@OP, please stop playing victim here. There is no prize attached to being a victim. One of the reasons people marry is to have unlimited unprotected sekx, you got married and start off your marriage by denying your husband sekx. İ know yiur type.

All the sekx positions and actions you try to make look as if they are from outer space are really nothing. Married peeps in this forum do them everyday as if its nothing. You are sounding as if you have never had sekx in your life before. Don't come and pretend here. Enjoy it now, because a time would come when having seks with you would be the last thing on his mind and when that time comes, you will still be the one to be complaining of him not having sekx with you.

Ask your mother how it went with your father and you would be surprised that you ain't seen nothing yet. The Pastor you want to go and report the issue to may even be having greater issues in his marriage he is finding difficult to handle and is only wearing a façade as a Man of God. That Pastor and his wife may egen be practising anal sekx which is worst than anything you have ever done. İts always been said that marriage is not a bed of roses.

My advice to you is these:
1. Don't ever report your husband to anybody. İf my wife reports me to anybody, İ'll quickly disrespect the person so much that he/she would have no grounds to talk to me on any issue for ever and ever. İ'ld then take it out on my wife. The only names İ can find on the marriage certificate is just mine and my wife's and that is the reason we are called Mr. & Mrs. (My Name) and i intend to keep it that way - just the 2 of us.

2. Sekx in marriage should be enjoyed. İf you feel he is purnishing you with sekx, then purnish him back in like manner. How? Read up about sekx, watch eroticals, study sekx, watch mojos, learn sekx with him and fucckk his fuccking brains out. Na im go run leave you. lol. Na because you dey play victim, na im make am dey act Champion.

3. İf sekx is the only issue you have in your marriage, then İ don't think you have a problem here. You have decided after thorough yanga and research and everything to spend the rest of your life with this man. Right? Try and corlobi him. You have waited this long to start enjoying sekx and now here you are complaining and crying everywhere about the same sekx. Haba, ja ma ha!!!

micoloP:

if you continue like this i dont think you'll ever get a husband ma!...its not an insult o..because the op isnt a virgin,
she married already and she should also learn to adjust to the husband sex life,if he is aggressive with sex,she should also be aggressive with her sex too,dumping her husband aint a good advice+with the rate of the husbands sex,she should be pregnat by now self(twin)

i dont think anything like "rape" exists in a marriage...thanks

chairman abeg leave that guy/babe wey u Quote. So make husband no fvck again?

I am sure what the OP is callin rape is d hubby tryin to put in his whole rod into the OP's Punan!, cos the OP might be closin her legs, and this same thing is what some women are wishin for and some are even screamin harder.....

This story is as fake as the OP him/herself.

So you came to report me on nairaland, I'm coming for you

FlyboyZee:
@OP, please stop playing victim here. There is no prize attached to being a victim. One of the reasons people marry is to have unlimited unprotected sekx, you got married and start off your marriage by denying your husband sekx. İ know yiur type.

All the sekx positions and actions you try to make look as if they are from outer space are really nothing. Married peeps in this forum do them everyday as if its nothing. You are sounding as if you have never had sekx in your life before. Don't come and pretend here. Enjoy it now, because a time would come when having seks with you would be the last thing on his mind and when that time comes, you will still be the one to be complaining of him not having sekx with you.

Ask your mother how it went with your father and you would be surprised that you ain't seen nothing yet. The Pastor you want to go and report the issue to may even be having greater issues in his marriage he is finding difficult to handle and is only wearing a façade as a Man of God. That Pastor and his wife may egen be practising anal sekx which is worst than anything you have ever done. İts always been said that marriage is not a bed of roses.

My advice to you is these:
1. Don't ever report your husband to anybody. İf my wife reports me to anybody, İ'll quickly disrespect the person so much that he/she would have no grounds to talk to me on any issue for ever and ever. İ'ld then take it out on my wife. The only names İ can find on the marriage certificate is just mine and my wife's and that is the reason we are called Mr. & Mrs. (My Name) and i intend to keep it that way - just the 2 of us.

2. Sekx in marriage should be enjoyed. İf you feel he is purnishing you with sekx, then purnish him back in like manner. How? Read up about sekx, watch eroticals, study sekx, watch mojos, learn sekx with him and fucckk his fuccking brains out. Na im go run leave you. lol. Na because you dey play victim, na im make am dey act Champion.

3. İf sekx is the only issue you have in your marriage, then İ don't think you have a problem here. You have decided after thorough yanga and research and everything to spend the rest of your life with this man. Right? Try and corlobi him. You have waited this long to start enjoying sekx and now here you are complaining and crying everywhere about the same sekx. Haba, ja ma ha!!!

