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7 ways to find love In 2015 by cowgirl9090: 12:27pm On Jan 11, 2015
If you’re looking for love in
2015 or you are a person looking to fall in love then this is for you.

1.Your Cautious Nature Can help you.
The problem with love is that it’s very
easy to fall in love. In fact in many
kinds of circumstances, love is really
just a collection of situations that if
certain things line up love can happen.
This is a serious problem because
people that should not be in love often
fall in love and people that should fall in
love don’t fall in love. Your natural cautiousness and willingness to err on the side of caution
serves you quite well, because
by filtering out the bad romantic match
ups it’s easier to see which match ups
are worth it and which ones only lead
to heartache.
You have
to remember that when it comes to
matters of the heart, we’re all weak.
We’re all susceptible. We’re all
vulnerable.
That’s very easy for us to read too
much into situations and end up in the
wrong relationship. You should have built-in cautious filter that is able to read out bad matches.

2.Skepticism Will Serve You well in 2015
There are a lot of people that spout out
sweet words. There are people that
give off seemingly irresistible and
magnetic signals. These are of course
very sexually attractive people.
By sexually attractive, I’m not talking
about physical. I’m talking also about
mental and emotional. After all love is
primarily a mental process.
You have to remember that it’s one
thing to get into a physical
relationship. It’s something completely
different to get into an emotional
relationship. You maybe get hurt
physically but physical wounds heal.
It’s much harder to heal emotional and
spiritual wounds.
This is why the skeptical nature can serve you quite well in 2015 because oftentimes confused
and disoriented people send out all
sorts of signals and they end up
getting into relationships that they
shouldn’t be getting into.
If somebody is in the bad spot in their
lives, you don’t necessarily have to join
them if you don’t haveYourYour natural
skepticism will enable you to avoid unnecessary drama.

3.You Are Willing To Work
Hard and That Is Inspiring
Love happens when people are
inspired or there is some sort of
situation where the walls that normally
surround a heart fall down. In many
cases, it takes the right timing. It takes
the right set of circumstances for these
walls to fall down. In many cases,
there’s only one small window of
opportunity and you have to seize that
opportunity, otherwise you will not fall
in love.
Your ability to work hard will
often get noticed especially in the work
setting. This makes you
quite attractive to people who are
paying attention to you. It’s very
hard to miss somebody who is willing
to work hard and actually works hard.
The fact that you are in the spotlight
puts you in the great position, because
in the game of love it often all boils
down to disability. You might be a
great person.
You might have a lot to offer but all
that goes out the window if people
can’t see you. If you are able to get
noticed some way or other, there are
more romantic opportunities that will
open up for you and this is precisely
what’s going to happen with people that are willing to work hard.

4.Your Goal-Oriented Nature
Sets People at Ease
There are many ways people size each
other up in terms of romantic
partnerships. Some people are purely
physical. In other words, they judge
you based solely on how you look.
Others are completely emotional and
they judge you based on the words
they hear and how they feel when
they’re around you. Other people look
at you based on the values that you
have. If you are all about buying the right house, driving the right car, taking care
of the future, making sure you make
enough money. In other words, you
base your security on material things.
This doesn’t mean you're materialists
This thus means you are practical. Many people who share that same
set of values can get quite turn on
and really appreciate your goal-
oriented nature.

5.Your Focus on Your
Appearance Attracts a Lot of people. I’m not just talking about
being physically fit or using the right
hair care products or buying the right
clothes. I’m talking about something
that goes beyond fashion or
accessories or even physical appearance. You should also play a very big premium on looking good socially. In other words, you want to be respected. When you walk into a room,
Your social status appears. Everybody
knows where you are in the totem pole.
Your focus on social and
physical appearance can
help you in 2015.

6.Your Ability to Get Along
With People on a Shallow Level Can Take You Places One key factor in finding love for in 2015 is how mobile you are. I’m not talking about being able to go
from point A to point B or from one
point of the map to another. I’m talking
about social space. I’m talking about
being able to navigate different pulls of
people and different groups of strangers.
If you can be quite social although you develop very few close friends. This can actually help you in 2015
because to make a love connection
you have to break the ice. at least making the effort in reaching out albeit on a shallow level.
The good news is that it doesn’t have
to stay shallow any of real emotional
relationship of course needs to go get
pass initial attraction stage and start
getting deeper and involve a lot of
emotional authenticity and spiritual
bonding.

7.Your Ability to Develop Few Friends.
The problem with the people who are
able to develop lots of friends is that
most of their friendships are really
acquaintances. These are people that
they can network with.
These are people that they can say they know. While this may be great on a business or political and/or
economic level from a deep and
profound spiritual development and
emotional development bases, this is
probably not the way to go. This is why you know your limits. You can develop very
few real friends but the few friends that
You actually have are really close
friends. These are friends that would
take a bullet for you. These are friends that you feel truly know you.
This is very comforting to many people
who are looking forward deep levels of
emotional connection and emotional
authenticity. Instead of turning off
people, this actually can make you
quite attractive to people hard looking
for deep emotional depth. What’s the point of a shallow emotional
relationship, it doesn’t really allow you
to grow and develop as a person and as a couple?
Your Introverted Nature can Make You Mysterious and
Appealing
Mysterious people have always been
attractive; that there’s something about
that mysterious new stranger that goes
into town that really gets people excited. That the sad reality is that
people often at some level or other look
at life some sort of soap opera. People like drama. People like the thrill
of discovery. People like the thrill of
tracing a story from the beginning to
the end. They love controversy. And
when introverted people enter the
scene, they are naturally mysterious
because they don’t like to talk about themselves. They don’t like to grab the spotlight.
They don’t like to brag or put on a show. (To the introverts: I advice you do well to use this to your advantage
because your introverted nature far from being ability can actually be quite an asset when it comes to drawing the
right pair of eyes in 2015.
Re: 7 ways to find love In 2015 by Redoil: 12:30pm On Jan 11, 2015
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Re: 7 ways to find love In 2015 by fharmah(m): 12:31pm On Jan 11, 2015
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Re: 7 ways to find love In 2015 by Cruzeiro(m): 12:38pm On Jan 11, 2015
I'd rather fall asleep. undecided
Re: 7 ways to find love In 2015 by cutieberie1(f): 12:45pm On Jan 11, 2015
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Re: 7 ways to find love In 2015 by Udehpaschal1(m): 12:58pm On Jan 11, 2015
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