It happens that most people in relationships once in a while make there partner their DP

Most partners/ spouse avoid doing that,even when they are seriously in U

Now the quest is:
1 Putting ur partners pix as ur dp...does it show love or trust?

2 partner that is avoiding putting his/her partners pix on there BBM or WHATsApp or other social network platform, does it means they are unfaithful or they don't love their partner?
There is this girl who has threaten to break up with me if I don't use her pix on my BBM. I have asked her to go ahead because I'm not ready to do that.
Pls share ur view..

It shows how much u cherish n proud of ur lover or spouse. I do this all the time

I personally think it's not a sign of genuine love, A person can just upload a photo of his/her lover just to please him/her, Though some people do it to show others that they are taken(in a relationship), Its still not a sign of love.

yez, buh it is a sign of being stupid in luv. y do i say dat? cos u guyz r nt yet married. d consequential effect is dat, it will chase away all other intending suitors.
i'm nt saying u shouldn't use ya b.f or g.f as dp buh dn't let it be often.

I used to do it but not always.

kristina1:
I used to do it but not always.

Same here! Like once in yellow moon

ammyluv2002:
Same here! Like once in yellow moon

Exactly! lol
And i enjoy guys usn my pix as deir dp.

It was before but nt now I use ma sistas
Cus dey re de best
Dey most beautiful maidens I hv seen

kristina1:

Exactly! lol
And i enjoy guys usn my pix as deir dp.

ok I get oya send me ua own nah leme use it

I don't think it's a sign of love.... But it's also a way to somewhat re-assure your partner that you're not ashamed of them, and that they are the only person you're seeing.

The dynamics of a relationship varies from person to person, some people don't mind if their partners don't put their pictures as dps, while others "demand" it, not necessarily out of paranoia, insecurity or jealously, but that's how they personally interprete expression of love.


Summarily, whatever works for you, if you're in a committed relationship and you know your partner loves "PDADP" [Public Display of Affection on Display Picture], then very much so, please do it.

chimerase2:
ok I get oya send me ua own nah leme use it

lol.......dnt bother urself

It's never a sign

1one:
I don't think it's a sign of love.... But it's also a way to somewhat re-assure your partner that you're not ashamed of them, and that they are the only person you're seeing.

The dynamics of a relationship varies from person to person, some people don't mind if their partners don't put their pictures as dps, while others "demand" it, not necessarily out of paranoia, insecurity or jealously, but that's how they personally interprete expression of love.


Summarily, whatever works for you, if you're in a committed relationship and you know your partner loves "PDADP" [Public Display of Affection on Display Picture], then very much so, please do it.

I don't think I can make more sense than this

You saved me from typing stress

** kudos **

1one:
I don't think it's a sign of love.... But it's also a way to somewhat re-assure your partner that you're not ashamed of them, and that they are the only person you're seeing.

The dynamics of a relationship varies from person to person, some people don't mind if their partners don't put their pictures as dps, while others "demand" it, not necessarily out of paranoia, insecurity or jealously, but that's how they personally interprete expression of love.


Summarily, whatever works for you, if you're in a committed relationship and you know your partner loves "PDADP" [Public Display of Affection on Display Picture], then very much so, please do it.

You have spoken well... I am a salesman and mostly all my customers , bosses and prospects are on my bbm list and whatsapp... I don't feel comfortable using a ladies pix cos it makes me look like a joker. Do you really think using a ladies pix on my Dp will have any effect on the people I do business with. Thanks

tosyne2much:
I don't think I can make more sense than this

You saved me from typing stress

** kudos **

Thanks man

arvinsloane:

You have spoken well... I am a salesman and mostly all my customers , bosses and prospects are on my bbm list and whatsapp... I don't feel comfortable using a ladies pix cos it makes me look like a joker. Do you really think using a ladies pix on my Dp will have any effect on the people I do business with. Thanks

True...In your own case, your woman should be objective enough to see reasons, I don't think it's ethically appropriate business wise, to put your woman's picture as her dp since most of your contacts are business clients or prospects... But maybe on special occasions-her birthday... Feb 14 and others. Atleast your business partners are also human beings and not machines, they too must have and appreciate someone special in their lives.

