and his almost 10. I'm actually going to create another thread about what happened yesterday regarding this issue.

so what your trying to say doubleface is that women get pregnant to collect childsupport? the child support that most men don't pay or at times isn't enough.You have forgotten that not only men think about their future, who would want to live on child support?. My dear fellow your words show how low your perception of women is.
@chocolatte, my dear, We'll be awaiting your post.

Outkast, I hope you've come across the post - it's called 'what do I do'

I don't know how to link it here - sorry.

Please read and I need all the advice I can get.

Outkast, I hope you've come across the post - it's called 'what do I do'

I don't know how to link it here - sorry.

Please read and I need all the advice I can get.

if babe get belle, na yawa gas be dat o.

na situation go yearn the thing wey i go do.

1. if the chick na raz girl or otondo, na comot i go tell am make she comot am
2. if the girl na playa, man, i no go gree o bcoz the thing no fit be my own o. u know say if be say i waka there go write my attendance
3. if the babe na correct, and i dey ok myself, then i go arrange make i marry am or do something proper make shame no come for am

na my own position be dat

Things happen and I'll repeat nothing, absolutely nothing is a 100% effective.

Abstinence is 100% effective. I love ur advice to that

If you can't stand the heat, get out the kitchen.

If I were in that situation?