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Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by maclatunji: 12:08pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
Christie Uzebu maclatunji: Source: http://storried.com/women-why-are-we-our-own-worst-enemies/ |
Re: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by maclatunji: 12:09pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
Over to you ladies... |
Re: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by wierdpsycho: 12:13pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
100% true |
Re: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by Gooci(m): 12:16pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
a botu of wet gin for you.. |
Re: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by sexyedjutto: 12:16pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
Kk |
Re: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by msmon(m): 12:30pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
You are right! |
Re: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by SAMBARRY: 12:33pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
Maclatunji since when did you become a lady or have you travelled abroad to change your gender to a lady as in tr@s sekzu@l Anyway good to know about that. So to the matter its individual differences its not in all cases |
Re: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by holatin(m): 12:38pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
until u start loving those better than you and giving them credit will that change |
Re: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by amunkita(m): 12:43pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
Its d 'Amosu' in them.... 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by Nobody: 12:49pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
The Op is absolutely right. One reason is inferiority complex and low self esteem. They tend to take their emotions to the high side thus acting upon them. The thought of "another female being better than them" is what brings out the 'claws' of these women. Always wanting to prove they are better than the next female. Whether it is based on looks or in been virtuous or achievements or even marital status, low self esteemed women are constantly comparing themselves with others. In some cases, men also contribute to the competition, constantly pitching one woman against another with comparisons based on what they expect their women to be physically and personality wise. Sometimes, the society helps to create unhealthy competition amongst women with its disastrous mentality. I am using Nigeria as an example. This constant measuring of women's worth based on marital status also worsens matters. These statements "Go and marry" or "your mates are getting married every saturday" or if you dnt do this or that for your boyfriend/hubby, another woman will" also encourage competition. It only takes a really strong willed woman with high esteem that doesnt fall for all these scare tactics/comparisons to not fall amongst competitive women. Such a woman will find it easy forming good friendships/relationships with her fellow females. A woman who has no personality issues will be very confortable with other females. I have met a lady for the first time and we bonded like we've always known each other so there are females who are different and dnt have these problems. When women are continuously pitched against one another, it would become a norm and with time they wont feel too comfortable with one another. I think we need to get rid of that mentality and women need to stop placing themselves in competition with others. Self contentment and a healthy self esteem matters alot. Such women need to seriously work on themselves cos their attitude can be really irritating and they are usually very frustrated. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by Mynd44: 12:49pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
Let the women bashing begin 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by stinggy(m): 12:57pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
Mynd44:It won't, we are gintlemen |
Re: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by Nobody: 1:03pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
Mynd44:yeah niggah! I think this ladies all belong to different witchcrafts that's why they hardly get along and always size each other up. Well, it's all to a niggah's advantage. |
Re: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by coogar: 1:04pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
the world was at peace when was the only human in eden. the moment eve joined him, humans have not known any peace. |
Re: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by Fkforyou(m): 1:25pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
@OP,You are your own worst enemy for thinking every woman is out there to get you.....what if they are not in a good mood or cos she is a woman she should smile back at you,which kind eye service be that? Anyway sha am not a woman so I won't truly understand how you feel,although I think you are being petty. #my opinion. |
Re: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by maclatunji: 2:10pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
SAMBARRY: @bolded #Yeyewoman |
Re: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by UjSizzle(f): 2:40pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
*flips hair* If we don't give the world drama, who will? 4 Likes |
Re: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by maclatunji: 2:41pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
UjSizzle: Indeed. Your drama no get part 2 #Ladies |
Re: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by jaybee3(m): 2:41pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
UjSizzle:Abeg which hair you been dey flip biko? |
Re: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by UjSizzle(f): 2:51pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
jaybee3:My weave-on |
Re: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by Nobody: 2:52pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
Very true.. Women are their worst enemies. You see them beefing each other,when a woman passes,her fellow woman would have sized her to know the worth of what she's wearing,and instantly be condemning her.. They bad mouth each other openly,and secretly.. I wonder why they are wired that way. |
Re: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by SAMBARRY: 4:09pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
maclatunji: |
Re: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by coogar: 4:12pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
Yomieluv: competition for the fine boys in that environment. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by maclatunji: 4:15pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
coogar: With the benefit of having the most healthy and vibrant offspring that would help ensure the continuity of the human race. It is more biological than we think? |
Re: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by soonest(f): 4:25pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
Op, not in all cases. My boss is a man and he's a nightmare to all. |
Re: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by agbeke58(f): 4:34pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
. 1 Like 3 Shares |
Re: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by Nobody: 4:59pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
Re: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by iykedare(m): 5:43pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
women dislike themselves. They are only united when they have to diss men. |
Re: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by UjSizzle(f): 6:15pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
Yomieluv:Ahem. We are not wired that way If someone's got a bad attitude, call it just that. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by lilmax(m): 10:03pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
Instead of them to be united, they are busy comparing themselves with men 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by Agrika: 10:38pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
agbeke58:I bet you your previous boss may have done the same thing but because he is a man you failed to notice those "flaws"....why because it has been "something-cally" programmed into your head to only respect and "submit" to a man...thats why a lady will deliberate make snide remarks on another lady why is that so, because she is jealous or even insecure, Wetin come bring the jealousy or insecurity na because by virtue of the fine dress wey the other one wear or maybe the fine car wey she dey ride or her "enviable" position in the company, she has somehow consciously or unconsciously managed to look "superior" to her, which she can't tolerate because a fellow woman is not suppose to look or even be superior to her only a man is allowed such "benefits"...so Mr. O.p, you wanna know why women despise themselves so much, it boils down to these three letter words; MEN! 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by Frankenstein: 11:49pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
A woman just wrote a lengthy half-assed article about her exclusive personal experience to castigate her gender, and generalized everything without conducting a proper research. Yes, women are their worst enemies. 1 Like |
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