adepiero:
OP! you gave up womanizing and got married. now ur misleading these young lads by giving them advice on being a Bad Boy?

The truth of the matter is, no matter how you coach them if they don't have it in them, it can never spring up overnight. many errors await

Nobody taught me how to be a ladies man, I learnt from ppl while growing up. if you wanna walk the same path, keep ur eyes open and observe every detail

You know, i always encourage young single men to date as many women as possible and if possible sleep with many more. It makes them better husbands in future. Every married man deserves to have fond memories of exploits in his younger days. Married women too.

SkinnyDude:

you are 18. and so? is that why you can't punctuate? and which one again be MATUREDLY? hahaha.

Haba, free the guy abeg.

RedEboe:

Develop the courage and confidence to approach ANY woman you desire. Nobody can teach you courage or confidence, you either have em or you don't. I can only guide you on how to use the courage and confidence you already have with women.

I have the courage and confidence. But the thing is, I don't have the driving force in me. I always have a good reason not to approach a lady. Maybe it's Ego or self respect or pride, I do not know.

Baba i sight you, its been a long time? Well this topic you are bringing up will surely have negative impact on (them) teenagers. Will like to see a thread on how you live your teenage life, the experience, lesson etc. My 2cent baba

RedEboe:


You know, i always encourage young single men to date as many women as possible and if possible sleep with many more. It makes them better husbands in future. Every married man deserves to have fond memories of exploits in his younger days. Married women too.

Bros I don't agree with the Married women too

yinkeys:
Bros I don't agree with the Married women too

Na only una like better thing abi?

Francheezy:



I have the courage and confidence. But the thing is, I don't have the driving force in me. I always have a good reason not to approach a lady. Maybe it's Ego or self respect or pride, I do not know.

How can a complete 'red-blooded' male have a 'good reason' not to approach ladies? You lost me there my brother.

It's definitely not Ego/Pride...Laziness or insecurity, maybe.

ogaofficer:
Baba i sight you, its been a long time? Well this topic you are bringing up will surely have negative impact on (them) teenagers. Will like to see a thread on how you live your teenage life, the experience, lesson etc. My 2cent baba

Thanks boss.
This thread actually has a lot to do with how i led my life as a teenager. In my early teens, i was a very shy guy. I belonged to the club of hopless Romantics that wrote letters to ladies and sprayed perfumes on the letter-but i achieved nothing but heartbreaks.
I met a mentor at 16yrs and he thought me lots and lots of things. I dealt with my virginity sexual frusrations by investing N100 on a hooker at Bar-beach. It worked.

veegirl:

Na only una like better thing abi?

LOL...help me ask am o. Hi Veegirl, longest time.

RedEboe:


LOL...help me ask am o. Hi Veegirl, longest time.

Hello jare better person. Na u dey offline since na

veegirl:


Hello jare better person. Na u dey offline since na

Na true sha...boyz dey hustle jare. Not too much time for NL. Fun to be back tho'

RedEboe:


Sorry bro but you can't desire fresh bush meat if you are unable to enter the jungle and hunt for it. However, paying for bush meat may not be such a bad idea. Thus, if you have 0% confidence with women as you say, you might as well consider paying one to be nice to you at least for the night. Yes, you heard me right, a good 'A$hawo' can help you demystify your real or perceived fear for women but PLEASE use condoms. It's either that or you turn your only friend 'a boy' into a gay partner.

No more questions from you son.

Good luck.

Ayaayaaayaaayaaaa!!!

OP iyaff mad!!

RedEboe:

Na true sha...boyz dey hustle jare. Not too much time for NL. Fun to be back tho'

Good to have you back

No sane man would want to be a bad boy. Imagine advicing people to exploit, inorder to be a good husband.

HIV is real and prevention is better than cure.

Getting married to a virgin guy is the best thing that will ever happen to a girl. Ladies should be smart and grab the opportunity. If he didn't tamper with his virginity , there's no way he will do so after you've married him.

Lord have mercy- Moral decadence is on the increase.

RedEboe:


How can a complete 'red-blooded' male have a 'good reason' not to approach ladies? You lost me there my brother.

It's definitely not Ego/Pride...Laziness or insecurity, maybe.

Lmao.. No worry. Thanks.

veegirl:

Na only una like better thing abi?

There's a huge side effect , for married women you know

yinkeys:
There's a huge side effect , for married women you know

What are the side effects?

Bleshh:






Ayaayaaayaaayaaaa!!!

OP iyaff mad!!

LOOL, U are funny dude.

FrancisTony:
No sane man would want to be a bad boy. Imagine advicing people to exploit, inorder to be a good husband.

HIV is real and prevention is better than cure.

Getting married to a virgin guy is the best thing that will ever happen to a girl. Ladies should be smart and grab the opportunity. If he didn't tamper with his virginity , there's no way he will do so after you've married him.

Lord have mercy- Moral decadence is on the increase.

Is this some kind of consolation?

In any case, I do agree with you that virginity be it in males or females is some kind of a virtue.

