THE BIGGEST TRUTH ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS AND SEX (MUST READ)
1.For Ladies
2.For Guys
3.For both Ladies & Guys

1.Advice For Ladies--

If a guy tells you he loves you, and wants to have sex with you, believe me, he DOESN'T love you, all he wants is satisfaction from you..
Reasons-
1. If he loves you, he would want you for marriage, and not sex/pleasure, he would respect you and wait, he would see other beautiful things about you outside sex, He wouldn't be interested in sex because feels real happiness in him because of you. Now that's Love.
2. If you give in to him, Believe me, He will leave you for another lady, even if he eventually marries you, He would be a cheat because He has seen everything about you, you will soonest become boring to him... he wants something new outside.
3. If you say "NO" to him, and he leaves, he never loved you anyway. He only wanted a toy to play with (your body), but if he stays, then he likes you, (let's believe its temptation that made him request so much,,,that's if he stays)
4. If he says he wants to marry you, and because of that, you guys should have sex, BIG LIE--- why? because, if he wants marriage, he'll be busy planning, knowing you, your family, your attitude, your character, etc and making money too.
5. Everyman wants a faithful and God fearing wife, after going to clubs with him, when he's ready, he tells his friends, he wants someone that he can trust..... if you do "sex sex" with him and you think he would marry you, am so sorry for you, believe me--"NO BODY LIKES TO WEAR CHEAP MATERIALS" or "BUY PUBLIC MOTORS".
NOTE::: When Men are really in love, they are very scared to ask you for sex, you see them respecting and valuing you, they forget sex, they are always happy thinking of a future with you. Sex becomes unimportant to them.
(Every Guy is the same is because you have lost your value, keep it and see that everyman is not the same)

FOR THE MEN.-
When a girl is sex demanding and tells you that "if you really love her, you should prove it", or "she can not date a man who can not have sex", or that "you are not man enough", my brother, run from these kind of girls, especially for marriages...
REASONS.
1. They are never faithful after marriages. Why? Because they have seen all you can do, they want more outside, they get easily bored with one partner because it is a hobby already, what happens next?? INFIDELITY. And believe me, MEN HARDLY KNOW WHEN THEIR WIVES ARE CHEATING,
2. Imagine having children and some of these kids are not your biological children, (how would you know those that are yours sef). Women who have no self control during relationships will also not have self control after marriages because they never practised it in their youthful days, they end up sleeping with your gateman, colleagues, or even her own co-workers when you are out of town for business, etc.

3. They end up sometimes having birth related problems because of pasts abortions, abortion peels, etc and you end up suffering it with them in your marriage.

4. Women who can't do without sex in relationships can not hold your family spiritually, they are not good wives or mother, they are always complaining and are getting tired of you because you have nothing new to offer after marriage, then they start following Alhajis and CEOs.


For Both Boys and Girls who are okay having sex with each other.
If both of you are in a relationship and are fine having sex together in the name of love, you are both deceiving yourselves..
REASONS
1. Very soon, One of you is likely to leave the other, why? Loss of value---nothing new about you to anticipate for. He/she now knows you in and out, and soon will see someone better.
2. Research has proven that such relationships lead to unhappy marriages, no fun, no happiness after marriage. Why? both of you are already tired of each other...nothing new again because everything has already been revealed before the marriage--what happens next? Divorce, quarrels, unfaithfulness starts.
FINALLY, IT IS A GRIEVIOUS SIN, A MORTAL SIN, THAT GOD HATES THE MOST, 90% Of souls in Hell are victims,
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Pls my brovs & sisters, use your lifetime well, don't misuse it all because of pleasure


My dearest youths,,,,they are 1001 ways to show love and make love apart from sex....
Namely