God bless your wisdom..... bestest write up here IMO

Hmmmm. Almost what am going through, however unlike the OP my ex says she is a virgin so i suspect that is why she is so STUBBORN. When we were dating i always told her she would find it difficult to find a man that would tolerate her stubbornness and if i did marry her she would pay for her stubbornness but God knows i would never rape her, instead i would just deny her of sex since that's what she thinks all men want. Ladies there is a thing line between playing hard to get and just being stubborn. Most men have a boiling point so make sure whatever you do, you don't cross that line. It's mostly women of this generation that cross such line, am sure anyone here who has parents who are over 60 will testify to what am saying. No to violence against women and no to stubborn women. It should always be 50/50.

Well i don't dispute the op. because a man in my street did almost same to his wife. they've been married for long and have children. on that fateful day, the man bought sex enhancer drug from aboki and use it to have sex with the wife. The wife said that the strength was too much and he was so hard on her and very rough that she had to scream at midnight, but he won't free her. She that at a point, she doesn't have strength to move again but just lye still. The funniest thing is that he sent her packing in the morning and told her that he just did sent off for her with the sex. If after pleading with your husband yield no positive results, then tell his parents or someone responsible from his family that he can listen to. If he still continue, just walk out of the marriage before he walk you out or kill you with sex.

eyahhhh.....bt dont try to make posts about women feeling pains cos i hate it...i hate to c a lady suffer.....bt anyway sha....bring ur own mum nd his mum along to beg im....so dat dey will make im understand dat as a lady dat wat u were supposed to do......#urLAWSandSHAKARA tinx

Marc9:


One of the useless advice here!

Don't you get the point? Her husband abuses and rapes her! As in, RAPE! C'mon, that's a beast in human form!

The fact he's her husband doesn't give him the right to impose himself on her, or force her to have sex.


If she was my sister, it's obvious I'll be doing a long time behind the b*rs, cos I'll whack him! I rather make her a wi*ow, than leave her in the hands of a rapist!

A man that doesn't treat a woman like an egg, but abuses her sexually, deserves to be led to the gallows!

U must be a 16 - 18 year old guy!

Why'd you marry in Nigeria... this sorta thing won't happen in France cos I schooled in France

after payin ur bride price,weddings and all dat yet u want to deprive him of sex? puleeeese.. i think the time u start acting lyk a wife, the better for u..
u mean after him enduring all these months without sex now u guys are married u are here forming... absolute rubbish

the real thing is you are now married, Nd one of the commandment is don't starve ur husband of sex no matter what rather talk him down. just imagin u were d one that got him arose after having ur own bath, he may end up having only one round or may be won't hurt u like u claimed he did. NB when u argue wit u patterns b4 sex it get less romantic.

unibenstudent1:
I hate long posts,somebody should sumarise this

Olodo

Moukafoam:



Olodo

no nah,okay helep mE to summarise the post.?

blesie:
i know it is his right to enjoy me, but he is weird, its either he wants it standing. bending or sucking. and he enjoys it hard and never tired. sometimes he left me breathless and even when i shout he enjous ut the more

You made a huge mistake taking him for granted when you were dating. From your post, it shows that you were not a virgin before meeting him but you were not the "sexually exposed" kind of person. Otherwise, you'll know sex can be enjoyed anywhere, anytime, anyhow.

Contrary to general suggestions, except you want a broken home or to be unhappy in your marriage for a very long time DO NOT REPORT HIM TO ANYONE (except his mother and his mother alone). All this girls/women spewing all this rape rubbish are secretly wishing their men can be half as active as he is.

cococandy:
IF true pls find your way out of that abusive union

loll......coco.....neva try to or advise a lady to do such.....cos it is nt ur husband she will later marry...

lordmayor4:


He means you are BEATFUL... MEANING. You are good to be beaten lmao

I meant B-eau-ti-ful; pleasing to the senses or mind aesthetically.

Aare2050:

Before I say this, I must tell you I'm muslim faithful, but base on your advice I think you mixed some things up. If the guy love her he won't be ra*ping her everytime. And if the woman should divorce it simply means the man has just won the game,to me the guy is just showing the lady how horrible it has been for him for the past year. I would like to plead with the guy to forget about his revenge, if the lady can get the pastor that the guy trust so much I think the problem will be solved. #mysimplemind

