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Do You Know The Most Important Step In Dating? by abasifo(m): 10:11pm On Dec 12, 2008 |
1. Meeting women when they are with their friends is WAY easier than waiting for when they are alone! This is because women with friends feel safe and relaxed, so their defenses aren't up. If you wait until she's by herself to meet her, you're walking into a situation where she's going to be WAY more defensive than usual. 2. If you open her with some dumb compliment, she's going to know you're hitting on her. Why? BECAUSE THAT'S WHAT EVERY OTHER GUY DOES! If you want to meet a woman, you need to be different, and not come across as some lamer. 3. Buying a woman a drink is like pick-up suicide! Women will plug you for free drinks all night long, and never talk to you again. The purpose of approaching women is to transition into a DATE. If you do the "May I buy you a drink" line, you might as well just say "Hey ladies, I'm a walking ATM for tonight!" 4. Going for the number is always a bad idea! You should be going for RAPPORT. You should be going for CONNECTIONS. If you can get those, she'll actually OFFER you her number! And when that happens, a next meeting is actually going to happen! |
Re: Do You Know The Most Important Step In Dating? by sistawoman: 10:17pm On Dec 12, 2008 |
abasifo: Some of this is good but here are my problems: 1. If you approach me while I am with my friends I am going to crituque you far more than if you approched me alone. I dont want my girls to see me talking to or entertaining a loser. Plus my girls will try to trip you up and make you look stupid in front me thus making me diss you harder. 2. Practical advice please on how guys can do this. 3. Stop telling the guys this. dont you know this is how we get free drinks all night. No one buying me a drink will get any play but please stop telling the guys this. 4. this one is good. |
Re: Do You Know The Most Important Step In Dating? by abasifo(m): 6:23am On Dec 13, 2008 |
that is for you ,they is what we call individual difference |
Re: Do You Know The Most Important Step In Dating? by tomaagy(m): 7:09am On Dec 13, 2008 |
sistawoman: True!! so here comes the women dillemma !!! wen do we get to approach and not be dished!!? women are just too complicated! |
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