Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / NewStats: 3,158,162 members, 7,835,889 topics. Date: Tuesday, 21 May 2024 at 04:54 PM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Religion / His Pastor Shared His Confidential Information While Preaching (24789 Views)
See What A Pastor Is Doing While Preaching (photo) / His Pastor Shared His Confidential Information While Preaching / Pastor Shot To Death While Preaching During Service (2) (3) (4)
(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (Reply) (Go Down)
Re: His Pastor Shared His Confidential Information While Preaching by freshness2020: 2:29pm On Dec 28, 2014 |
delishpot:♈όϋ hav a point here, but sometimes such issues can be treated as advice to those who have been towing dat lane or about to! The only way the pastor can save the day is by saying it when the said person is not around ! |
Re: His Pastor Shared His Confidential Information While Preaching by Lustig(m): 2:30pm On Dec 28, 2014 |
olaayodele:God bless u sire... 100000 likes. I have first hand experience of this topic 1 Like |
Re: His Pastor Shared His Confidential Information While Preaching by freshness2020: 2:31pm On Dec 28, 2014 |
realteflon:There is nothing bad in it, τ̲̅ђe only way I can condemn this act is when τ̲̅ђe pastor is saying it in the presence of the said person! |
Re: His Pastor Shared His Confidential Information While Preaching by sekzy99(m): 3:24pm On Dec 28, 2014 |
Teammi:that aint true. a priest will neva share info frm confession to pipu. Ask d cartels |
Re: His Pastor Shared His Confidential Information While Preaching by delishpot: 3:36pm On Dec 28, 2014 |
freshness2020: Well we all know whoring is bad, a pastor can say if you hook around, you may end up catching an STD and those hookers may rip you off. And considering how this economy is, money that should be spent wisely will be spent looking for cure for something you could avoid. But most pastors I heard put it like this........ Just last week, I and pastor Dave were sitting at my office, a bro approached us, he is well known here, so I wont call his name. If you see this brother, you will pity him. Any way......... he came to me, to tell me he slept with a woman, then she stole his money, ontop of that, she gave him an STD and now he is running from post to pillar to find a cure, his boss has sacked him, his parents are poor and cant help him, he came to me because he was tired of life and wants to kill himself, etc ,etc. This is how most pastors put it. Any way sha, I believe its not fair to tell what was spoken in confidence. Cos most members will starz gossiping and wondering which bro daddy was talking about. 1 Like |
Re: His Pastor Shared His Confidential Information While Preaching by Originalsly: 4:17pm On Dec 28, 2014 |
Trust no man...why not go to God? |
Re: His Pastor Shared His Confidential Information While Preaching by freshness2020: 4:18pm On Dec 28, 2014 |
delishpot:♈όϋ re so on point! It just a pity the bad one's are trying to overshadow the good shepherds among us! But that does not mean we should lose our confidence on the trusted one's.. Cos some issues are better shared than kept! |
Re: His Pastor Shared His Confidential Information While Preaching by delishpot: 5:11pm On Dec 28, 2014 |
freshness2020: Yeah true that. 1 Like |
Re: His Pastor Shared His Confidential Information While Preaching by tenry(m): 5:23pm On Dec 28, 2014 |
vooks:You are the only daft human being on planet earth . Your miserable life will not get you anywhere in 2015. I will rather advice that u get a life and stop beefing others. If you can act this way to a stranger who hav not met! I can imagine how pathetic your life will be. We knw your type, who can't give kudos to efforts made by others to enlighten nairalanders. Thank God I ll never come across a dumb fellow like u in this world cos u ll be a great misfortune and calamity. |
Re: His Pastor Shared His Confidential Information While Preaching by toludadon(m): 6:42pm On Dec 28, 2014 |
yemivictor: the Reverend was wrong? how? they dated in their university days.. don't tell me we all end up marrying our university dates |
Re: His Pastor Shared His Confidential Information While Preaching by Chibokgame: 6:50pm On Dec 28, 2014 |
The greatest sermons being preached are people's past lives. If your own is told and it was an ugly one , be glad cod you are not living in the past any longer Or if you are still living such . It's time to change. I know and believed that if it were to be a good topic, You wouldn't be complaining. The Bible stories are made up of people's past life. |
Re: His Pastor Shared His Confidential Information While Preaching by KLand(m): 7:12pm On Dec 28, 2014 |