Why do people make simple things so complex. It's just as simple as dat. "Your face as my dp" fin!! People get sooo sensitive about that. There are tooo many signs of love that people tend to ignore but then they find sign
s of love in something as simple as this. I say this because I have seen situations where a couple get into pointless arguments because one person refuses to use their picture as a dp. It's really not healthy sometimes.

just like @1one said, wanting ur bf/gf 2 use u as dp does nt necessarily stem out jealousy or possessiveness. it's a reassuring thingy, it means u're proud of dis person, dat u're identifying urself wit dis person. it doesn't hav 2 be sth u do always but do appreciate esp wen u hav dis very beautiful/handsome pic of d person. Anytin odawise is B.S

1one:



True...In your own case, your woman should be objective enough to see reasons, I don't think it's ethically appropriate business wise, to put your woman's picture as her dp since most of your contacts are business clients or prospects... But maybe on special occasions-her birthday... Feb 14 and others. Atleast your business partners are also human beings and not machines, they too must have and appreciate someone special in their lives.

Thanks bro.... ** madam Nkechi... Abeg give this oga 2 pots of isi ewu and nkwobi. With 5 bottles of small stout...after work,come house come collect money***

Op,

It is never a sign, it's just an imported 21st century mundane desire.

The onus is on patners to love themselves well enough not to even notice a social media display picture upload.

My mum of blessed memory never knew what "over-bloated display picture" is, but never was she found wanting in loving my dad.

I don't do a relationship which is akin to "click like" if you love Jesus, "don't click like" if you love satan I always ask them, "so if I refuse to click "like" does that mean I don't like Jesus?"

Relate the two.

arvinsloane:

Thanks bro.... ** madam Nkechi... Abeg give this oga 2 pots of isi ewu and nkwobi. With 5 bottles of small stout...after work,come house come collect money***

Hahahahaha!!!

*madam Nkechi... Abeg heLEP me change those 5bottles of stout to 3packs of Chivita Juice and 2 cans of Amstel Malta*

*Make the Isi-ewu sweet ooo*

jnrbayano:
Op,

It is never a sign, it's just an imported 21st century mundane desire.

The onus is on patners to love themselves well enough not to even notice a social media display picture upload.

My mum of blessed memory never knew what "over-bloated display picture" is, but never was she found wanting in loving my dad.

I don't do a relationship which is akin to "click like" if you love Jesus, "don't click like" if you love satan I always ask them, "so if I refuse to click "like" does that mean I don't like Jesus?"

Relate the two.

You are making sense. I got you bro

1one:


Hahahahaha!!!

*madam Nkechi... Abeg heLEP me change those 5bottles of stout to 3packs of Chivita Juice and 2 cans of Amstel Malta*

*Make the Isi-ewu sweet ooo*

Hehehehehehehehehe..... That one na jedi jedi o.... Weldone bro

kristina1:
I used to do it but not always.

You used to do it but not always? Huh?

Only dp? Mtcheeew e easy......I can be putting pics of 100 girls sef, so if that's your own assurance no wahala I know a friend who has not used himself for two years, even on his bday, na cake dey there, it's only kids that cry over these kinda things.

kaboninc:


You used to do it but not always? Huh?

Na slip of finger

Ofcourse its a sign of love even fake love is announced via dp its a good thing

I do this for all my new "catchs".. It shortens the "toasting" process when I get wetin I dey find nothing for u again oo.

It ruins show especially when you are eyeing someone else

Umm I can't really tell

But most peeps see as Love

It means a lot of things to many people somebody like me do use a picture of the girl I am wooing or that of my girlfriend or friends with benefit as DP if the other person ask I will tell her she is a cousin a good cousin for that matter