pasqal09:
I see silent treatment as a very immature way of handling issues. If he/she offends you, just tell it to his face and get it over with. Simple.

Tallesty1:
Lols..... It is deadly walahi.


I don't give silent treatment because it hurts both you and the person.

izaray:
Abi o

MizMyColi:
It doesn't matter how old you are

If you ever consciously employ silent treatment in your relationship - - - Face it! You're showcasing immaturity.

Cwaya:


Mizmycoli and pasqal09..
Immature ke ?

What if i do that for fun after telling the person the ish to her face and she still dey beef me.?

fattybombom:
Believe it or not, this is d best treatment one can give a girl since u will be called a "beast" if u lay ur hands on her.

Kachisbarbie:
I opened a thread on this issue sometime.
People can't have same opinion on it.
https://www.nairaland.com/2007309/opinion-poll-silent-treatment-maturity

I wouldn't wanna tag it immaturity, but it's just not necessary and helpful to the relationship.

izaray:
But guy, how do u always feel, whenever she is beefing u, worried i guess?

Yeah, i get worrried.
And do you know why i get worried;
-why will she still beef me even after apologising
Even when i'm wrong or when she is wrong.
I dont like quarrels so i tend to sort tinz out almost immediately.
But after my apologise, she still brings up the issue and gives me headache, i would keep calm and silent.

I would make fun from the whole movie and in no time we'll be good .

Cwaya:



Yeah, i get worrried.
And do you know why i get worried;
-why will she still beef me even after apologising
Even when i'm wrong or when she is wrong.
I dont like quarrels so i tend to sort tinz out almost immediately.
But after my apologise, she still brings up the issue and gives me headache, i would keep calm and silent.

I would make fun from the whole movie and in no time we'll be good .

Kachisbarbie:
I opened a thread on this issue sometime.
People can't have same opinion on it.
https://www.nairaland.com/2007309/opinion-poll-silent-treatment-maturity

I wouldn't wanna tag it immaturity, but it's just not necessary and helpful to the relationship.

But K-Lady,
Not every lady reason like you y'know.
Some get plenty wahala.
Even after trying to sort things out, they go like make the quarrell tey small

Sometyms, they need that kinda treatment.
But I dont overdo it.
I even see it as home comedy

Cwaya:




But K-Lady,
Not every lady reason like you y'know.
Some get plenty wahala.
Even after trying to sort things out, they go like make the quarrell tey small

Sometyms, they need that kinda treatment.
But I dont overdo it.
I even see it as home comedy

izaray:
Hahahaha..bros i like ur style jare

Hehe..
No fun in quarells y'know.
I cant withstand it especially if i dey same house with the babi.
I use to have one chick like that; she no dey gree
If i try walking out on her so i will stop hearing the stories she is telling. *Lie Lie* she go lock door

I will just lay on the bed, smile and instead of replying her, i go just dey divert the whole ish.
Quarells are boring !!
You just gotta be happy.
No dull moment

Kachisbarbie:


lols.
I am an extrovert....we don't over flog issues.
We say our mind and get over it.
Some ladies overdo things though...I guess some of us are just psyched like that.

Lmao @home comedy.
I hope she sees it as same.

You see, not all is like you.

As for the home comedy, sometimes i dey collect beating because of the way i will be laughing .


Girls wahala yakpa

fattybombom:
Believe it or not, this is d best treatment one can give a girl since u will be called a "beast" if u lay ur hands on her.

marieolae:
It depends

Being in a relationship with a very argumentative person, silence is the best answer for them. Its not about being immature, there are different ways to handle different people.

Cwaya:


Hehe..
No fun in quarells y'know.
I cant withstand it especially if i dey same house with the babi.
I use to have one chick like that; she no dey gree
If i try walking out on her so i will stop hearing the stories she is telling. *Lie Lie* she go lock door

I will just lay on the bed, smile and instead of replying her, i go just dey divert the whole ish.
Quarells are boring !!
You just gotta be happy.
No dull moment

izaray:
She must be a nagging type then, i pray she fines sum1 like you, dat will always tolerate & avoid her, just d way u wer doing, as her future hubby

Amen !!
*aah, aswear my head dey swell up now, see hype *


Anyway, She is beginning to see the need of all those stuffs i was doing then.

fattybombom:
Believe it or not, this is d best treatment one can give a girl since u will be called a "beast" if u lay ur hands on her.

RoyalPearl:
Silent treatment is really childish and for the immature/kids. There are so many better ways to resolve issues/conflict then silent treatment. If you are unhappy about something voice it and if still things don't change then maybe the r/ship was just not meant to be.

Why would two grown ups 'compete' on who can ignore the other the longest (silent treatment) when you can just talk it out. If you want space then let your partner know you want space

mynairatime:
What in a situation when talking it out leading to violent behavious, actions, words...? After you have adopted all these means, if the situation persists, it is good to use ST. Or else, it may result to phisical violence.