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Stop Chasing Women, Start Chasing money by kendrick93(m): 6:16pm On Dec 04, 2014 |
No, I am not advising you to actually chase money because that is NOT how you actually make money. I only chose that specific title because it sounded cool and interesting. But on a more serious note… chasing women is BAD and is one of the biggest things that prevents you from attracting the women you truly want. Most guys are guilty of chasing women, some guys do it without even realizing it. I am convinced that EVERY guy has at least ONCE in his life chased a girl. But why do so many men continue to chase women even though chasing women NEVER works? Answer: because chasing women is mostly an emotional reaction that “just happens”. You don ’ t plan to chase a girl, you just do. I am going to reveal the reasons for why you should stop chasing women and instead start chasing money and improving your overall lifestyle. You Do NOT Need Money to Get Girls or Get Laid I felt the need to address this point first because many guys will try to point out the fact that you do not need money in order to get girls. And I wholeheartedly agree. So with that out of the way, let me tell you the reasons for why a guy should stop chasing women and instead place all of his focus and energy on actually chasing and making money. Let me tell you a little secret: You should NEVER try to fit yourself into a womans life and schedule. Women should be trying to fit themselves into YOUR life and schedule, NOT the other way around. If you stop chasing women and start chasing money… then women will chase YOU. Why? Because women want what they can ’ t have and a guy who doesn’ t give a girl any attention intrigues her and makes her become curious about him. She begins wondering and saying to herself “Most guys chase after me and try to brag to me and win me over, why isn ’ t THIS guy doing the same thing?” When you STOP chasing women and you START chasing money, you very quickly develop an abundance mentality because you do not place women on a pedastal nor do you seek to get any validation from them. Instead your validation is making money, starting your own business, and becoming more successful… because your mentality is… “Women are a dime a dozen”. “Women are just like buses, once you miss one, another one is right around the corner to take its place”. “Girls are a commodity and can very easily be replaced”. When you start developing THIS kind of mentality, your interactions and success with women take on a WHOLE new level. Women will be able to just sense that they are not all that important in your life because you are a guy on a mission. A guy who is fearless and takes risks. You are very selfish and you do not have any time for drama, games, and all of that other non-sense that most guys have to deal with. But you are different from the “average man”. Your motto to girls is: Either she will chase or she will be replaced. If they do not chase then they are very quickly replaced because you're a guy with “options”, a guy with LOT ’ S of choice, and a guy with plenty of resources. 1 Like |
Re: Stop Chasing Women, Start Chasing money by Fkhalifa(m): 6:18pm On Dec 04, 2014 |
nice write up btw,how ill you then differentiate between a lady who loves your real self or money? |
Re: Stop Chasing Women, Start Chasing money by kendrick93(m): 6:27pm On Dec 04, 2014 |
Fkhalifa:which is why u should have many options...so that u can decide which is best for u |
Re: Stop Chasing Women, Start Chasing money by Nobody: 6:39pm On Dec 04, 2014 |
on a serious note,my gf is d one who motivates me to work harder so as to impress her.Guys chase women dat will help shape ur future not d wannabe's & gold diggers. |
Re: Stop Chasing Women, Start Chasing money by LEvuls(m): 6:55pm On Dec 04, 2014 |
Am only here cos i tot its all about the benjamins Signs out..... |
Re: Stop Chasing Women, Start Chasing money by kendrick93(m): 12:31am On Dec 05, 2014 |
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Re: Stop Chasing Women, Start Chasing money by Exjoker(m): 12:38am On Dec 05, 2014 |
Long post... I no get time to read that |
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