This may not be the best time for me to write on this because of misinterpretations, but I can no longer resist the push. "Husband Scarcity" has become one of the challenges faced by many young girls today. If you go to prayer houses, majority of the prayers are for life partner. And this calls for concern.

Casting our minds back to the time of our mothers and grandmothers, was there really much of a "HUSBAND SCARCITY" problem? Or, maybe there were more men than women then, or there was an adequate corresponding numbers of both genders. I don't think so. Maybe then, the women had values and were prepared to build a home and not park into an already built home. Then, once a young man comes of age and can at least feed himself and his wife, he goes out in search of a wife and the woman really appreciates him and helps him to build a future.

What am I really trying to say? We created what we now see as "HUSBAND SCARCITY" for ourselves. Today, the reverse is the case. Ask an average pretty girl to define her dream husband; you get things like "he has to be tall,handsome, fair, and rich, own a house atleast, and be presentable" and then she adds "God fearing" in order not to sound so worldly. Then, check the number of girls around you and the number of men that meet that standard, and you will see the problem.

You hear girls say, "I cannot suffer in my father's house and then go and start suffering with a man."What a wonderful dream! What if from the beginning, you have everything you want and there is no suffering, and later in themarriage, the table turns around, then comes suffering? Will you run away? No one prays for suffering, but it is good to start small and end big, than start big and end small.

God bless you!

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Sanity is gradually returning to the female gender....

But I'm available


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tenk

There is high supply of boyfriends but scares amount of husbands. Most of this women are looking for husbands not boyfriends

Okay... They're looking for husband, but how many of them can or will make a good wife? .

Men are not scarce but only been careful about cosmetics ladies who walk about unclad.
Resposibile ladies are hard to come by.
What we are seeing today are very frightful,marriage is once in a life time..One must be careful in getting a good materials that could make a home.
It abosulute difficult getting a presentable ladies as a wife...But lovers and girlfriends abound in thounsands,wife..Just a percent.
This present cultures of up bringing has messed up things execept we go back to the basic!