| Re: My Pain, Distress And Agony As A Single Mother. by Liability(m): 4:15pm On Jan 05, 2015 |
Midehi:
You don hear am na ok ooo....midehi...am liability |
| Re: My Pain, Distress And Agony As A Single Mother. by Nobody: 5:33pm On Jan 05, 2015 |
Liability:
ok ooo....midehi...am liability You are really a liability. |
| Re: My Pain, Distress And Agony As A Single Mother. by Sunnypar(m): 5:02am On Feb 27, 2016 |
Liability:
as am typing this to you guys in nairaland, i write with tears in my eye, swollen redness as a result of what i am currently experiencing.
3 years back after my O'level, i felt i have arrived, having the freedom to do what every woman dreams of doing; having a wonderful relationship, achieve her goals educational, financial, marital, sex..ual and otherwise.
With this euphoric cloud that encapsulated me, i met Daniel, whom i later discovered was a blatant and a wicked liar.
We dated for like 2 years, throughout that period i didnt have the opportunity to know his family. He works in Abuja and I was in Lagos. So he visited evry weeked.
Things changed for me when i got pregnant for Daniel, my parents were so upset with me that they told me to show them who was responsible for my condition.
Daniel admitted to it but shocked both me and my family that he cannot marry me. That he will rent a house for me, where i will stay, deliver and nurture the baby until before he will marry me.
He kept his promise, iam with his baby now he is 3 months old now. But till day i have not been to his family house. Am in agony right now, my dreams have been shattered already.
I spent the christmas and New year with bitterness. He didnt make enough provisions that will see me and the baby till january. Yesterday, a kind hearted man, gave my baby a christmas presents of 5 thousand naira, which i will forever be grateful to him,because then the kerosine i had had finshed and little food was left for me to cook.
Everyday i cry, everyday i wish all this will end. I want to be happy again. I want to smile again. I have learnt my lessons.
Never.
I want to be me again, the better me.
**sob**
nairalanders please Advise me. Nairaland ladies learn. |
| Re: My Pain, Distress And Agony As A Single Mother. by Frankraj: 8:46pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
Find a job and start working so you can be helping your baby and take care of him properly |
| Re: My Pain, Distress And Agony As A Single Mother. by iamharkinwaley: 9:17pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
ireneony:
Ok 
I wil advice you to take things easy......i know is not easy, you are a still a young girl and all hopes are not lost.
Am not here to criticize you but to advice you.
Why the agony, your baby is supposed to be your joy, for God that has taking you this far will surely see you through. Please don't swear for the father of your child because of your experience, cos that will definitely affect your child.
Just be prayer...
Try and learn a handwork to enable take care of yourself, who knows you can still go back to school to fulfill your dream
No man is worth dying for....
Please remove that stigma that you are suffering that people must pity you, instead put on a great face when you come outside and be happy, people will ask u*sis how you take do am, I de envy for * and the will put the enemies to shame.
Stay happy and remain blessed 
You said it all, put on a great face find something great to do God bless |
| Re: My Pain, Distress And Agony As A Single Mother. by reserved111(m): 11:07pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
ireneony:
eyah am more concerned about the broken roof above your head @your dp Excuse me, Why is this over-used young lady showing herself 1 Like |