tenry: It is true pastors use such examples to buttress their points so the congregation can better relate to the message. But such pastors should be discreet enough so as not to release the identity of the person being used as an example, except of course if they have the permission of the person to share it. |
Re: His Pastor Shared His Confidential Information While Preaching by luluosas(m): 7:51pm On Dec 28, 2014 |
Even the pastor may have made reference to his case in his message, how did he know the was speaking about him? Was his name mentioned? |
Re: His Pastor Shared His Confidential Information While Preaching by realteflon(m): 7:55pm On Dec 28, 2014 |
freshness2020:It's bad, using one's discussion as a topic in church. What happen to confidentiality |
Re: His Pastor Shared His Confidential Information While Preaching by andyanders: 9:25pm On Dec 28, 2014 |
Most Pastors don't keep any secret and are gossipers. Immediately you discuss your privacy, they use it as a point of reference and also tell most of their close confidants. His wife who is not in the picture must know. That is why most marriages break up as a result of women going to a Pastor to tell him her private problems. And when they leave that church for another church, the pastor would know use his/her case as a reference point.I have witnessed most telling their congregation what sister this did or brother that did when things goes wrong with their relationship. For me, let your secret be your secret. Only God who created you knows your problems and you can take them to Him. Most modern pastors now are in flesh instead of the spirit nd cannot control their mouth. You better keep your problems to yourself. |
Re: His Pastor Shared His Confidential Information While Preaching by elomepee: 10:21pm On Dec 28, 2014 |
Una sabi talk for this nairaland sha. Are you people seeking attention? |
Re: His Pastor Shared His Confidential Information While Preaching by polarman(m): 9:30am On Dec 29, 2014 |
@OP, your friend is lucky he did not mention his name. He should just keep on with his life and watch what he says to such pastor. My own experience, the pastor called my name and even the name of the person that was involved and we were both known by almost all the members of the church. What i did? I just moved away, far, from the church and stopped any form of communication with the pastor. I also forbade my wife from having any type of communication with him. #lobatan# 1 Like |
Re: His Pastor Shared His Confidential Information While Preaching by eve22: 9:43am On Dec 29, 2014 |
iamchiddy: SECONDED |
Re: His Pastor Shared His Confidential Information While Preaching by yemivictor: 12:06am On Dec 31, 2014 |
toludadon: Sir, i think you need to read the opening story again. There are two reverends, a senior one and a junior one. The junior one dated the lady in University while the senior one was confided in but spilled the beans in a vindictive and self-righteous manner. This is bad! Reverend or no reverend. 1 Like |
Re: His Pastor Shared His Confidential Information While Preaching by toludadon(m): 3:53pm On Dec 31, 2014 |
yemivictor: now I get you.. you know I wrote the story.. so I thought you were blaming the junior Reverend that dated the lady in the uni... |
Re: His Pastor Shared His Confidential Information While Preaching by brocab: 10:49pm On Feb 13, 2016 |
Not really what is private it should be kept private, no matter what. This is what God said: go into your room and pray in secret, and what he see's in secret He will reward you. Is God given us a message here? I had a strange experience with a pastor, about some issue's, I waited 3 weeks to see him, after telling the pastor my problems, hoping he could give me some good advise, after feeling down and tormented from my ordeal, his only words "were" you know what to do. I walked out from seeing the pastor' hoping I would feel a lot better, lucky I wasn't suicidal, I would have done the job. After praying to Christ for some time he had strengthened me, and I managed to walk through the shadow of death, where I feared no evil. But we have all got to remember pastor's are not trained councillors, their job is to preach the word of God. Usually we would think Churches would have proper Councillors, but most of them don't. Churches are suppose to be a house of healing, and Counselling is part of that healing. We hear of so many different stories about our Pastors around the globe, counselling alone with married and single women, If Pastors were councillors, we wouldn't hear of the many stories of pastors running off with them, leaving their own marriages behind. Pastors are not Councillors, and its not their job to act like one either. |
plaetton, Why Is EVERYTHING Fine-tuned For Life On Earth,multiverses? / Idol Worship In The Roman Catholic Church / Leke Adeboye: I Listen To Fela’s Music A Lot - Pastor Adeboye's Son Says
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 56 |