Syphax:
OP,you are a man not a woman.
Only ladies keep mallies.The babe has a problem with your friend not you,so don't delete her.

starling:
So y do u want to delete her? Its she nd ur frnd dat has isshh not d both of Ɣ☺ΰ... I know u will be feelin awkward bin in d middle but u deletin her isnt goin to be fair

1one:


But you know, keeping malice and deleting her are two different things. If you would agree with me, there are atleast two or three people on your bbm/ whatsapp that you never talk to(which is what malice is), but there're also atleast two or three people who are not contacts on your bbm/whatsapp, yet you talk to them every once and again.

Syphax:



LMAO,yea you are right.

You can at least use her to decorate ur friend list.I'm sure she will delete you in due time.

1one:


So let me ask, and I hope you can be as candid as possible, would you feel good if your buddie and your ex are [constantly] chatting up on social media?

countsparrow:


Yeah!!! u know y I don't part with them on a sour note

1one:
^^The mind of my own wants to delete her because I feel there's no point having her on my bbm since she's no longer my friend's woman

I'm just trying to garner opinions

Zeemoor:
You know that's not true
The mind of your own still want to stay friends with her but you can't because your friend isn't okay with it, yes?

1one:


Errrrrrm....


Well....


Errrrrrrr....

Can I give you a gray answer?

Zeemoor:
A gray answer?
That's a new one on me

Pardon my ignorance, but what exactly does 'gray answer' mean?

1one:


A gray answer is a neither here nor there answer... It's neither a yes or no answer.

To answer your initial question, I wouldn't have thought to delete her if she and my friend were still a couple...on the other hand, I may likely have deleted her for any other reason, particularly for the fact that we only chat once or twice a month There's no point decorating your bbm with statues.... So If I eventually decide to delete her, I see it as a way to somewhat kill two birds with one stone- "To be loyal to my friend" and "To rid my bbm off people I seldom chat with"

Zeemoor:
If it feels right and makes your bank account big and fat, by all means, delete her

starling:
I understand where u are heading, and dats why I said u are placed in an awkard position cos ryt naw ur loyalty is kinda divided... Av bin dere b4 nd blive ♍ε̲̣̣̣̥ deletin her isnt d best option.

starling:
But u are bent on deletin her, dats if u havent sef... So just go ahead nd do wat u feel is ryt