I need advise on what to do. I couldn't find sleep that night and I managed to dose off 3times, those 3 times I dreamt my wife to be was pleading with me to forgive her for cheating on me. This is weird because it felt so real. My feeling towards her changed instantly and I felt nothing for her anymore. She is currently in her home town and I know she used to date a guy from her town who stays in abuja, could something be going on behind me. Please advise.

can you pray?

One dream made you change your feelings for her entirely...okay, continue

It cud be in 3 ways- 1. God cud be showing u dat she is not faithful, 2. D devil may want to separate u frm ur right partner 3. It cud be as a result of ur thoughts which brought about the dreams. Advice- pray fervently and sleep then dream again.

Broz nah 2 things dey involve..
1. Gr8 dose of Malaria parasite dey ur body OR
2. Ur neigbour mst ve cooked wiv firewood nd I think among d wood was a wood frm oha tree.

Except u re not tellin us u re a prophet frm Judas Iscariot..

@emeraldoe: thanks for ur response but which is it really am confused.

zoonermm:
I need advise on what to do. I couldn't find sleep that night and I managed to dose off 3times, those 3 times I dreamt my wife to be was pleading with me to forgive her for cheating on me. This is weird because it felt so real. My feeling towards her changed instantly and I felt nothing for her anymore. She is currently in her home town and I know she used to date a guy from her town who stays in abuja, could something be going on behind me. Please advise.

Did you think of this guy before she went there or when she was there before you had this dream?

1. See a doctor to confirm, if you have got fever or its neighbour malaria. 2. Pray about it. 3. Talk to her about it. 4. Ask yourself this question. I'm I faithful to her? 5. Share your dream with trustworthy adults or parent(s)

After I had the dream was when I remembered he is existing

zoonermm:
After I had the dream was when I remembered he is existing

Call her and tell her about your dream.

carefreewannabe:


Call her and tell her about your dream.

I did call her and she said nothing like that, she even swore that she should have accident on her way back if she did. But guys we know except we catch them red handed. Am not saying I don't trust her, maybe its d devil at work.

zoonermm:


I did call her and she said nothing like that, she even swore that she should have accident on her way back if she did. But guys we know except we catch them red handed. Am not saying I don't trust her, maybe its d devil at work.

You either trust her or you don't.

Op, you can only make serious decisions based on concrete evidence. If you do not have concrete evidence that she is cheating on you, your accusations are nothing and will not hold water.

zoonermm:
I need advise on what to do. I couldn't find sleep that night and I managed to dose off 3times, those 3 times I dreamt my wife to be was pleading with me to forgive her for cheating on me. This is weird because it felt so real. My feeling towards her changed instantly and I felt nothing for her anymore. She is currently in her home town and I know she used to date a guy from her town who stays in abuja, could something be going on behind me. Please advise.

Nothing to do but confront her and ask her if she is cheating on you. Get it out in the open instead of dying in silence.

Very funny Man U are!

U had a dream which could be a figment of your imagination or malaria or the devil playing tricks on u and "your feelings changed towards her and you felt nothing for her instantly"!!! You've also gone ahead to say "but guys we won't know unless we catch them red handed".

In other words, you don't trust her and don't believe her and would like to catch her red handed. (Just because of a mere dream?)

Have you had cause to doubt her fidelity to u prior to this bizarre dream? If not,Cure the malaria first and try and dream again.

Women sef don see sointin for this world!

You are just dreaming what is on your mind..

No make jealousy kill you o..

emeraldoe:
It cud be in 3 ways- 1. God cud be showing u dat she is not faithful, 2. D devil may want to separate u frm ur right partner 3. It cud be as a result of ur thoughts which brought about the dreams. Advice- pray fervently and sleep then dream again.

OP, she has given you the perfect answer. GBAM!!!
One thing is, never disregard dreams. It is one of the ways God communicates to us. It tells us about things that may happen. Though, not every dreams, but then every dreams should be taken seriously,you don't know which one will come true.( I am talking from experience)

In your own case, for the dream to occur 3times, God is giving you message there.

What you can do is to fast for three days, pray fervently, tell God to reveal the mystery behind the dreams you had about her, then on the third day after praying and breaking the fast, sleep immediately so that God will reveal some things about her to you. And there lies your answer.