1. Tell the other person that you love
them
2. Give a special present
3. Be there when they need a friend
4. Spend time together
5. Go to see a film.
6. Hug yourselves with laughter
7. Make sure the other person feels
important and respected
8. Kiss when people are looking
9. Kiss when people aren't looking ( Not French Kissing)
10. Tell the other person that you care
11. Hold hands
12. Visit each others parents
13. Buy presents for each other.
14. Cut each other's toenails
15. Talk about your feelings
16. Share dreams with each other
17. Gaze at each other
18. Sit together in the park
19. Take a walk together
20. Go out for a meal
21. Have a picnic
22. Go to weddings and marriages together
23. Give compliments
24. Cook a meal together
25. Plan and go on a trip together
26. Throw a party together
27. Just be there
28. Find out what's special for the other
person - and do it.
29. Eat dinner by candlelight
30. Go to a concert
31. Pray together
32. Propose marriage
Etc.
Love is Fun... .
Make it clean and keep your value
God bless

NB: Pls don't let Satan deceive you and gives you a point to argue with, let's just accept the BITTER TRUTH.

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Amen

Should I say STORY FOR THE GODS

Hmm

ACCEPT THE TRUTH AND TRY AND OBEY GOD

Nice write up

Lexaccord:
Nice write up

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Thanks sir

Don't kiss someone who is not your wife just to get sensual pleasure, that belongs to the realm of fore play, don't stir up passions you ain't ready to consume

blessedjosh:
Don't kiss someone who is not your wife just to get sensual pleasure, that belongs to the realm of fore play, don't stir up passions you ain't ready to consume

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Who said you must consume?
Face the fact my brother and stop trying to justify wrongs...

Kiss wen people aren't looking nd it wnt lead tosex.

Mhizizzy:
Kiss wen people aren't looking nd it wnt lead tosex.

Have u ever decided to fast from food?? Even wen u see food??
ITS A DECISION!!! FOR GODS SAKE!!! YOU CAN WHEN BOTH OF YOU HAVE DRAWN LINES ( BE DETERMINED )

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Nice one OP but it's better if no kissing is involved.

Little foxes...

Nonsense!!

Yes, Jashar, I understand, that's Y we are adult, there are people who can stand at their limits, so those who can't control shud avoid kissing,...

Sinizia, read your bible

Vote wisely Nigerians. God bless

AgapeCharis:
Is kissing a sin?

No. But it depends on the context
In the context of a relationship it could lead to sin.
When you're in a relationship, and you kiss your partner, how do you feel?
What thoughts run through your mind?
Are you aroused or not?

But in marriage, kissing doesn't lead to sin. You can go allllllll the way.

AgapeCharis:
Kissing is not sin but could lead to sin. Fine. You said something about been aroused when you kiss/have thoughts run through your mind. That's not a sin either I guess. It's completely normal for a human. Or is it a sin to be aroused?

My point is, it's not out of place morally and scripturally to kiss if you can/will hold back.

My dear, outside of marriage, It is an appearance of evil. I'm speaking as a Christian now ooo and the Bible says to flee the appearance of evil.
As humans, we like to test our limits and conquer them. You and your partner are kissing for instance, how long will you be able to stop @ just kissing ehn?
Jesus himself said if you look @ a person with lust in your heart, you have committed fornication already.
Why then would I want to get aroused outside of marriage?

AgapeCharis:
Get aroused outside of marriage? You mean to tell me you've never had urge for sex before? You've never been aroused before? Irrespective of what fired the arousal. It doesn't mean it's a sin. I'm speaking as a Christian as well. That

Like durrrrhhhh.... Of course I've had the urge for sex before. I be human being naaaa... When that happened, I excused myself from the equation; I fled.
My point is, will I keep putting myself in situations where I will be aroused?
NO.
'Shall we continue in sin so that grace will abound? God forbid'.

true!

AgapeCharis:
Oh. . . Continue in sin? Been aroused is now sin? Interesting

Sweerie, you're obviously not getting me.
Being aroused can lead me to sin; so, I'd rather not get aroused.
What's the point of getting turned on when I can't go all the way?
E no follow na