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7 ways to find love In 2015 by cowgirl9090: 12:27pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
If you’re looking for love in 2015 or you are a person looking to fall in love then this is for you. 1.Your Cautious Nature Can help you. The problem with love is that it’s very easy to fall in love. In fact in many kinds of circumstances, love is really just a collection of situations that if certain things line up love can happen. This is a serious problem because people that should not be in love often fall in love and people that should fall in love don’t fall in love. Your natural cautiousness and willingness to err on the side of caution serves you quite well, because by filtering out the bad romantic match ups it’s easier to see which match ups are worth it and which ones only lead to heartache. You have to remember that when it comes to matters of the heart, we’re all weak. We’re all susceptible. We’re all vulnerable. That’s very easy for us to read too much into situations and end up in the wrong relationship. You should have built-in cautious filter that is able to read out bad matches. 2.Skepticism Will Serve You well in 2015 There are a lot of people that spout out sweet words. There are people that give off seemingly irresistible and magnetic signals. These are of course very sexually attractive people. By sexually attractive, I’m not talking about physical. I’m talking also about mental and emotional. After all love is primarily a mental process. You have to remember that it’s one thing to get into a physical relationship. It’s something completely different to get into an emotional relationship. You maybe get hurt physically but physical wounds heal. It’s much harder to heal emotional and spiritual wounds. This is why the skeptical nature can serve you quite well in 2015 because oftentimes confused and disoriented people send out all sorts of signals and they end up getting into relationships that they shouldn’t be getting into. If somebody is in the bad spot in their lives, you don’t necessarily have to join them if you don’t haveYourYour natural skepticism will enable you to avoid unnecessary drama. 3.You Are Willing To Work Hard and That Is Inspiring Love happens when people are inspired or there is some sort of situation where the walls that normally surround a heart fall down. In many cases, it takes the right timing. It takes the right set of circumstances for these walls to fall down. In many cases, there’s only one small window of opportunity and you have to seize that opportunity, otherwise you will not fall in love. Your ability to work hard will often get noticed especially in the work setting. This makes you quite attractive to people who are paying attention to you. It’s very hard to miss somebody who is willing to work hard and actually works hard. The fact that you are in the spotlight puts you in the great position, because in the game of love it often all boils down to disability. You might be a great person. You might have a lot to offer but all that goes out the window if people can’t see you. If you are able to get noticed some way or other, there are more romantic opportunities that will open up for you and this is precisely what’s going to happen with people that are willing to work hard. 4.Your Goal-Oriented Nature Sets People at Ease There are many ways people size each other up in terms of romantic partnerships. Some people are purely physical. In other words, they judge you based solely on how you look. Others are completely emotional and they judge you based on the words they hear and how they feel when they’re around you. Other people look at you based on the values that you have. If you are all about buying the right house, driving the right car, taking care of the future, making sure you make enough money. In other words, you base your security on material things. This doesn’t mean you're materialists This thus means you are practical. Many people who share that same set of values can get quite turn on and really appreciate your goal- oriented nature. 5.Your Focus on Your Appearance Attracts a Lot of people. I’m not just talking about being physically fit or using the right hair care products or buying the right clothes. I’m talking about something that goes beyond fashion or accessories or even physical appearance. You should also play a very big premium on looking good socially. In other words, you want to be respected. When you walk into a room, Your social status appears. Everybody knows where you are in the totem pole. Your focus on social and physical appearance can help you in 2015. 6.Your Ability to Get Along With People on a Shallow Level Can Take You Places One key factor in finding love for in 2015 is how mobile you are. I’m not talking about being able to go from point A to point B or from one point of the map to another. I’m talking about social space. I’m talking about being able to navigate different pulls of people and different groups of strangers. If you can be quite social although you develop very few close friends. This can actually help you in 2015 because to make a love connection you have to break the ice. at least making the effort in reaching out albeit on a shallow level. The good news is that it doesn’t have to stay shallow any of real emotional relationship of course needs to go get pass initial attraction stage and start getting deeper and involve a lot of emotional authenticity and spiritual bonding. 7.Your Ability to Develop Few Friends. The problem with the people who are able to develop lots of friends is that most of their friendships are really acquaintances. These are people that they can network with. These are people that they can say they know. While this may be great on a business or political and/or economic level from a deep and profound spiritual development and emotional development bases, this is probably not the way to go. This is why you know your limits. You can develop very few real friends but the few friends that You actually have are really close friends. These are friends that would take a bullet for you. These are friends that you feel truly know you. This is very comforting to many people who are looking forward deep levels of emotional connection and emotional authenticity. Instead of turning off people, this actually can make you quite attractive to people hard looking for deep emotional depth. What’s the point of a shallow emotional relationship, it doesn’t really allow you to grow and develop as a person and as a couple? Your Introverted Nature can Make You Mysterious and Appealing Mysterious people have always been attractive; that there’s something about that mysterious new stranger that goes into town that really gets people excited. That the sad reality is that people often at some level or other look at life some sort of soap opera. People like drama. People like the thrill of discovery. People like the thrill of tracing a story from the beginning to the end. They love controversy. And when introverted people enter the scene, they are naturally mysterious because they don’t like to talk about themselves. They don’t like to grab the spotlight. They don’t like to brag or put on a show. (To the introverts: I advice you do well to use this to your advantage because your introverted nature far from being ability can actually be quite an asset when it comes to drawing the right pair of eyes in 2015. |
Re: 7 ways to find love In 2015 by Redoil: 12:30pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
Eroticangelina please give a chance and a try |
Re: 7 ways to find love In 2015 by fharmah(m): 12:31pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
yawns |
Re: 7 ways to find love In 2015 by Cruzeiro(m): 12:38pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
I'd rather fall asleep. |
Re: 7 ways to find love In 2015 by cutieberie1(f): 12:45pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
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Re: 7 ways to find love In 2015 by Udehpaschal1(m): 12:58pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
cutieberie1: how if i may ask? |
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