BUT these are strictly personal choices; that you've chosen to remain celibate till marriage IS NO GUARANTEE that you'll be a better husband in future than that womanizer round the corner. FACT

yinkeys:
There's a huge side effect , for married women you know

You'd be surprised that a lot of single or married women are VERY GOOD at keeping or managing multiple $ex partners just like their male counterparts. Even though they tend to be much more discreet because our conservative society places a huge moral burden on women, but trust me, WOMEN CAN PLAY...without side effects.

RedEboe:


You'd be surprised that a lot of single or married women are VERY GOOD at keeping or managing multiple $ex partners just like their male counterparts. Even though they tend to be much more discreet because our conservative society places a huge moral burden on women, but trust me, WOMEN CAN PLAY...without side effects.

Bro I know so well what you mean. When I meant side effect, I was referring to the inability to close their legs. Yorubas will call it Oju kokoro. They'll tend to also want to taste all types you know regardless of their hubbies financial status. In other words, the more you keep sleeping around, the more you'll never be able to stay faithful & by 30 most of them will start looking for husband and evn the ones that get married might have issues conceiving. In life you just can't eat your cake & still have it. If you decide to act manly by sleeping around, don't blame womanly organs for not firing when you desperately need it. Like I'll always say; sleeping around is directly proportional to failure/sadness/etc.

RedEboe:


Is this some kind of consolation?

In any case, I do agree with you that virginity be it in males or females is some kind of a virtue.

BUT these are strictly personal choices; that you've chosen to remain celibate till marriage IS NO GUARANTEE that you'll be a better husband in future than that womanizer round the corner. FACT

I never said we will make the best husband but it's a best GIFT women can receive.

A guy who kept his virginity till marriage is not a pervert or nymphomaniac but someone that got better thing doing than fantasizing about how many women to get laid.

The best happiness to give a woman whether you are RICH or POOR is being chaste, and a man who remained a virgin till marriage, would not become a womaniser overnight.

FrancisTony:

I never said we will make the best husband but it's a best GIFT women can receive.

A guy who kept his virginity till marriage is not a pervert or nymphomaniac but someone that got better thing doing than fantasizing about how many women to get laid.

The best happiness to give a woman whether you are RICH or POOR is being chaste, and a man who remained a virgin till marriage, would not become a womaniser overnight.

stop mentioning me in crap threads

yinkeys:
Bro I know so well what you mean. When I meant side effect, I was referring to the inability to close their legs. Yorubas will call it Oju kokoro. They'll tend to also want to taste all types you know regardless of their hubbies financial status. In other words, the more you keep sleeping around, the more you'll never be able to stay faithful & by 30 most of them will start looking for husband and evn the ones that get married might have issues conceiving. In life you just can't eat your cake & still have it. If you decide to act manly by sleeping around, don't blame womanly organs for not firing when you desperately need it. Like I'll always say; sleeping around is directly proportional to failure/sadness/etc.

Very good point.

FrancisTony:

I never said we will make the best husband but it's a best GIFT women can receive.

A guy who kept his virginity till marriage is not a pervert or nymphomaniac but someone that got better thing doing than fantasizing about how many women to get laid.

The best happiness to give a woman whether you are RICH or POOR is being chaste, and a man who remained a virgin till marriage, would not become a womaniser overnight.

I quite disagree with the embolden my brother; i can assure you that lots and LOTS of men that remained virgin till marriage do become serial/extremely randy husbands overnight, unable to control themselves. Why? They've tasted sex and are now confined to JUST one partner, no room for variety and experimentation-things they ought to have done when much younger. Though lustful and vanity-like but very important in the complete development of a MAN.

However, i still agree with you that chastity remains a virtue, if it works for you PLEASE don't let it go.

Seems a lot of good peeps on NL don't know what they are missing out on being bad boys. I guess they don't want to be. Me am just patiently waiting for the day you'll create a thread that teaches multimedia so we can use it to upgrade our semi-broke ass statuses. . That will be way more beneficial to us @RedEboe

RedEboe:
So, you are tired of ALWAYS losing out on the girl(s) of your dream, she always falls for the other guy?

Your female friends keep 'friend zoning' you?

You are a church going nice guy and you believe in the sanctity of marriage, but you still need to get laid, right?

Maybe you are still a virgin and seriously need to break that psychological stigma and get some P*****y?

Whatever your problem is, this is your chance to get free advise on how to make that transition from a good boy to a bad guy.

Rules: One question, one answer...no follow up questions and no long stories.

Let's hear it.

What off ur transition from a very bad boy to a good boy?

yinkeys:
Seems a lot of good peeps on NL don't know what they are missing out on being bad boys. I guess they don't want to be. Me am just patiently waiting for the day you'll create a thread that teaches multimedia so we can use it to upgrade our semi-broke ass statuses. . That will be way more beneficial to us @RedEboe

Thanks for that nice idea, i'll work on that someday. Boyz are not smiling o!

drnoel:


What off ur transition from a very bad boy to a good boy?

Who says i'm good?

Where's this boss @Redeboe?