I am nice to evryone,irrespective of who u are
And if u throw it back to my face or hurt me for been nice
Trust me I wuld still be nice to people
Its ur own big loss

badoolee:
I am nice to evryone,irrespective of who u are
And if u throw it back to my face or hurt me for been nice
Trust me I wuld still be nice to people
Its ur own big loss

Correct !

chimerase2:
lol u dn kworrpt
Have u forgotton amu de master?

Master of fwendZone

iceberylin:

Master of fwendZone

sharap n learn

jworos:
lol,u corrected yourself by yourself..

I actually meant gurls

I'm too nice... Friends call me father christmas and many of them take me for granted. They call only when they need something from me!

Nice one, OP. Pun intended

One thing a man should never be is permissive by default. That is not manly at all. And that is essentially what people call being nice. A man is a leader, thus he should be assertive.

However, assertive just because is what being a jerk is about. A jerk is assertive just because he can be. There's no thought in his head for what the cost of his assertiveness could be to the person he's dealing with.

Women will always be attracted to men who exude that confidence that makes men assertive. That feeling that someone knows what they're doing is what makes people want to follow them. The same dynamic works between women and men. A woman will typically follow a man who projects a sense of "having it together", a sense of indomitability.

Niceness does not have to mean permissive. It should simply mean "considerate about other people's well-being and of the effect of one's power on others". In fact, that is actually what it means. But in a world where selfishness APPEARS to be the rule, this automatically sounds like wimpiness, permissiveness to a lot of ears. It isn't.

For men, be nice, that is, be good. But don't sacrifice good principles that you hold and which define you merely to please people. Note that niceness is not a principle, it is an attitude, a behavior you show to others especially those who in one way or another are weaker than you.

For women, be nice too. But don't sacrifice good principles you hold merely to make some guy happy. If a man cares about you, it is because he loves your principles. Any other claim is not really worth listening to.

ihedinobi2:
Nice one, OP. Pun intended

One thing a man should never be is permissive by default. That is not manly at all. And that is essentially what people call being nice. A man is a leader, thus he should be assertive.

However, assertive just because is what being a jerk is about. A jerk is assertive just because he can be. There's no thought in his head for what the cost of his assertiveness could be to the person he's dealing with.

Women will always be attracted to men who exude that confidence that makes men assertive. That feeling that someone knows what they're doing is what makes people want to follow them. The same dynamic works between women and men. A woman will typically follow a man who projects a sense of "having it together", a sense of indomitability.

Niceness does not have to mean permissive. It should simply mean "considerate about other people's well-being and of the effect of one's power on others". In fact, that is actually what it means. But in a world where selfishness APPEARS to be the rule, this automatically sounds like wimpiness, permissiveness to a lot of ears. It isn't.

For men, be nice, that is, be good. But don't sacrifice good principles that you hold and which define you merely to please people. Note that niceness is not a principle, it is an attitude, a behavior you show to others especially those who in one way or another are weaker than you.

For women, be nice too. But don't sacrifice good principles you hold merely to make some guy happy. If a man cares about you, it is because he loves your principles. Any other claim is not really worth listening to.

I totally agree. And most times.. lack of confidence, fear and low self esteem will push people to the corner of being too nice. Meaning they would do anything to please others to avoid being talked about or to look perfect. They they get tagged. Quiet, easy going and people with soft voices fall more victims.

The moment you know or feel someone is trying to be selfish or taking advantage of any of your good deeds, Know that you have crossed the line of sacrificing your good principles.

Koko88:
I'm too nice... Friends call me father christmas and many of them take me for granted. They call only when they need something from me!

Maybe you dont have real friends. But yet, if you are a natural giver and whatever you are giving comes from your mind and you dont regret your actions after, then you are not doing anything wrong.

@ op
been nice to people especially my family makes me happy and that's a priority to me,that's one of my prayer points. That is who i am, that exactly what God want me to be if not it would be the other way round. but i don't allow any one to me take for a fool i give as i pleased.

nice post though.