striktlymi:
Very well written and your thoughts properly articulated.

I agree with a number of things you have said but I do not think it inappropriate for siblings of the opposite sex to have each others back.

Family should always be the pillar on which individual members can fall back on in moments of crisis; this is one advantage of being raised in a closely knit family.

Your sister's desire for your counsel and comfort in such moments should be treasured as against you seeing it as awkward.

If she doesn't come to you, who else do you want her to go to? Friends? Or she should go through the pains all alone? I don't think that is right.

One major reason why the community experiences a dearth in morality is because the family unit is not as close as it should be and instead of kids learning from home, they pick all soughts from their friends and on social media.

The saying "show me your friends and I will tell you who you are" won't hold true if each family brace up to their responsibilities.

I understand your grievance and for the most part, I agree with you but this shouldn't be a basis for errecting imaginary walls between members of the same family, simply because they happen to be of different sexes.

Hedybee:
I still maintain wat i said in d other thread. Anybody who has feelings for his/her siblings is abnormal. I might not know what it is like in other families, but at this juncture, i want to commend n appropriate my parents for d kind upbringing they gave to us and my brothers, for never giving me any reason to live in fear and to doubt d very foundation our parents gave us. My sisters r married n none stays in my state. I have no option than to roll with my brothers. They are my best friends

Abelsconcept:


You're getting it wrong. In fact, for you to categorically state that someone who affectionately close their relations is abnormal makes me wonder how you claim to roll with you brothers. I've see and heard of stories where ladies cry because they're going to leave their father home to their husband's. They don't cry because they do not want get married. They're happy getting married but the relationships with family will no longer be first priority.

This thread attempts to disapprove of two grow up siblings of opposite sex sleeping together due to obvious reasons stated in the thread (that's if you read it ooo). How can you go to your brothers' room when you have space for yourself. To me, I call it being over closely knitted and perhaps creepy. It is in circumstances that you've sleepovers with your brother(s).

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it will never be well with that person

naijaboiy:
i really don't understand this Op's point

Are you saying because many people agreed they can sleep with their sibling of the opposite sex in a room,,then they are practising inbreeding?

What evidence do you have to back this up?

You even had to copy their comments and paste here which to me is very wrong.

pweedyuz:

there is nothing creepy in going into ur brother's room to sleep wen u fully have enuf space in ur own room......"creepy is definitely not d word to use in this context"

being over closely knitted to ur blood brother is also not wrong too.
if u grew up close to ur sisters nd u guys practically do things together....I.e sharing a very good bond with them,,u won't be here saying all these things.

I'm not denying d fact that I haven't heard stories about brothers sleeping with their sisters but there is no other word to term it other than abnormality........Yes,,d both of u r abnormal...d guy for making a move nd d girl for succumbing or vice versa.

brother,,,dis is blood we r talking about....#cousins set aside#.....
I have cousins dat "literary" bath together sef..... I.e...d Sister myt b putting on a bra without closing d door nd d brother will just barge in on us,,say whatever he wants to say nd leave..........I was surprise d day I saw this nd she told me ""wetin dey dia ""
p.s.......she s getting married tomorrow

tho I don't do d aforementioned,,,, but that doesn't mean I don't change my cloths in front of my brother....#using wrapper or towel#

but please,,,d thought of sleeping on d same bed with ones brother or Sister is not appalling............ everything rests on d foundation,, training,background, closeness nd fondness of d said siblings.

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