Brodaly dia is no bloody excuse for raping ur wife,if ur wife is not in d mood for sex u hv options,try turning her on,beg her,or wait till she is ready .any sex without d consent of d oda is rape.dats y I said he doesn't love her,no man who loves his wife wld rape her wen she doesn't wnt to have sex.oh yes I'm not also a supporter of divorce but I hate rape n wen a man treats smone he say he loves badly,but in such cases I support divorce dats y I said talk to him first beg him use evry means to mk him forgive u but if he continues u remind him dat u hv d option to divorce him n if he gets worse den my advice is u divorce his a**. Wat he is doing is dehumanising na haba. Dis is a woman he wld hv said "I love u" den u rape her n mk her do nonsense because shee gave u hard time wen u wia dating. If u hv weird sexual desires wat u do is talk to u wife n tell her wat u like atlst she kws dat n she wld begin to learn to do wat ui like cos marriage is abt satisfying each oda sexually n oda wise

micoloP:

if you continue like this i dont think you'll ever get a husband ma!...its not an insult o..because the op isnt a virgin,
she married already and she should also learn to adjust to the husband sex life,if he is aggressive with sex,she should also be aggressive with her sex too,dumping her husband aint a good advice+with the rate of the husbands sex,she should be pregnat by now self(twin)

i dont think anything like "rape" exists in a marriage ...thanks

I only quoted you just to correct one thing. I'm a 'Sir', nt a 'Ma'.

But I may as well enlighten u abit. Rape is rape! A man needs the consent of his wife before he can have her!

Mehn if this is true I feel really sorry for you. Its hard to imagine that a guy would keep raping you after he married you as a form of revenge. That means he doesn't love you, he just wanted to win you. You need to be strong and rise above him. Report him to your pastor and/or family and don't be scared if you have to leave the marriage.

Lastly (and I'm sorry to bring this up now, really) work on your English.

though am sure u ar nt alryt wif dis but most galz like u believe dat u can treat a guy anyhw u like since he is d one pursuin you.....i think dat serves u ryt cus u were only bein punished fr wat u made him go thru....haha 6months only u waka cum ni...jus try nd endure since he endured it wen u were xo xo mean...sum galz sha

Ntooor.
U felt U were catching trips when U were misbehaving then abi. That guy suppose tear ya tawtaw...

tivta:
Hmmmm. Almost what am going through, however unlike the OP my ex says she is a virgin so i suspect that is why she is so STUBBORN. When we were dating i always told her she would find it difficult to find a man that would tolerate her stubbornness and if i did marry her she would pay for her stubbornness but God knows i would never rape her, instead i would just deny her of sex since that's what she thinks all men want. Ladies there is a thing line between playing hard to get and just being stubborn. Most men have a boiling point so make sure whatever you do, you don't cross that line. It's mostly women of this generation that cross such line, am sure anyone here who has parents who are over 60 will testify to what am saying. No to violence against women and no to stubborn women. It should always be 50/50.

i really really love this..........i do av dat line dey musnt cross......dat if dey tell me dat am UGLY

victorazy:



U must be a 16 - 18 year old guy!

This is what u get when a man regularly rapes and impregnates his wife!

Report to his/your family or even your pastor and I can assure you it will get worse and when it becomes worse you will not be able to report again! Just beg him to forgive you and let him know that what he is doing to you is killing you physically and psychologically and ask him what he as a man will do if his daughter/sister comes to report that her husband is doing that to her, he will not change immediately but he will soon come back to his senses that is if he is not a pervert or a sadist!

Girls become terribly sluttish these days just to find the one bad guy that would wow them in bed so to speak--and-- now you've got yourself one and he's also permanent too-- so suck it up and quit kvetching. Perhaps you'd appreciate his sexual prowess when other girls are queuing up in his office and your matrimonial home for a suck and reception of the much coveted masochistic anointing rod.

How may i help u?

KingTom:


Am I lying?

on point bro

@ op, I really commend you 'coz you are coping. Can you really follow my advice? We, men are really like that. Feed him back with his own dose. Don't involve your pastor or parents now, that should come last.
First, get a soft porn (romantic adults) movies. Give it to him as a surprise. Ask him to slot in, ask him to be patient. Drag him to the bathroom, give him oral se.x, make him cum (this will relax his nerve). Then take bath.
After bath, get him to the sitting room, watch the movie together, give him pre-intimacy, lubricate his m.manhood, give him a good stroke, then have passionate s.ex. I bet he won't go more than one round.
This will make him realize that you don't hate sex but want it done passionately. Don't wait for him to ask. If you notice his ma.nhood is getting attention while sleeping, unzip him, lubricate and stroke him. Make sure he cum. Then look into his eyes and tell him you love him. He will definately change.

Story for the gods

Good nollywood movie......I enjoyed it.Omo....please when is Chelsea playing....I don watch d movie finito.

hahahaha.....
I have a story....